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Sunrise Quote
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Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives. ~Dr. Will James
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MIP Posting Guidelines
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Here, as info only, are the posting guidelines for MIP, including this aa.activeboard forum. It's probably a good idea to be familiar with these rules, as recent events here and on another MIP forum indicate. Please note that by registering in any MIP forum, you are agreeing to be bound by these rules...
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The board is alive again.
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Thanks Pappy for being moderator. Life has once more returned to the board. Calling all old timers.
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Today's Gift 3/4
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Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul And sings the tune without the words And never stops at all. --Emily DickinsonWe often hum and sing to ourselves because it makes us feel content. It is the melody itself that makes us feel good--words and thoughts do not matter.Having hope for ou...
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Today's Gift 3/5
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The art of life is to show your hand. --C.V. Lucas NewcomerI've been thinking about talking to another sponsor. Not to replace you - our relationship is important to me, and I get a lot from it - but in addition to you.SponsorWe're lucky to have such an abundance of sober experience in this fellowship. T...
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The reason I am no longer in pain.
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http://www.wakingtimes.com/2016/03/03/science-explains-how-complaining-is-negatively-altering-your-brain/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=PostShare&utm_campaign=SustainableHuman
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Aloha...looking in again
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Aloha MIP Recovery....yes it has been a while. I lost my computer and therefore my hard drive and then would just look in on you guys without re-logging an registering and I needed to do it now as I got struck suddenly by weirdness and baffling nature of my disease. Imagine returning from my home grou...
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Hey Everyone.
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My name is TK. And I am an alcoholic. i don't understand this format and I have no idea if this is proper but, from what I've heard you're an accepting lot. And God bless you for that. I come to you extremely flawed and extremely overwhelmed by my demons. I have so so many gifts and so many things for whic...
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Whew!
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Sometime this computer can mess with my serenity. I've been trying to get back on this board for some time now. I would ask for account information and the site would say that it would send me an Email. Well, the Email would never arrive and it then told me to get in touch with the site administrator. That'...
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Today's Gift 3/3
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Trying to ignore our worries only pushes them underground.Pretending we are not anxious, when we are, is a tactic that fools no one, especially not ourselves. Attempting to deny or repress our fears and worries does not work. The result is often depression or a physical ailment, indicating that in o...
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All Pepper!
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Hello everyone, Much like Anton Lavey writing the Satanic Bible, we here at The Church of the White Door are currently writing the Satanic Big Book. We hope to have it finished this year and will post the chapters on our site thevoidishere.com as they are finished. We will be posting - "The Witch...
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Today's Gift 3/2
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Battles we've won or lostEven the continuous recovery we're enjoying is no shield from traps we seem to set for ourselves. At times, we can find ourselves in the foolish game of continuing to fight battles we've won or lost. One losing battle is the attempt to win the approval of someone who has always d...
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How Do You Get Through A Day?
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I have a freaking struggle. I want to drink. The reasons why? I guess they're my own. I've not been in rehab long and I can't brag about a long period of sobriety.
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Today's Gift 2/25 (Great One Today) (also ... 8 years today for me)
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Having hope makes every day easier, more gentle.From our first introduction to other men and women who have faced firsthand the illness of chemical dependency, we sense the spirit of hope in their words and in their faces. Some of us have had little or no hope for many years. It's no wonder we initially...
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Today's Gift 3/1
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Reflection for the DayChange is a part of the flow of life. Sometimes we're frustrated because change seems slow in coming. Sometimes, too, we're resistant to a change that seems to have been thrust upon us. We must remember that change, in and of itself, neither binds us nor frees us. Only our attitud...
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A Biochemical Cause of Alcoholism
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If there is enough alcohol in the blood stream, long enough, that will cause alcoholism. Real Native Americans, genetically, don't have enzymes to change alcohol into sugar, therefore, it is easy for enough alcohol to remain in the blood stream long enough to cause us alcoholism.
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 29, 2016Quote of the Week"When all the little things really bug me, it's because there's a big thing I'm not facing." Irritable, restless and discontent - that's my normal state as an alcoholic. Going to meetings, working my steps, praying and relying on my Higher Power are the...
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Sunrise Quote 2/28
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Wanting something is not enough. You must hunger for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling in order to overcome the obstacles that will invariably come your way. ~Les Brown
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Lollapalooza Effect
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Here's an interesting incidental reference to AA from the world of investment and psychology. Munger's measurement of AA success is off, but there is truth about the beneficial effect of AA culture in motivating newly arrived alcoholics to stay sober--as many others have done and are currently do...
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Sunrise Quote
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The vision must be followed by the venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps-we must step up the stairs. ~Vance Havner
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Today's Gift 2/28
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Reflection for the Day"What if..." How often we hear these words from newcomers to The Program. How often, in fact, we tend to say them ourselves. "What if I lose my job?" "What if my car breaks down?" "What if I get sick and can't work?" "What ifmy...
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Today's Gift 2/27
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We don't need crutches.We are unique and wonderful people. We have weaknesses, yes, and we also have strengths beyond our imagining.Perhaps we needed a crutch at one time. We got used to it, and even though it was in our way and slowed us down, we were afraid to venture forth without it. Gradually, the c...
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23 days sober
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having tough moments-even at church where they have wine in the chalice (blood of christ)to drink after receiving the eucharist. I quickly pass by. It's hard when I have a great day of skiing then get off the mtn and not have a beer or glass of wine. I feel great when I wake up in the morning knowing I had ful...
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Today's Gift 2/26
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There is no shortcut to life. To the end of our days, life is a lesson imperfectly learned. --Harrison E. SalisburyThere are no perfect days. We have struggled hard against this truth. In our demanding ways, we haven't wanted life to be a process; we have wanted to reach a secure point of arrival. We hav...
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Trust
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I just had a falling out with my wife about my inability to be honest. It had come to light that I was using my son's bank account attached to my PayPal account to make purchases. This was after I had told her that I would take his bank account off the PayPal account. My purchases caused an overdraft on his ba...
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Just turned 56.
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Never thought I would live to see 56. I will be 28 years sober this year. I thank God and AA that these years of grace have been given to me.
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Sorting through sobriety - I'm so confused.
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There is a man with 33 yrs of sobriety that took it upon himself tonight at a meeting - to cut someone short in their share - claming this person was getting off topic, "had a long way to go", and would have many counselors and lots of opportunity for help. This individual looked respectfull...
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Sunrise Quote
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No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change. ~Angelis, Barbara De on Happiness
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Today's Gift 2/24
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Second ThoughtsAfter an intense discussion, we might rehash what we said and wish we'd said something else. Perhaps some brilliant remark occurs to us long after the conversation has ended.We can say only what comes to us at the time of the discussion. Our best preparation for any such discussion ho...
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Complete abstinence from all drugs?!?
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I find it curious how in AA, and especially in NA which specifically states "complete abstinence from all drugs", people are outside chain-smoking before and after meetings and are guzzling coffee in the meetings. Is there not some hypocrisy in this? Even your sponsor will ask you to tal...
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Today's Gift 2/23
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There are sounds to seasons. There are sounds to places, and there are sounds to every time in one's life. --Alison Wyrley BirchLive is rich and full. Your life. My life. Even when the day feels flat or hollow, there's a richness to it that escapes our attention. We see only what we choose to see. We hear s...
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AA without the meetings?
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Lately we've been discussed on the board other methods and approaches people have in doing AA. What do you all think of the idea of working the program and the Steps without actually attending meetings? I mean if you have a "sponsor" who has many years sober and understands addiction or s...
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Today's Gift 2/22
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Keeping our motives honest Motives are important in dealing with other people. If we're frank with someone and that person gets upset, we might think he or she just can't handle our directness, our honesty. But "honesty" without love is more like brutal frankness. If we want to be confron...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 22, 2016Quote of the Week"R&R stands for rest and relaxation, not rehearse and rehash!" "If only my mind would leave me alone," I often think. I have what I call a "digging mind." Like a dog at the beach, it digs and digs and digs in a problem, a worry, or...
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Today's Gift 2/21
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Think in terms of depletion, not depression. . . . You can understand how a body can replenish itself, whereas it may be difficult to understand the way out of depression. --Claire Weekes Despair and depression may come over us suddenly, for no reason we can figure out. But if we stop and reflect, we may...
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AA Speakers!!
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We are in the process of adding a TON of new AA speakers on our YouTube channel. What's unique about these speakers is that they come from one man's extensive personal collection, and most have never been posted online before! You can find them here https://www.youtube.com/user/WeDoRecover12...
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Today's Gift 2/20
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Leave room for God to surprise you! --Ernie K.It is human to be disappointed when we don't get what we want. But when we dwell on our disappointment, as if we should have gotten what we wanted, then we forget to trust that God may have something different in store for us. Many of us pray, "Thy will be d...
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Today's Gift 2/19
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The twilight, in fact, had several stages, and several times after it had grown dusky, acquired a new transparency, and the trees on the hillsides were lit up again. --Henry David ThoreauThere are small candles of light we can bring into our lives to take away some of the darkness. These are the candle...
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Welcome PaulieBD
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Welcome to MIP Paulie ... glad you found us ... look'n forward to your share'n your ESH with us ... Love ya man and God Bless, Pappy
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Today's Gift 2/18
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Separateness Moving into wise and spiritual adulthood...At our worst we may be alert to what we want from our partner but blind to what our own role requires. No doubt we can always find accurate criticisms of our mate. In all lasting relationships we will find the weaknesses and the unattractive sid...
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Fyne Spirit, Check In Please
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Fyne Spirit, how are you all doing after the rumble yesterday? Tell us UR ok. (Hopefully.)
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Humor
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Your Collar Is Backwards A little boy got on the bus, sat next to a man reading a book, andnoticed he had his collar on backwards. The little boy asked why he wore his collar backwards.The man, who was a priest, said, 'I am a Father..'The little boy replied, 'My Daddy doesn't wear his collar like that....
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Sunrise Quote
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The important thing is not to stop questioning. ~Albert Einstein
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Today's Gift 2/17
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I wish to live without hate, whim, jealousy, envy, and fear. I wish to be simple, honest, frank, natural, clean in mind and clean in body. . . to face any obstacle and meet every difficulty unabashed and unafraid. --Elbert HubbardGrowing up, we learned there were many places to make wishes: the first s...
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Great news
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Im still sober. And that, my friends, is always great news. hope everyone is doing well.
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Today's Gift 2/16
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Without work all life goes rotten. -- Albert CamusMost would not think of work as a prize. That is often due to the concept we have of work.Work can be that of an artist, the work of creation. Such work is not the response to a whistle or the boring activity that follows a punched time card. Creative work is...
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Living in recovery: Not anonymous anymore
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I'm not down with the broad application of the idea of going public for those in recovery. Too many negatives, IMHO. It's an idea that seems to be getting a bit of support from various folks in or around recovery. To those who want voluntarily doff their anonymity, go right ahead. Just make sure you str...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 15, 2016Quote of the Week"For every nut in the program, there is a bolt." When I first entered the rooms of recovery, I was a little taken aback by some of the strange characters I heard share. Some had been to prison; some had lived on the streets; some had been prostitutes; some w...
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Today's Gift 2/15
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I didn't really have a plan for a career, but I learned how to run our business quite successfully one day at a time. --Joann ReedWhether we have a specific plan for how we anticipate our lives unfolding or we react to opportunities spontaneously, we have to take whatever comes in small increments anyw...
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Sunrise Quote
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My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry, to get my work done, and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return. ~Angelou, Maya on Hope
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