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We live sedentary lifestyles and eat crap, breathe toxins and then wonder about our weight gain and anxiety and depression, so we go on unhealthy "diets" and eat pills to combat our weight gain, heart problems, obesity, anxiety and depression, we buy the products sold to us on TV, the newest "craze" being the pharm industry

Our minds are no different then our bodies, garbage in/garbage out, if I put crap gas in my car my plugs will foul, so why do we think it's different with our bodies and minds?

The Truth behind your weight gain

The Truth about the Pharm industry

The Truth about exercise and mental health

When I was new(ish) I started hanging around a group of people that had been sober a LONG time, and one of the things they started pounding into me was "you are what you eat, and you are what you do (exercise)"

In the 1970's 30% of the household budget went to food, today that number is 12%, even though our "mean" income has dropped considerably, we make less money and the buying power of our dollar is weaker yet we spend a HUGE chunk less on food.

Why is that?

It's because we eat fillers, sugar, food isn't even food any more, we eat "burgers" made of cow scraps that only a few short years ago went in dog food and cat food

In AA we talk about Alcoholism being three-fold in nature, I say it's four fold

Physical
mental
Emotional
Spiritual

It's no mistake physical leads the list, until we stop drinking, we can't have the other three, well in my experience, in the article I posted the other day, it talks about emotional sobriety, in my experience until and unless we address our bodies physical health, such as eat healthier foods and exercise my mental, emotional, and spiritual Sobriety will continue to elude me as well

These "old timers" I hung out with laughed at those of us guzzling coffee and munching cookies, as time went on I began attending meetings where other foods were offered, such as carrot sticks, cheese and crackers, herbal teas etc

In my years being around the program I have been absolutely overwhelmed by panic attacks, I have been debilatated by depression, I even tried zoloft and Prozac at different times, but what has worked for me has been been, in every case, not found in pharmacology, but the tools I learned in AA

when absolutely bed bound by crippling clinical depression I call someone, and I tell them to come get me, and they do, they put me to work painting fences or changing the brakes on a motorcycle, and after an hour I start whining, I want to go home, I want to take a nap, I don't feel well

They don't listen, they keep me busy and drag me around for a few days until the spell passes, and it always does

What -causes- me to slide into clinical depression are many things, winter time, a poor diet, slacking on my program and meetings, and as I go downhill, I pick up speed, my depression causes me to miss meetings, to isolate, to not get the exercise and sun I need, one thing I have learned over the years is BillyJack's Signature is true, when how I feel becomes more important then what I do I am screwed.

Sobriety consists a LOT more then just not drinking and going to meetings I have found, for me it's all or nothing, either I live a healthy lifestyle (which I fail at frequently) or I don't, but there is a cause and effect, if I eat shit, and think shit, I'm going to feel like shit and my life is going to go downhill

Dean had some great things to say about this, I am hoping he will add his experience with exercise and a good diet and different coping skills to this thread

When I give up ANYTHING I am addicted to, whether it's sugar, alcohol, cigarettes, zoloft, prozac, or unhealthy behaviors I have mood swings and I go through phases where I am homicidal and suicidal, there are healthy answers to 99% of our "problems", which are 99% of the time self induced, by what we put in our minds and our mouths

Working the steps and helping others is but a bare beginning of a lifestyle change, just as quitting drinking is but a bare beginning, and not "true sobriety", any recovery plan that doesn't include every aspect of my health, mental, emotional, AND physical is going to be a painful one and include far more suffering then it needs to

There is a member here I respect that got immobilized by clinical depression after many years in the program, and eventually he went to a Psycriatrist and got on meds, I believe that in some cases we do need that, but what I also have to remember is untreated alcoholism will manifest as clinical depression, and anxiety attacks, and PTSD, until I treat my alcoholism my mind will use all of the forces at it's not inconsiderable power to make me sick, and that includes giving me all of the symptoms of other mental illnesses, so that even doctors are fooled

My mind is an incredible thing, more powerful then any computer, and it can be as harmful or as helpful as I allow it to be





-- Edited by LinBaba on Monday 3rd of January 2011 01:21:32 PM

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I think it's important to distinguish between adfiictive and potentially addictive drugs (ativan, Ambien, etc.)

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Thank you for this post. I have just tackled a whole pile of clutter while in a fugue and had to drag my ass out of the bed kicking and screaming, all poor diet related I might add. I would 100% agree that there is a physical dimension to this one.

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TwelveSteps wrote:

I think it's important to distinguish between adfiictive and potentially addictive drugs (ativan, Ambien, etc.)

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I think it's important to live a healthy lifestyle

Marijuana is not considered "addictive" yet I personally know hundreds of people that have smoked just about daily for upwards of 30 years

Do they classify Sugar, white flour, food additives, fast food, sodas etc as addictive?

No, but try giving them up, watch what happens

my point is Sobriety includes a healthy lifestyle for me, not that I adhere to it all the time, but we are not Saints, and progress not perfection

peronally there are many things that others can and will do and call it sobriety that I can't do, and vice versa, I will be sharing at a meeting about how my rigorous honesty doesn't include me giving my money to the IRS and someone sitting across the room from me loaded on a cocktail of opiates/Xanax/valium that his Dr prescribed him will be judging my program and thinking to himself that I am not truly sober

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I don't have to differentiate between any of it because I am not interested in taking any of it, I don't differentiate between xanax, pot, valium, ativan, effexor, ambien etc my program doesn't include taking drugs other then aspirin, tylenol, ibuprophin etc, and unless I get hurt/sick, then watch me take the morphine as it is medically prescribed, if crippled by depression again I would consider taking a maoi or whatever they are called if all else failed, such as another trip through the steps and having my friends drag me around kicking and screaming

I'm not "telling" anyone else what to do or what to think, I am saying -for me- I can't work a program and eat drugs, what was it Dr Paul says, the guy who wrote "Doctor, Addict, Alcoholic"?

In the end I had to do the same with alcohol and all pills. I wasnt able to quit chemicals as long as they were in the house. If they were around, I always found a need for themespecially the pills. I never in my life took a tranquilizer, sedative, or pep pill because I was a pillhead. I always took it because I had the symptom that only that pill would relieve. Therefore, every pill was medically indicated at the time it was taken. For me, pills dont produce the desire to swallow a pill; they produce the symptoms that require that the pill be taken for relief. As a physician and pharmacist who had grown up in a drugstore-home, I had a pill for every ill, and I was sick a lot.

Today, I find I cant work my A.A. program while taking pills, nor may I even have them around for dire emergencies only. I cant say, Thy will be done, and take a pill. I cant say, Im powerless over alcohol, but solid alcohol is okay. I cant say, God could restore me to sanity, but until He does, Ill control myself with pills. Giving up alcohol alone was not enough for me; Ive had to give up all mood- and mindaffecting chemicals in order to stay sober and comfortable.

To this day, I am amazed at how many of my problemsmost of which had nothing to do with drinking, I believed have become manageable or have simply disappeared since I quit drinking.

I had already given up all the narcotics, most of the pills, and some of the alcohol when I first came to A.A. By early July I had tapered off alcohol completely, and I got off all pills in the ensuing few months. When the compulsion to drink left, it was relatively easy to stay off alcohol. But for some time, it was difficult to keep from taking a pill when I had an appropriate symptom, such as a cough, pain, anxiety, insomnia, a muscle spasm, or an upset stomach. It has gotten progressively easier. Today I feel I have used up my right to chemical peace of mind.

It helped me a great deal to become convinced that alcoholism was a disease, not a moral issue; that I had been drinking as a result of a compulsion, even though I had not been aware of the compulsion at the time; and that sobriety was not a matter of willpower. The people of A.A. had something that looked much better than what I had, but I was afraid to let go of what I had in order to try something new; there was a certain sense of security in the familiar.

The truth of the matter is me writing this is me combatting these tendencies in myself,  I am battling seasonal depression and I am writing down the actions I need to take in order to combat this, such as cleaning my house, getting some sun, hitting a meeting, and getting off my ass, I truly don't care what anyone else does, I'm here to work my program not anyone elses




 



-- Edited by LinBaba on Monday 3rd of January 2011 02:34:34 PM

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maire rua wrote:

Thank you for this post. I have just tackled a whole pile of clutter while in a fugue and had to drag my ass out of the bed kicking and screaming, all poor diet related I might add. I would 100% agree that there is a physical dimension to this one.




I'm right there with you, I'm doing the same thing, shorter days and less sun is brutal on my mental health, then I get lazy and start eating crap food, and the elevator starts picking up speed

 



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Cigarettes were the most physically addictive thing to me. I was physically addicted to alcohol to and that destroyed my soul in addition to my health though. I also couldn't stop smoking until I quit drinking. I am now crazy addicted to working out. I go to the gym about 4 times a week. I recognize what I am doing though when I have crazy thoughts like I wish I could leave work so I could go to the gym. While I will always get hooked on things, as that is my addictive nature, working out and eating right has been pretty positive. It was much easier to quit smoking after going to the gym. I need the lung power to do cardio. It would be sheer torture to be on that elliptical 4 or 5 times a week and hack and cough like i used to. Needless to say, cigarretes and alcohol tripled my anxiety and depression. Now that I eat better, have lost like 70 pounds, exercise regularly, and am sober, I almost do not need medication for anxiety and depression. I know people have lots of opinions on meds, and I wish like hell I didn't have to take them, but I am glad to not be at the point where I used to be which was being obese, actively alcoholic, chain smoking, and still feeling miserable all the time despite taking multiple high doses of psychotropic meds. Yuck..gives me shivers to think how unhealthy I was.

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Hello LinBaba,

You said and I quote "My mind is an incredible thing, more powerful then any computer, and it can be as harmful or as helpful as I allow it to be". I love that because you are right on the money! For myself my mind can hinder me from doing things that I desire to do either because of fear or because I am just not a social butterfly, but that just leaves me stuck in my own space walking in circles trying to figure out what to do!! It is ridiculous how one person can love to do something so much but refuses because of fear or omg people are watching me! Ex: I am a hola hoop a lot and when I say a lot I mean 3-5 days a week sometimes for 2 hrs and could go more. I am amazing and I am so confident when I am surrounded by fellow hoopers but when standing alone I'm like no not right now. So I understand the harmful and helpful part of your statement. My mind is quite helpful as well, lol...it has kept me sober for almost 3 yrs:) and has kept my head held high when things in my life have not gone as planned but hey I quess you have to have the highs and the lows to appreciate it all. That's all thanks for giving me something to think about!




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Thanks Lin,

I agree 100% with the importance of fitness and nutrition. I started going to the gym with some AA's when I first got sober and have since never taken more than a week off.

I changed my diet upon doing the lemonade/maple syrup/ cayenne pepper fast/ detox a few years ago. I never realized how processed foods affected mood, digestion and mental clarity.

The great thing about overcomming alcoholism is that we now have the confidence and courage to make other changes in our lives.

Unfortunately, most people are never able to stick with any type of program of change, I do believe people in AA are more able to make change areas of their life than the general population...another one of the gifts we receive.

Today, 80% to 90% of my diet consists of fresh fruits and vegetables. I go to the stores where a lot of 1st generation Latino's buy their foods, they are always packed with great produce at reasonable prices.

Avoid refined pasta's and breads and products containing refined sugars, these foods give us a insulin "rush" that just makes us want to eat more, then makes us tired.

In making the above statements, if you are new in Alcohol recovery it is not suggested you try to make too many changes at once. "First things First" focus on AA recovery until you feel compelled to make other changes.



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I work out every day. It's more important to my sobriety than meetings or pretty much anything else.

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TwelveSteps wrote:

I work out every day. It's more important to my sobriety than meetings or pretty much anything else.

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That, to me, is an incredibly frightening statement, reminds me of "here are some of the methods we have tried; taking more physical exercise"

I'd be incredibly interested to talk to you about this statement in 5 years

I just say that speaking from my own experience, where I had, how do I put it, "lingering notions" and misinformation about the nature of my own alcoholism, and it took 3 years for a similar "pebble in my shoe" to become so agonizingly painful I drank, even though I worked the steps 3 times I had missed a small and crucial bit of information about my alcoholism

It reminds me of using just meetings to stay sober, it works for awhile but the day comes when just meetings, or any other "human power" or even replacing one addiction for another, no matter how healthy, stops working, it's like getting in a relationship in early sobriety, we replace one addiction for another and then the new addiction either becomes "the problem" or stops working, I am of course speaking from hindsight, which is 20/20 and not making any indictment of you or "your program", but truly, i would be incredibly interested in speaking to you in 5 or 10 years to see what your experience with this approach was

 



-- Edited by LinBaba on Tuesday 4th of January 2011 01:27:35 PM

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The point is that physical exhaustion I find, is very useful.

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my sponsor told me to start by taking a one hour walk each day and progress into a fitness program that fits my situation and i will do just that its a start ,,,,,,,
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The depression I have functions independently from alcoholism. I had it before I even took a drink. Tools from AA help tremendously, but they don't solve everything. Similarly, like I stated earlier, I eat healthy and work out too. It helps but doesn't take clinical depression away. I will have to take medication for it my whole life. I am just glad it works.

P.S. Lin...Stop smoking! That is the worst way of breathing in toxins in the world.

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Health Is Relationship between You and Your Body Said By Rachel Anderson

 

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AstrowPuall wrote:

Health Is Relationship between You and Your Body...


Some very good points in this thread...

What ever happened to LinBaba? Haven't seen him post in a long time.



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I know... miss him... miss these kinds of discussions.

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I asked dean about a year ago... he said he's as doing good... working outside living life.

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Just wanted to point out that the new "astrowpuall" account, which revived this five-year-old thread, is a SPAM account.

It's purpose is to scatter those links in its comments.

Admins, please delete it.



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Decreasing tips that harm instead of benefit

 

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"My Bikini Belly Review"???? That's too funny!
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