Can anyone become an alcoholic/addict? I guess I'm wondering that if my path was different in the past, would I have turned out different? I know that environmental factors go into almost everything. I'm not asking to find an excuse, but just out of curiosity. Do you have to be a 'special' (no pun intended ) to develop an addiction as strong as I did, or was it the way that I abused it from the beginning?? I just feel like from day 1, I woke up after a night of drinking craving more alcohol to calm myself, where as others got hang-overs (headaches and such). I know that all of our minds are different...but physically are we?
You are 4-8 times more likely to become an alcoholic if you have a family history of the disease. Often it's not the parents that had the disease but the grand parents, aunts and uncles, so many think that it's Not in the family when It really is. You can also develop alcoholism through abuse. I've had many people ask me about it over the years. They say things like "I have 1 glass of wine every night". I tell them to skip a couple nights a week. You just never no when or if that switch will flip. It's odd that at the same time that the brain decides to obsess about it, the liver's tolerance begins to change and the effects vary from day to day. Some nights 6 drinks produces a moderate affect, and the next night 4 drinks and the person is hammered. That's the cruelest part. The not knowing. Looking back, the scariest part was the poor decisions that I made when I was drunk. I should've died a good number of times. I truly believe in angels, there's no other explanation that works.
The brains and livers of alcoholics have been proven by scientific research to process alcohol differently, and give off different chemical compounds when the alcohol is broken down than the brains of those who are not alcoholic.
Beyond that, I know that we have a 3-fold illness, mental, physical and spiritual. If any one of these IS functioning properly, I don't really know whether a person would be an alcoholic.
All I know is that I am one, and knowing is my greatest strength, upon which all my other effort has rested (step one...)
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~Your Higher Power has not given you a longing to do that which you have no ability to do.
Thanks guys...that made me think about it differently. It's such a challenging disease to understand. But it makes sense that an alcoholic "processes" the alcohol differently than a non-alcoholic. Thanks!