Thanks Mike, ... ... ... My sponsor and I once had this conversation:

Me: I'm going to tell you something       I've been listening to you
and listening to you   Now you listen to me      I DO NOT
UNDERSTAND  

My Sponsor: AND THAT'S IT & DON'T YOU EVER FORGET IT          YOU do NOT UNDERSTAND!

There's two things you must remember every day for the rest of
your days   

1. No matter what's go'n on in your life     You Do Not
Understand                then you'll have understanding

And when you quit trying to understand, then you can enjoy
it  

2. No matter what your situation is,     it's never them   never
her,     never him,       never God,         it's YOU that must
become different than you ever have before    

Great post!!!