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Just looking for some help and guidance
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Hi there,I'm just reaching out online for the first time. I'm not particulairly new to the program but I am young (21). This time I've got just about 6 months sober in the program. I live in a remote northern community so at most there's 3 meetings a week. That being said I love the meetings (just wish we co...
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Today's Gift 4/8
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GoodwillHave you ever envied someone else's good fortune? Consider the friend who calls with a different ring to her voice. Instead of sharing her troubles and woes, she proceeds to tell you good news. Something exciting, financially beneficial, glamorous, wonderful beyond belief has happened...
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Grapevine
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April 8 "The process of one alcoholic confiding in another has without a doubt saved my life. Nowhere else have I ever found such devotion and understanding as with AA sponsoring."
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Grapevine
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April 7 "I'm not so quick to judge others. If I'm critical of you, it's often because I'm trying to ignore that quality in myself."
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Sunrise Quote
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Thoughts lead on to purposes; purposes go forth in action; actions form habits; habits decide character; and character fixes our destiny.~ Tryon Edwards
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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April 6, 2015Quote of the Week"Everyone wants to feel better, but no one wants to change." Before recovery, I did a lot of things to feel better. I moved, changed jobs, girlfriends, cars, tried different combinations of drugs and alcohol, took up yoga, joined a gym - the list is endless...
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Welcome to MIP 'slurms'
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Glad you found us ... thanks for posting ... slurms posted: Hi there,I'm just reaching out online for the first time. I'm not particulairly new to the program but I am young (21). This time I've got just about 6 months sober in the program. I live in a remote northern community so at most there's 3 meetin...
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Antabuse
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Hi, New here! This Sunday 4/5/15 I'll be getting my 30 day chip. Just got out of treatment for my OD, and this Friday will be starting treatment for my alcoholism. During my 3 week stint including a few days IP on psych ward and then doing a 3 week intensive outpatient program to deal with my Bipolar II, I st...
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Mahalo
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For the kind thoughts and prayers and heartfelt expressions which sobriety allows us to feel and express with others. I am trying to be obedient and humble. Its not impossible and it is difficult mostly because of that egotistical gene I carry. Humorously and humbly HP puts tons of people in m...
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Today's Gift 4/6
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Reflection for the DayEvery person, no matter what his or her balance for good or evil, is a part of the Divine economy. We are all children of God, and it is unlikely that God intends to favor one over another. So it is necessary for all of us to accept whatever positive gifts we receive with a deep humilit...
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Great Easter and Gratitude Idea....
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Came away from my home group this morning and on the way home was expressing to my wife the positives of this journey of hospitalization and recovery over the last couple months. I expressed the need during the hospital stay for the need to have AA literature available during the quiet, still times...
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Sunrise Quote
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The picture you have of yourself, your self-esteem, will have a profound effect on the way you see the world and the way your world sees you.~ Earl Nightingale
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Today's Gift 4/5
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Reflection for the DayThe Program is a road, not a resting place. Before we came to The Program - and, for some of us, many times afterward - most of us looked for answers to our living problems in religion, philosophy, psychology, self-help groups, and so on. Invariably, these fields held forth the go...
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Sunrise Quote
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Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.~ Epicurus
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Today's Gift 4/4
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If I should lose, let me stand by the road and cheer as the winners go by. --Berton BradleyIf we are to be among the winners in the recovery from addiction and obsession, we must maintain the attitude of success. Winners in any Twelve Step program take fearless inventories, correct shortcomings, and w...
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Fun In Recovery
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When I first came into the program I was attracted to stay because I was able to find Fun In Recovery! With a background in the Entertainment Industry, I found a place where I could bring my talents to the fellowship, and help others to realize we are not a glum lot. I served on a couple entertainment com...
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Nouvelle venue
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Bonjour à tous, Je suis nouvelle sur le forum! Je me présente je ai 34ans, sans emploi de ACTUELLEMENT, je suis célibataire, je vis Seule et l'alcool is Entré Dans ma vie en avril 2012. Je suis plutot de Nature Timide, très discrète, pas franchement A l'aise en société. Je suis quelqu'un de calme Qui str...
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Today's Gift 4/3
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Conflict can produce positive results.If our policy is to avoid conflict at all cost, we may impede our growth by trying to sweep important issues under the rug and refusing to deal with them. The issues don't disappear, however, and by sweeping them under the rug, we make them more toxic and unwieldy...
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Spiritual Things I OPractice Today
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No one has the moral right to deliberately hurt another either through acts of commission or ommision...that is not God's Will.....That must be left in the hands of God..and your job is to forgive..and NEVER retaliate or harbor resentment. God is LOVE My Sobriety is Contingent to my Spiritual well...
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Grapevine
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April 2 "Nothing is so bad that a drink won't make worse."
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Today's Gift 4/2
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Awareness, Acceptance, ActionDear God,Slow me down when all I do is try to fix and control things and people. Help me to first accept situations, as they are when I become aware of them.Slow me down in your stillness.Mark my awareness with unselfishness, my acceptance with humility, and my actions w...
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People who Prey Emotionally on Others in AA
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What causes women in AA to prey on other women who show vulnerabilities? You know, like people who use their share to "subtly" cut down the previous share of someone who hadn't sounded confident. Or people who try to get someone with trust issues to trust them, only to end up playing mind gam...
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Fooling myself
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I had some insight that I was drinking alcoholically before I ever admitted it out loud...I knew it wasn't normal to hide the bottles (and worry if they would be found). I knew it wasn't normal to lie about drinking. I knew it wasn't normal to plan my day around drinking and I definitely knew it wasn't nor...
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Grapevine
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April 1 "Sobriety is precious! A fact I didn't know until I had some."
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Welcome to MIP Augie Doggie
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Welcome Augie Doggie, ... I am positive we will enjoy and cherish your ESH here on MIP ... Please share frequently ... our support to each other is both needed and fulfilling, to know we have helped someone make the 'right' decisions ... ... ... Love ya brother and God Bless, Pappy
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Prayer request.
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Please pray for my newborn grandson, Nathanael. His heart stopped during birth and he had to revived. He is in ICU at our hospital. I had already built his cot, compactum and furniture for him. This was going to be my daughter's 1st baby and I am sober to witness it. Unfortunately we are under a life and de...
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Growing Along Spiritual Lines
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When I was a young child I'd wake up in the night crying...and complain to my mother that I had cramps in my legs...she told me that was because I was growing and getting bigger...She'd often take me down to Macy's in N.Y. where I was fitted with a new pair ofr Buster Brown shoes...the older ones didn't fit...
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Sunrise Quote
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For true success, ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?~ James Allen
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Today's Gift 3/31
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Whatever you may be sure of, be sure of this, you are dreadfully like other people. -- James Russell LowellSharing our many experiences with our friends in Twelve Step meetings helps us understand how very similar we all are. We are unique only in the sense that each of us has a special contribution to m...
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Grapevine
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March 31 "The unity of our Fellowship, the love we cherish for each other, the esteem in which the world holds us -- all of these are products of such integrity, as under God, we have been privileged to achieve. May we therefore quicken our search for still more genuine honor, and deepen its pract...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 30, 2015Quote of the Week"Anger and resentment are masks for fear." When I came into the program, I was pretty angry. With the alcohol and drugs gone, I very quickly got in touch with my feelings, and for me that meant my anger quickly turned into rage. Oh, and resentments - I had a lot...
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Abused married woman in need of guidance
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I don't even know where to start. I'm in crisis. Mainly due to my codependent marriage which is quite abusive. My husband runs me into the ground emotionally as hard as he can and enjoys it completely, like he delights in it. He is an alcoholic like me, and this has just become intolerable. I'm in the mids...
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Grapevine
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March 30 "I thank God for bringing me to Alcoholics Anonymous, but mostly I thank Alcoholics Anonymous for bringing me to God."
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Sunrise Quote
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Each of us has the freedom to choose how we will respond to the circumstances in which we find ourselves.~ Nido Qubein
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Today's Gift 3/30
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I usually just lived one day at a time. I never had a sense of where I was going. --Ruth CaseyDid any of us really know where we were going? We probably spent many hours, days, weeks even, making detailed plans for the people around us. These plans didn't usually suit others so they didn't often materiali...
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Emotional relapse.
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I lost my temper and became very angry with my wife recently. This has not happened in very many years. It was not pleasant at all. The emotional tragedy of alcoholism is one of the most dangerous thing for an alcoholic like me. Waves of self pity, resentment and anger plagued me for days. My outburst of a...
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Today's Gift 3/29
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I walked a mile with Sorrow, And never a word said she; But, Oh, the things I learned from her When Sorrow walked with me! -- Robert Browning HamiltonWe may think that forgetting the past is essential for growth and peace of mind. It's a tempting idea: we'll start over again, we think, fresh and new. But i...
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Long Term Sobriety---Keeping it Fresh
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As a member since 4/98, I am wondering how y'all keep your long term sobriety fresh. after 6 1/2 years I went out for 3 months in '03. I recommited myself and recently celebrated my 11 year anniversary on 2/20 this year. I am trying to reignite my program and having a hard time of it. Meetings are gett...
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Sunrise Quote
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Doing the right thing is more important than doing the thing right.~ Peter F. Drucker
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Today's Gift 3/28
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People-PleasingFor some of us, people-pleasing has become a way of getting our needs and wants met. But people-pleasing is manipulative and condescending. And it cheats us. When we are busy pleasing others, we are not being true to ourselves (nor those we are pleasing).Rather than manipulating p...
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Grapevine
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March 27 "I used to be a champ at unrealistic self-appraisal. I wanted to look only at the part of my life which seemed good."
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Today's Gift 3/27
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We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics AnonymousAccepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn't we b...
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Grapevine
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March 26 "Having an honest relationship with my sponsor allowed me an honest relationship with myself and others."
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New Here
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Hi all I'm Katrina. As much as I hate to admit it, im an alcoholic. I never really had a problem handling it. I could out drink anyone. I hurt everyone I loved tho. I still remember the day that changed my life and thinking forever. My mama (also an alcoholic) had been begging me for a week to come b...
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Today's Gift 3/25
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In wildness is the preservation of the world. - Henry David ThoreauNature confronts us with its beauty in a flower or a furry animal. The awesomeness of nature is in a lightning bolt or a majestic mountain. Every variety of tree has its own uniquely textured bark. Each annual ring in a tree trunk is a na...
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Strength in a time of weakness
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Not long ago, I would've handled extreme stress and anxiety differently. I would've made an excuse to be by myself and drank myself silly, convincing myself that things were ok. I would've eventually passed out believing that my problem was taken care of.
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Sunrise Quote
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In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing. ~ Theodore Roosevelt
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Today's Gift 3/24
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Fantasies are more than substitutes for unpleasant reality; they are also dress rehearsals, plans. All acts performed in the world begin in the imagination. --Barbara Grizzuti HarrisonOur minds mold who we become. Our thoughts not only contribute to our achievements, they determine the postur...
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Just Pure Evil
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There was a great bar at the Panama Canal Yacht ClubI would drink ginger ale with my friend Scott and other sailors while watching football and baseball. Scott was a good sociable guy but he is now in prison for trying to smuggle one ton of cocaine in his boat into Canada.. There was this other acquaint...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 23, 2015Quote of the Week"We go to meetings for relief; we work the steps for recovery" It happens every time - I always feel better after a meeting. Regardless of what's going on, or what my mood is, after a meeting I always feel more centered, more connected, and more at peace. The o...
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