Had a busy day today with several errands. Also PU my divorce papers. Have the kids with me for next two days. Starting orientation tommorow at a new job. Dropped some parking tickets and toll fees to the STXW. She asked who's are these. Which I replied there yours on your car check the plate. She was so mad IDK why. These things aren't my responsibility. I don't have to rescue or caretake anymore. I did not have to own her anger or power. Gave it to God and let her be upset. I did not have to try to smooth things over like I used too. Their her emotions and problems not my responsibility. It felt good to be out of the mess and not dragged into it like I've done so many times before when she was upset or depressed. I can let go and let her deal with her own life skills, so she can grow.