We're told again and again that we have to be selfish about our own recovery, but this seems to be in conflict with the fact that selfishness is the root of our problem.  How can selfishness be both good and bad?

The selfishness we need for recovery is a devotion to self-improvement, rather than the selfish indulgence that made us sick.  One is a giving of ourselves, the other is frantic taking that leads to destruction.  The person who seeks self-improvement is competing only against his or her former self.  The sick brand of selfishness, on the other hand, is usually involved in unhealthy competition with others.

There is an easy way to test whether our selfishness is the right kind.  If our conduct leads to long-term happiness and higher self-esteem, it is probably right.  If it harms us or others, something is wrong.  We can correct this be getting back to the basics of the program and pursuing self-improvement rather than self-indulgence.

"Silently the work of the Spirit is done.

Already Love is drawing others to you. Take all who come as sent by Me, and give them a royal welcome.  It will surprise you, all that I have planned for you.

Welcome all who come with love. You may not see the work.  Today, they may not need you.  Tomorrow they may need you.  I may send you strange visitors.  Make each desire to return.  Nobody must come and feel unwanted.

Share your Love, your Joy, your Happiness, your time, your food, gladly with all.  Such wonders will unfold.  You see it all but in bud now - the glory of the open flower is beyond all your telling.  Love, Joy, Peace, in richest abundance - only believe.  Give out Love and all you can with a glad free heart and hand.  Use all you can for others, and back will come such countless stores and blessings."