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Good Morning Everyone!
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Its a little foggy out right now but they say its going to turn off beautiful! Sunny & 75! Early this morning when I was sleeping I felt the other side of the bed move--my husband works midnights so I knew it wasnt him. Both dogs were sleeping in their own beds so it wasnt them eithe...
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A message of hope
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To anyone who is reading this and is currently going threw treatment or has gone threw treatment, i would like to congradulate you. I come from a home from a drinker who i loved deeply and was not a bad person. This person did not get treatment and unfortunatly passed away from the disease....
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HOPE
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Hi to Everyone,
I have been doing a lot of reading here and we have some wonderful new people,
enjoying the great undisputable Gifts of this Program. As well as all the great folks that are here, for themselves, but truthfully,I believe, more for the new Person.
And what I have personally be...
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My Daughter
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Hello Everyone,
I am new here and hoping someone may have some words of wisdom. I recently attended a few alanon meetings and am finding them helpful. Last night I also attended an open AA meeting which was also very informative. I'm hoping someone may have an opinion on my daughter-- if this i...
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Mimi
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The innocence
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I was reading a little homemade book my 7 yr old daughter wrote while spending last Saturday night at her friends & I still have a smile on my face since I read it Sunday morning. If anyone is having a tough day or evening maybe after reading it you will feel a little better--I'll type it j...
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I called
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Well, my silly little saga is over - I hope. I returned my client's call. I got his voice mail so I left a message saying that I was feeling not so great - some good days, some bad. I thanked him for calling to see how I was and told him I appreciate his thinking of me. So, that is it.&...
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5 Stages of Grief
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Stage One: DENIAL
You tell yourself that it isn't happening. You tell yourself that your spouse will come back to you. With a divorce, you think that he / she is just going through a phase or mid-life crisis and will come to their senses. You think that you cannot accept that it is ending, and you refuse...
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Got to Laugh at Life- or my part in it!
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First , let me say up front, this is a Trivia kind of Post.
Woke up at 4:45, this am, with about 4 1/2 sleep, got on the Board, then make coffee, and breakfast, was headed back to beddy bye, and no I had to stop and read the Board again.
Well I look at the right hand, and can see, I have been into my OCD. My...
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Rebuilding Trust
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Rebuilding Trustby Lynette J. Hoy, NCC, LCPC
What does trusting someone signify?
Trust, in a practical sense, means that you place confidence in someone to be honest with you, faithful to you, keep promises, vows and confidences and not abandon you. Here are some factors to consider abo...
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geeeez i feel like doggie doo doo
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last night i cried AGAIN!!!
i am lying in bed last night, getting ready for sleep, and it hit me!! here i am goin on 60 this month and i **feel** like i MISSED out on life.....the abuse-- the resultant addictions/ codependency disease, u know, the aftershocks of the trauma, and NOW, i get my...
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The promises
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The AA Promises
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are half way through.
We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.
We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it.
We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know pea...
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Welcome Terri!!!
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Good Morning Terri,
i saw you come in last night, and make a Response, and just thought I would make a Post to you, so that hopefully we can get to know you, and Congratulations on this being now your Second Day. We all start there. day l, day 2, and so it goes.
I am, We are, looking so forward to getti...
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Toni Baloney
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There is Only Now-OM
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There Is Only Now
It can be easy for us to walk through the world and our lives without really being present. While dwelling on the past and living for the future are common pastimes, it is physically impossible to live anywhere but the present moment. We cannot step out our front door and take a...
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Wren
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Happy week!
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Hi everyone,
Hope you all had a good, sober weekend. I had a quiet time. Did some gardening, played with my kids, went to a movie, dinner at the in-laws. What a "normal" life I have now. I love it! I always thought sobriety would be boring, and when I first came into the...
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12 Step Info
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Anyone looking for information on the 12 step program should check out My Name is Bill W, which is coming out on DVD pretty soon. Its a good watch about the history of AA and how/why it was founded.
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thesyz
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Feeling Bad
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I don't know what's going on. My brain is so screwed up right now. I can really see why people go out and drink over the decision to not deal with the 4th step. Man, it would be nice to just drown my past away. Not ready to do it today though.
I went to the meeting tonight and it was a BB study on To The Wives. Sho...
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I bet
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that if you could take an alcoholic & show them through a crystal ball how wonderful their life would be if they quit drinking than I bet we would have very few alcoholics. My heart goes out to those who have very little family support or those who have many more problems than alcoholism.&nbs...
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Hello friends
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Hi everyone,
I have been reading posts and am so happy to see some new members reaching out. Welcome to you! I look forward to getting to hear your experience. Rather than saying "keep coming back" I would rather say "stay!". I am glad you are here. The progra...
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*LOVE*
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LOVE
The Wonderful Love of a Beautiful maid,
The Love of a Staunch True Man
and the Love of a Baby Unafraid
have Existed since man began.
But the Greatest Love, the Love of All Loves
Even than that of a Mother
is the Tender, Compassionate, Infinite Love
of One Alcoholic for Ano...
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Toni Baloney
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Nervous family
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My husband has been absolutely wonderful in helping me quit drinking. Luckily I didnt end up hitting bottom or losing anything from my drinking. It started to cause problems at home--with my husband but luckily I was ready to quit--I was too tired of trying to find new hiding spots, too f...
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Sherry
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Not allowed to edit our own posts now?
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Just out of interest why has the option to edit ones own posts now not available..?
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Rob
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Big Book Study format
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I'm new to this board, but it looks like there is quite a bit of activity here...that's awesome...my home group is going to start a Big Book study one night a week, and I was asked to get some feedback on other people's experiences with different meeting formats...thanks to everyone in advance for your...
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Working with Others
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Chapter 7
Working With Others
Practical experience shows that nothing will so much insure immunity from drinking as intensive work with other alcoholics. It works when other activities fail. This is our twelfth suggestion: Carry this message to other alcoholics! You can help when no one el...
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Harboring Regrets
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Eight Common Excuses for Harboring Regrets What's yours? A closer look at why you hold on to regrets is the start of letting them go. 1. “It’s too late to let go of my regret.” The passage of time neither improves nor impairs our ability to let go of regrets. Letting go is a function of willingnes...
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ahh what a day
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feeling good, taken the pooch for a walk now going for a picnic, this beats hugging the loo anyday
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Robert
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Anger at meetings
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Was at this meeting tonight. It's like all the anxiety just travelled straight into my brain\body.
This guy brought up a topic. After a few of us started sharing our experiences in dealing with the subject the guy started to get real uneasy and cross-talk, getting really defiant. I thought there wa...
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About AA
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If you have a desire to stop drinking and your drinking is causing you problems -- or, if you have discovered that living without alcohol is uncomfortable, and you get restless, irritable or discontented when not drinking -- it is highly suggested that you find a meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous. Y...
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My Secret Life With Alchol
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My Secret Life with Alcohol
www.pittsburghdietdiaries.blogspot.com
I started getting drunk at about 16. Throughout my teens and in my 20s, even after the birth of my daughter, I got drunk. I can remember some pretty shocking and stupid things I have done and said while drinking. At one poi...
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Havent gone past step one
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Hello! I am new here--posted once tonight already--I tend to be compulsive when I do things! Drinking was definately one of those compulsive things. Anyhow, I have been going to AA for a little over 6 months. I "think" I was an alcoholic for about the past 6 years. It i...
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Hello--new here with silver chip
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Hello. I just picked up my silver chip--I did the 90 meetings 90 days and now that I have hit 6 months I havent been able to get to more than two meetings a week. Its our companies busy time---actually crazy time! I thought this might be a nice place to come when I cant get to my meeting.&...
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Taking Responsibility-om
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Answering The Call Taking Responsibility For Your Destiny
There are those of us who believe that our lives are predestined and that we should resign ourselves to our lots in life. Yet the truth is that it is up to each one of us to decide what that des...
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Thanx everyone and esp Toni: also I want to say something abouth 'therapy'
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To be honest, because my last post was so negative and self-pitying and also written while I was not 100% straight, I really expected to be kicked off this board. Imagine my relief when I logged in today and found 5 caring, sympathetic responses! You guys really are great (I'm almost tearful as I write t...
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Following Your Dream
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Each Day a New Beginning.
Follow your dream . . . take one step at a time and don't settle for less, just continue to climb. --Amanda Bradley
Dreams are common to us all. Dreams are special as well. We probably keep to ourselves many of our dreams for fear of derision or misunderstanding....
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Phil
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Denial
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Denial is the psychological process by which human beings protect themselves from things which threaten them by blocking knowledge of those things from their awareness. It is a defense which distorts reality; it keeps us from feeling the pain and uncomfortable truth about things we do not want t...
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My Mum
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My mum n dad are going away tomorrow for two weeks, house and dog sitting for their friends whilst they are way.. nice house, nice place etc.. Mum and dad both drank tonight.. dad went to bed early.. Mum, cos shes over weight doesnt eat much.. and ofcourse still drinks alot.. so thats why sh...
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Just saying 'Hi'
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Hi there everyone
I did actually try and post this earlier but I think I forgot to fill the 'topic' section in and so no post!
Anyway, just want to say 'Hi' to you all and say 'Thankyou' to all who have read and replyed to my last post In my week of need
I have thus f...
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how to annoy your manager
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Ha
my manager was well cheesed off! I am the piece of turd at work and all the managers keep this info close to them, I have seen their documents "watch everything Rob does" "Robs a trouble maker" bla bla bla.
Well I had my first week on the phones this week (I work in a call centre) and I have never done...
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Robert
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Stalling ...
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Ok, I am doing everything I can to avoid calling my boss back. I am running out of laundry. The time must be coming. GRRR! I hate doing things I don't want to do! I am such a child sometimes.
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embittered and long....don't read if you are feeling crappy yourself!
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Was just wondering. I think in a post I made previously I referred to Van Gogh - miserable his whole adult life, an alcoholic and also apparently a misogynist who assaulted prostitutes....when I was younger (a LOT younger) I really romanticised the whole 'wastoid' lifestyle. In 1986, when I w...
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"A Quart Low"
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Good Morning everyone,
I was sitting in a meeting, yesterday, listening, or trying to listen to a young woman, that was in my mind really struggling with where she was at, was talking a lot about how staying sober, was difficult for her, as she and her husband did a lot of traveling.
And the trav...
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Good Morning
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Hello everyone. Day 3 for me again. I talked with my sponsor yesterday for a long time. I went to my home group meeting and I spoke up and told them that I slipped again. I talked with my boss yesterday about my calling in sick on Wednesday and told her the truth. She is a go...
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iffer
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Guilt And Resentment
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Guilt and resentment are states of mind that destroy love and create suffering. They seem to be caused by what happened but they're not. They are caused by how you relate to what happened. Fortunately, since you created them, you can also release them. Guilt
When you have guilt, you reinfo...
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Hello All!
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Howdy, just wanted to "Holla" n say hello to everyone been very buzy with school, work, ballgames. Toodlezz!!
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carmie
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Recovery tunes
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On a lighter note, what is your favourite song that you relate to recovery?
Mine is Here Comes the Sun by the Beatles. I listened to it on the way to meetings all the time in my first 6 months. I can really relate to that song.
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WRbeachbum
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Politicians as usual (a little long but funny)
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Hey Phil, do you have MP's as bright as our Congressmen & Senators in the USA? How about you folks on the other side of the pond? With these folks representing us, I wonder why folks from other countries don't pronounce it...You Ass, Eh?
I have always said that, while it may be true th...
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Sick of being sick
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Help!
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I just got a telephone message from my office wanting me to call and let them know how I am doing. I am still not feeling well enough to go to work. I do contract work and I left on kinda bad terms because they were mad that I went off so abruptly (I posted about this before). I had to take ca...
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Simple
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Man I am no longer depressed and all I did was change my diet. my tip for the day is go to a nut shop and get a bag of linseed, put 1/2 a teaspoon on some bread or add three teaspoons to pasta sauce, or breakfast cerial. it contains Omega 3,6 and Gla which are excellent if your an alky like me, its alot cheaper tha...
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Robert
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"There are such unfortunates"
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Good Morning to Everyone:
I copied and Pasted this excerpt from "How it Works", Chapter 5, Alcoholics Anonymous. This is the part I LISTENED to everyday, VERY INTENSELY. It is read at the begining of each meeting.
With my Chronic Relapse history, and failure to grasp this Program, for a 10 ye...
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Toni Baloney
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Alcoholics Anonymous
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WHAT IS ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS? There are two practical ways to describe A.A. The first is the familiar description of purposes and objectives that appears earlier: "Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may sol...
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Phil
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Can it work even if you don't do a meeting a day????
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So many in AA say that alcohloics need a meeting a day, especially at first. Well, this is just not possible for me - I'm not making excuses here: I have a three year old child and apart from the fact that she would act up terribly at a meeting, and probably distract people, I don't especially...
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