I am at my wits end dealing with my alcoholic son. He comes home fully drunk and goes on a rampage. Initially I tired advising him which turned futile. I can tolerate anything than see my dear son throw and damage household things. I am quite aware that this is just a passing phase, but I am finding it diffiuclt to adjust with the situation. Years of hardwork all being damaged by a wayward son. Recently I had to move some of my old stuff to a self storage unit, (https://www.jiffystorage.com/self-storage/ ), I got everything except basic things in his room shifted too. I know this is not the solution. But could not see my years of hardwork go waste in front of my eyes. Anyone who is going through such a situation. Don't you think I did the right thing? All suggestions are welcome.
I am sorry you are going through this. I had an alcoholic boyfriend that broke some of my things. I had to stop him from coming to my house. We did break up eventually, but I really wish he did not wreck my things. There is an alanon family group they might be better with some examples of their family members and actions they had to take.