Not sure what to do about my situation. It took me years to have my eyes open to the deception some people used. I don't know whether to cry or feel angry. My former husband and I were married in the Catholic Church which means no sex unless we are trying to conceive. He did not like it, so he went and got a bottle of brandy for me to drink. That way he could loosen me up to have sex. Doing so just made me sick, so I wound up leaving him. He guilt-tripped me the entire marriage. I was the one who bought our house. He wound up stealing my house. I am not sure what to do now. Can I attach a lien to his current house? I am living with family at the moment. I need to have my own home. I feel so betrayed and heartbroken.