These are for the people on this board that have children. I'm 18 and both of my parents are As. Here are books that I recommend to read that I have found helpful(I haven't read all of them but I have read 3 of them front to back; I have read only a little bit of 9 of them which includes the 3 I read front to back; and 1 I haven't read at all):

1. Drinking: A Love Story written by Caroline Knapp
   
   
2. Of Course You're Angry: A Family Guide To Dealing With The Emotions Of Chemical Dependence written by Gayle Rosellini and Mark Worden
   
   
3. LOVEBOUND Recovering From An Alcoholic Family written by Phyllis Hobe
   
   
4. Alateen-Hope For Children Of Alchoholics published by Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.
   
   
5. My Mama's Waltz: A Book for Daughters Of Alcoholics written by Eleanor Agnew and Sharon Robideaux
   
   
6. The Adult Children of Alcoholics Syndrome: From Discovery to Recovery written by Wayne Kritsberg
   
   
7. Getting Then Sober - You Can Help! written by Toby Rice Drews
   
   
8. Adult Children Of Alcoholics Expanded Edition written by Janet Geringer Woititz
   
   
9. Recovery: A Guide For Adult Children Of Alcoholics written by Herbert L. Gravitz and Julie D. Bowden
   
   
10. It Will Never Happen To Me written by Claudia Black

Lanchas