Without giving too much confidentiality away, I work in the correctional system with juveniles on a substance abuse unit. Most of them are not ready to surrender and do not see their substance abuse as a problem or what got them where they are. Right now I have about 3 youths who, to varying degrees realize substance abuse was the main problem. Only 1 of them is mature enough to independently recognize some of the principles of AA/NA. He asked his parents to give him a big book and other literature and has come to me with the realization that his whole life is not going to work unless he stays sober. I find that amazingly inspiring coming from a 17 year old. Technically, they all come out with over 6 months dry. This is the only youth who is achieving some sobriety. Where I live there is an institution commission that takes meetings to jails and other places where alcoholics and addicts cannot get out to come to meetings. You need 1 year sober time to get involved in that service. It is linked to intergroup.
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