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I know it's a strange question, and your thinking "if she doesnt know, than she probably is"  and thats what I was thinking but everyone is telling me that I'm not.  The thing is, my husband is and I have been a member of Alanon for a while now.  I am pregnant and obviously havent had a drink in a while.  We use to drink together, but I never got as drunk as him.  I did drink every night but I went to sleep at a reasonable hour and only kept a buzz the whole time.  My husband is in recovery now and he has said to met hat I have a problem too.  So I started thinking about it and I realized that I do like to drink, I was rasied in an alcoholic family so it is not unusual to drink everyday.  But I did quit easily when I got pregnant, both times.  My pastor thinks that my husband is convincing me that I have a problem too so that he doesnt have to go throught this alone or to take some heat off of him.  But I dont know.  I guess what I'm asking is, what makes an alcoholic?  I have looked up the dictionary term and I still dont know if I had a problem.  I think that I might have gotten as bad as my husband if I havent been pregnant most of my adult life.  I am only 23 and I had my son a week before I turned 21.  Can someone please tell me if it seems like I have a problem?

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From the Big Book Of AA:


 


 


"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably an alcoholic."


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                                                                                   YES     NO






1.
Do you lose time from work due to drinking?



2.
Is drinking making your home life unhappy?



3.
Do you drink because you are shy with other people?



4.
Is drinking affecting your reputation?



5.
Have you ever felt remorse after drinking?



6.
Have you gotten into financial difficulties as a result of drinking?



7.
Do you turn to lower companions and an inferior environment when drinking?



8.
Does your drinking make you careless of your family's welfare?



9.
Has your ambition decreased since drinking?



10.
Do you crave a drink at a definite time daily?



11.
Do you want a drink the next morning?



12.
Does drinking cause you to have difficulty sleeping?



13.
Has your efficiency decreased since drinking?



14.
Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business?



15.
Do you drink to escape from worries or troubles?



16.
Do you drink alone?



17.
Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of drinking?



18.
Has your physician ever treated you for drinking?



19.
Do you drink to build up your self-confidence?



20.
Have you ever been to a hospital or Institution on account of drinking?




3 or more yes answers?      Likely



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http://155.41.222.5/AS/index.aspx?CID=86


use this link for a self test if u would like



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Sit down and make a list of all the positive benefits that will happen in your life if you stop drinking...from saving money to how much better off your new baby will be having a clear headed, sober mom and everything in between.

After looking at that list if isn't the easiest thing in the world to walk away from booze forever than you're probably an alcoholic.

-- Edited by TipsyMcStagger at 11:54, 2005-09-14

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Wow, this is a hard one for me. I am married to an alcoholic who has been sober for 15 yrs, I have been sober for 4 1/2 yrs. I never thought I was the problem, it was always HIM. After he quit drinking, I started to sneak around and hide my drinking. I really thought I could control it but found that I couldn't. Alcoholism is a progressive disease...it only got worse, never could moderate it. Eventually I found myself alone and almost homeless...that's when I found out I was powerless.


I will tell you that after about 2 yrs into my husband's sobriety he quit trying to get me to stop drinking. That's when it really got crazy for me. I went to Alanon because they didn't tell me I had to quit drinking. Everything I did was in someway related to drinking...the jobs I took, the people I was friends with, etec...I had a mental obsession with alcohol along with the physical allergy.


If you have a Big Book, read the  Drs. Opinion and the first 3 chapters. Read it more than once. Look for yourself in those pages. Ask yourself these questions..."are they talking about me? Is it possilbe I am NOT an alcoholic?"


Love, cheri



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