So my future mother in law's sister died 2 weeks ago.. The son of the sister rang our lass but refused to tell Tracey's mum. They didn't tell us when the funeral would be. It was yesterday. Now the lil so and so has sent several mealy mouthed messages to our lass, calling her and her mum uphill and down dale for not coming out to see his mum before she died. Tracey's mum ended up in hospital herself from the stress! Tracey is real angry with the man. Tracey's mum is boiling. I read the texts and have to say I was annoyed, nay, I wanted to advise the man of his shortcomings. However, it's not directed at me, the guy has just lost his mum, maybe he's not thinking straight. I'll have to let this one go. Projection though is saying one more rotten text from the shit and he'll be getting his heid in his hands tae play wi.... I suppose the best thing I can do is give the mother in law as much support and love as I can muster, and double that for Tracey. I still think the nephew is a cockwomble though.