Hi I'm new here but am very worried about my wife and wanted to see if I could get any help or advice here.  My wife has been a severe alcoholic for the last two years since our first child was born, dealing with post partum and the stress of a new baby.  She has been to rehab four times and I think she's sober and hope she stays that way.  

Now however, I'm very concerned she is heading toward disaster because she hasn't been home in over a month and has started seeing a new guy, doing the whole 13th step thing which I know always leads to disaster. He is supposedly 4 years sober and the classic 13 step predator.  I've been going to Alanon too myself to take care of my issues from dealing with her alcoholism but now this scum bag has come into her life and she thinks he is her 'higher power' and he can do no wrong.  She's only a month out of rehab and scared to death this guy is just taking advantage of a vulnerable and gullible person now to his advantage.   We have also been married for 3 years with 2 kids so it makes it even more despicable. 

We live in Orange County, California and I believe she goes to meetings in Laguna Beach, Mission Viejo, Costa Mesa, and maybe Huntington Beach. 

I wanted to see if anybody has ever heard any stories or dealings with a ##### who lives in Costa Mesa and if he's ever done this to other people?  I just want her to stop this destructive behavior and if he has a history of it, hopefully she will listen and come to her senses.  

Thank you so much for the help and please PM me or contact me if you have any advice or information.  I'm just very desperate right now and want to save my marriage and family.