I want somehow to tell the story of how the dispossessed become possessed of their own history without losing sight, without forgetting the meaning or the nature of their journey. -Sherley Anne Williams
To use the past without being controlled by it that is our responsibility to history. Because the past is irrecoverably vanished, it's sometimes tempting to forget it or to falsify it. But being true to ourselves means being true to our history.
Past cruelties can remain powerful in our lives yet to take possession of our history means to free ourselves of bondage to past events. Nothing can ever change them. If we are to make the future good, we'll learn what the past can teach us. But our freedom requires us to make choices based on the needs of the present, not the past.
I can act at every moment in such a way as to honor the past and enhance the future.
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'Those who leave everything in God's hand will eventually see God's hand in everything.'
As a drinking alcoholic, I was plagued by pain from the past and drank to get relief. One of the most healing moments in my recovery was when I realized that I can vanquish the pain of the past by forgiving all the past wrongs done to me, and by correcting all the past wrongs done by me.