Got a few out on the table and have a better understanding of the situation. Son is crying out for help and not sure how to help him, right now all I can do is offer my support, We actually hugged for the first time in a while and it felt like a start.
Right now it's come my attention and feel that I need to share my experience, strength and hope. If any suggestions on coping with this please feel free to share, greatly appreciate it. Also alot of prayers.
I'm so glad that you and your son were able to sit and talk and hug each other. I don't have any suggestions or any advice to offer you, but please know that you're both in my prayers.
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Phil I do appreciate ur seggustions and have backed off on that end of it. The child does have a contact for NA, your right it is a love and detach thing. It is hard to do, guess what I'm saying is, it's only a matter of time. And patience, and one day at a time, just feeling lost and realize that he's got to want it.
He has been making progress though and is struggling. With lots prayers and support I'm sure he pull through, I also have been dealing with another child whom has been struggling with mixed emotions as well about this situation.