Gosh, I don't know. I just do not know when I have my spouses full attention to communicate. I know I am up against a very short attention span, (ADD or ADHD), a lot of caffeinated/sugary sodas he consumes, and mild hearing loss. I just know I am so tired of trying to get 'through' or wondering when the time is right---which lately, I wonder if it ever is or will be.
Sobriety, but we still have things to talk about, if that's even possible. Any suggestions, I am listening. I know relationships louse up even with zero communication.