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It was in the wee hours when my wife's labour really began. We had gone to bed early because she knew it was coming and we wanted to get as much rest as possible. We laid in the dark and I let her crush my hand while I tried to help her through the contractions. I did my best to try things we learned in the prenatal class but I felt a little helpless. I timed the contractions and when I thought it was time called the midwife. We drove to the hospital and it was windy and pouring and dark. It felt like a crazy exciting dream. My wife's contractions were coming quite fast and secretly I worried that we might end up having a baby in the car. But I kept as calm as possible and kept reassuring her that we were "almost there". We finally did arrive and 15 minutes later we had a 9 pound 1.5 ounce baby girl. Afterwards when my wife and I were laughing about how surreal it all was she toldlme that she loved lying in the dark with me working through the contractions together. She said it so peaceful with the wind and the rain outside and us under our big down blanket. My wife isn't usually a very emotionally expressive person so that meant a lot to me. We chose not to find out what we were having ahead of time but I was hoping for a girl. What a happy day.



-- Edited by Butterfinger on Thursday 21st of November 2013 09:02:52 AM

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Congratulations Butterfinger!!!! Was her birth this past Halloween? How wonderful and blessed a time for you and your wife! Thanks for sharing your wonderful story!

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Yep, just a few short weeks ago. I'm in bed posting on my phone and she's asleep between me and my wife. She looks so beautiful that I felt like sharing about her.

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Hey Butterfinger, a HUGE CONGRATS to you!!!!! There is nothing more beautiful than the birth of a baby,,,,,

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I was present during the birth of both our sons, 1st in '74 and the 2nd in '80 ... ... ... it sure is a miracle to behold, for sure ... Congrats man ... need anymore reasons to 'not drink' ???????



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Awe precious :) Congrats. She will get to grow up without the devastating affects of alcoholism in her life. I grew up in an alcoholic home - tho my dad was functioning and ran a very successful business - it was all the more crazy because we had to hide so much about our lives and put on a happy face to the world when it was sooooooooooo not happy. I hope you will get to stay here, and she will get to stay free.

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Yay we love you and are happy for you despite you calling us all retarded. Thanks for sharing.

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Blessingssmilesmile

 



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Congratulations.

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MARK! LOLOLOL! Seriously laughing to the point of peeing my pants again.


There is no easier softer way = love prevails :)

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Aloha BF and Aloha to your growing family.  Bless sobriety because it all gets much much better that way.   Is she your first and only?   (((hugs)))  smile



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I'd be willing to bet he also has another young one about 2 years old.

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pinkchip wrote:

I'd be willing to bet he also has another young one about 2 years old.


 I think you're right.



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Don't take the bait.

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You folks must be psychic because I do have another little girl and she is 2 years old. She's very excited about being a big sister. How I ended up blessed with such an amazing family is one of the great mysteries of the world. I guess Hollywood good looks and boyish charm accounts for a lot of it :)

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Nothing can kill "Hollywood good looks" like booze. As far as "charm", I haven't been too charming when I was a drinker either.

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