The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear--primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and frustration. Therefore, no peace was to be had unless we could find a means of reducing these demands.
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For all its usual destructiveness, we have found that fear can be the starting point for better things. Fear can be a steppingstone to prudence and to a decent respect for others. It can point the path to justice, as well as to hate. And the more we have of respect and justice, the more we shall begin to find the love which can suffer much, and yet be freely given. So fear need not always be destructive, because the lessons of its consequences can lead us to positive values.
"The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered fear--primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and frustration. Therefore, no peace was to be had unless we could find a means of reducing these demands."
I am not really sure I understand this.
editing in: but I have a feeling it has a lot to do with where I am at
Dakota we have shared on the board and privately and I'm not "pushing", but a lot of what you read you may not understand until you hit a few meetings and start working the Steps.
No person, place or thing is going to keep me sober. How I stay sober started in the meetings of Alcohlics Anonymous.
I'm glad you share so openly, you could really be an asset in the meetings!
