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New beginning
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Morning all, in my first couple days of sobriety, yesterday seemed easy but this morning, first thing on my mind was i wanted a drink, feeling better now and staying strong. Just been out for a walk with my dog and husband. Any other new comers out there?
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SO is an alcoholic; having a hard time w/ my parents
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Hello everyone. I hope I am posting in the right forum. I really would like some advice. I would usually turn to my SO for stuff like this but I can't for fear of hurting her. My fiancee is an alcoholic (2.5 years sober) and in AA. She decided to become sober just a couple months after we started dating, and s...
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Today's Gift 9/15
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The most wasted day of all is that in which we have not laughed. --Sebastian R.N. ChamfortWhen we wallowed in the self-pity of obsession, we were sure we'd never laugh again. How easy it was to weep, alone and secretly, inspired by sad music like "Born to Lose" or "I'm So Lonesome I Coul...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 14, 2015Quote of the Week"People who try to figure it out, go back out." I like to think of myself as a pretty smart guy, and when I was new to the program, I kept trying to figure out how the program worked and why my sponsor wanted me to do certain things. For example, when he told me t...
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Today's Gift 9/14
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Almost everyone wants something for nothing. --Marsha SinetarBargains attract. Finding a good value excites us, and we share the news quickly. Wanting anything for free is human nature perhaps. However, we have had to learn again and again that you get what you pay for. This is true of human interac...
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Prayer.
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Dear God, I pray that you will heal my all friends who are not well at present. A special prayer for Dean and Pappy, that God restores them quickly. To all the newcomers on the board, I pray that you will embark on this recovery journey with us. To those who are burdened, I pray that God lightens your load to...
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Today's Gift 9/13
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Everything is funny as long as it is happening to someone else. -- Will RogersWe laugh when others do something silly. We're amused when something funny happens to them. But if the same happens to us and people laugh, we might give them the evil eye.Yet, when others laugh, it can free us. It frees us to se...
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Doctor's opinion.
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"They are restless, irritable and discontented, unless they can again experience the sense of ease and comfort which comes at once by taking a few drinks....." Doctor's opinion AA book. These 3 withdrawal symptoms are a package deal for alcoholics of my type and therefore abstinence al...
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4 Months Sober and Need Help
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Hello All, I had 18 years and relapsed a couple years ago. I now have 4 months, but I'm barely going to meetings. Every day I say I'm going to go and I don't. I did a lot of damage on this last run. I had a very full and amazing life prior to my relapse. I was so blessed. I gave back everything God blessed me with -...
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Today's Gift 9/12 ... Today's is Especially Good!
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Control robs us of serenity.The Serenity Prayer, when relied on, changes the very nature of our lives. The reality is that most of our troubles result from an unwillingness to give up controlling the many people we encounter. What they are doing is seldom relevant. We simply want them to answer to us!...
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Time for A Little Humor ... 'Arriving in Heaven'
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Subject: Arriving in HeavenWhen You Stop Laughing, You Stop Living!!~If You Rest - You Rust!!~Arriving in Heaven All arrivals in heaven have to go through a bureaucratic examination to determine whether admission will be granted. One room has a clerk, who inputs computerized records of what e...
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Today's Gift 9/11
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We don't always understand the ways of Almighty God - the crosses sent us, the sacrifices demanded . . . But we accept with faith and resignation the holy will with no looking back, and we are at peace. --AnonymousAcceptance of our past, acceptance of the conditions presently in our lives that we canno...
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script or receipt
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a "practicing alkie" Would see this as a receipt. -- Edited by Zoomtopz on Friday 4th of September 2015 04:32:30 AM
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Today's Gift 9/10
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Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom. --Hannah ArendtResentments keep us in the past, a past that can never be relived. Resentments keep a stranglehold on our mind. They keep us from appreciating the beauty of a moment. They stop us from hearing the loving voices of friends. We forget that we h...
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Hopefulone, ...You There???
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I need a good recipe ... or from anyone else who's a cooking nut ... LOL ... I have a ton of Jalapenos from the garden and want to try deep fried 'Poppers' ... anyone got a good recipe??? ... The alcohol connection? ... yeah, having a garden is one of the 'by-products' of being sober ... one learns there's...
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Today's Gift 9/9
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Growth is the only evidence of life. --John, Cardinal NewmanWe should be thankful we can never reach complete serenity. If we could, we would never have the need to improve ourselves. We would stop growing, because there would be no reason to learn any more than we already know, and we would become bor...
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Anti-depressants
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Tried 'em back in '01, they didn't work for me. But I was drinking back then. I'm almost 15 months sober now, still depressed (it kinda comes in waves, but the norm is for me to be at least a bit depressed daily). Not suicidal though, and don't think I'm at too much risk to go back out right now since I am...
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MALE AND WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER
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show me in the BIG BOOK ???? I M A MALE ....ITS MOTIVES , THANK GOD 80 YEARS AGO YOU PEOPLE WERE NOT IN THE ROOMS, BEEN IN THE ROOMS SINCE 2000 . NEVER ASK FOR A WOMEN S NUMBER OR OUT ON A DATE. IF A WOMEN ASK ME TO SPONSOR HER , BECAUSE SHE WANTS A MALE . I M GOING TO SUGGEST A WOMEN. BUT NO WHERE IN THE BIG BOOK DOES IT SA...
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Today's Gift 9/8
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Life moves forwardThe past is past. Over. Finished. Our job is to move with the flow of the present. We are propelled by what went before, but we do not try to swim against the current of our present lives by regretting or yearning for old times.Each day of recovery releases us from the past and gives us a f...
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How To Conquer A Man At The Gym
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One of the best places to meet men healthy and attractive is the gym, but if you ever wondered how to conquer a man at the gym, don't read the following tips. Use perfume Find out what are the perfumes that men prefer and look for one that you like to use it whenever you are going to exercise in the gym. Your sc...
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Today's Gift 9/7
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When all else is lost, the future still remains. --Christian BoveeOurs is a program of hope. We sit in meetings and give each other hope. For no matter how long we have been sober - five days or thirty years - there will be times when we feel horrible. This is life. In everyone's life there are times of wond...
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Dave & th Derro's
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an Aussie 50s , 60s & 70s music group that I follow on facebook . put a song from this group up "Nice Legs Shame about the face" by Dave & th Derros. Reminded me of Bobby Bare's song "Never been to bed with an ugly woman" HEY Girls . I Suppose you Have your own sayings . Saw this o...
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Humor ... Nobody was Married
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JUST SAYING. It just dawned on me why Mayberry was so peaceful and quiet ....nobody was married.Here are the single people that come to mind. Andy, Aunt Bea, Barney, Floyd, Howard,Goober, Gomer, Sam, Ernest T Bass, the Darlin family, Helen, Thelma Lou, Clara...In fact, the only one married was O...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 7, 2015Quote of the Week"My recovery changed when I forever gave up the hope of having a different past." I have spent a lot of time thinking about my past. Alternately feeling sorry for myself or being outraged at the wrongs - real or imagined - that were done to me, a constant th...
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Today's Gift 9/6
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A single grateful thought toward heaven is the most complete prayer. --Gotthold Ephraim Lessing Thank you is one of the most important things we can say to anyone. Thank you packs a lot of meaning into two little words. Thank you says, "I see you. I see what you have done for me. You have been kind t...
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Joe and Charlie tapes
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I have been listening to Part One of the Joe and Charlie tapes. I listened to at least the Part One of these earlier on. This one has a glitch --keeps going to what Utube refers to an "Ad" and this guy (Joe???? Charlie????) cuts in and talks about alcoholism...not selling anything...just can...
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Today's Gift 9/5
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Change of scene has no effect upon unconscious conflicts. --Edmund Bergler, M.D.There's no running away from the internal strife. Whatever haunts us must finally be confronted and resolved if we're ever to grow and thus contribute to our world its due. When we keep secrets locked away, the secrets...
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Today's Gift 9/4
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A tip-off to an abusive family system is a situation in which nobody ever apologizes. -- Karen Shaud When we get a tip-off, we can open the door to a whole new way of looking at the world. The tip-off about apologies can help us learn to have a healthier family. It is hard to apologize, but with practice, it...
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Humor ... Question of the Day
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If Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner goes missing, will they put his/her picture on a carton of Half & Half??
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Today's Gift 9/3
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Practicing toleranceEveryone has a different opinion. No two people look the same. We all are different. Differences can cause us fear and set us apart from others, and we have no idea why.If addiction closes us down, recovery opens us up. In the program, we learn that we are all more alike than we are d...
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How To Get Through a Tough Sober Time
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http://sobercourage.com/2015/04/24/how-to-get-through-a-tough-time-sober/
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Today's Gift 9/2
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Do we manage ourselves to the best of our ability? Some of us are in the program because the drinkers in our lives are out of control and we feel crazy. Others of us come to the program certain that we are managing our lives very well but hoping to learn how to better manage someone else. For some of us, the a...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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August 31, 2015Quote of the Week"Live life today as though you knew you were dying." We've all heard sayings like this before, and for many years my reaction was, "Yeah but it's not my last day and the rent is due at the end of the month, and my relationship isn't getting better, and bla...
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Today's Gift 9/1
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Be aware of wonder. --Robert FulghumWe have days when we experience the small coincidences in life - our car breaks down and we run into an old friend at the service station; we're thinking about someone and she calls just because we've been on her mind; we ask ourselves a question and the answer appear...
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AA Killed On Way To Meeting
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Bad luck, this. RIP.Recovering alcoholic heading to AA hit and killed by drunk driver SOMERSWORTH, N.H. (MyFoxBoston.com) - A recovering alcoholic was hit and killed on the way to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting by an allegedly drunk driver in New Hampshire on Monday.Reed Hindle, 61, of Fremont...
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Today's Gift 8/30
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Detachment doesn't mean denying compassion.Approaching life with detachment may seem cold at first. We are accustomed to offering lots of help to other people. Thus the first few times we back off from what has become our natural inclination we feel uncomfortable.Through this program we are lear...
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Today's Gift 8/29
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Be grateful for where you are now."It doesn't take as much faith to believe that everything happens for a reason as it does to embrace the belief that I am who and where I am now, today, for a reason - even if I don't know what that reason is and even if I don't particularly like who or where I am today,&q...
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Alcohol, the Fuel Of All Adventure, No Longer Works
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Heard a good story on NPR today of a drunk making it to sobriety. Woman by the name of Sarah Hepola. She authored the book Blackout: Remembering The Things I Drank To Forget. Sharp lady. Pretty honest account, 5 years into sobriety. She finally got off the party bus. Might be Worth a listen. http://www....
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Never been on here before
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DJ9110 and Snugsy---Our 2 Newbies....Hope you both are doing okay
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Where'd you guys go???? Would love to hear from both of you. Thinking about you. Have a great safe and sober weekend!
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Today's Gift 8/28
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I grew up knowing I had to be a success for others. --Sandy WarmanThe pressure of performance is daunting and extremely stressful. Some, like Sandy, were controlled by it their whole lives. Perhaps that was your experience, too. Are you free of it now?The desire to be successful never was a bad thing i...
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Need some comfort
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hey guys. I'm new here. Also new in recovery. I finished rehab this past Monday. Went to a meeting that night. My Mom took me to the beach for a short get away. Enjoying the beach so far But having cravings as I've always drank at the beach. Just wanted some helpful words from you guys. Thank you!
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Today's Gift 8/26
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A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice. -- E. W. HoweDo you let yourself be afraid of your illness? You'd better. Many of us were scared into sobriety. Often, a spiritual awakening directly follows a good scare. Fear seems to improve our vision. Are you smart enough to run from your addictio...
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Today's Gift 8/27
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Have you learned lessons only of those who admired you, and were tender with you, and stood aside for you? Have you not learned great lessons from those who braced themselves against you, and disputed the passage with you? --Walt WhitmanWouldn't it be grand if we could have everything our way! We'd ha...
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job search
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A company that places disabled people in Government and private sector jobs is trying to place me in a job. My resume probably was approved today. I am looking for a customer service or clerical job. they require knowledge of Microsoft office and good typing. I'm taking an online course for Micros...
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I have a problem...
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with people when they say "I'm so proud of you", for staying sober. Actually, I don't have a problem with the people who say it. I just have a hard time hearing it. Quitting the poison isn't something I'm proud of, because I never should have let it get that bad in the first place. So, people ar...
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Grateful for 27 years of AA sobriety.
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Thank you all members of this board both old and new. Many of you will never know how much you mean to me. My 1st entry into AA was on the 13 April 1988. I needed 4 months more to convince me that I was powerless over alcohol. I re-entered AA on 19 August 1988. Now I was ready to embark on the 12 step program, with...
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Today's Gift 8/25
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If you want to change who you are, change what you do. ***The Big Book is like a cookbook - you can read it all day long and starve. You have to take the action. ***If you stay humble, you will not stumble. ***Our neighbor's window looks much cleaner if we first wash our own. ***Yesterday is a canceled check...
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South Park - Bloody Mary
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Hi, I'm a miserable alcoholic. But I'm even more miserable sober. Now that we've gotten that out of the way, I've read through a few posts here and I have to say I see now where you people are coming from. It's not how much you drink, or how occasional it might be, but how you obsess over it. If you have to worr...
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Wisdom of the Rooms --- (Boy, Did I Need This One!!!)
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August 24, 2015Quote of the Week"Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake." Lately, things haven't been going my way. Both small things as well as big, scary health related issues have come up that are definitely not what I wanted and can't be good for me. As I cli...
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