Hey all! I have a friend who is an alcoholic. Her husband is her enabler - codependent etc. He is also in denial about her drinking. Anyhow, I realize each person needs a desire to stop abusing themselves etc. However, She is recovering from surgery. She is totally detoxing---hallucinating etc. Her daughter has reached out to me for advice (which I don't do). The daughter would like to have an intervention. Any tips?? I am well aware of my boundaries too. The only thing i mentioned is praying and owning her own words....not to be angry. You know, "I" statements etc. I know to be real careful around these situations and be a good listener. Phew---at least I have learned one thing!! Perhaps the hospital can offer some avenues?? Not sure. Just helping a friend out if possible. Thanks.
Prayers are with you on this one. I guess if my daughter confronted me and was totally honest about her feelings, perhaps Id take a good look at myself.
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She needs to be in a hospital or detox. She could die. Especially after having surgery... Been there myself about 5 yrs ago.....I'd worry about the intervention later.
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