Why are we discouraged? None of us have been able to do these steps perfectly. We are striving for the ideal. That's all that is important. Setbacks are there to give us strength. The paradox: when I am weak, then I am strong. God is interested in weak people, so that He may help us with our infirmities. I find Him to be a loving God, despite the way I think, act & behave. He sends rain to the good & the evil. What did I do to deserve this. Nothing. Still, He does, without my asking & even not being grateful. How much more will He do for those of His children who love Him & do what He asks of them.