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MIP Old Timer

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Just a few things I have learned and wish to share
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Positive love is what is needed to share a lifelong relationship. Positive love is a mature, deep and knowing love. Positive love is the love of knowing someone, seeing their faults clearly and not wanting to change them. Positive love is the difference between loving someone because of who they are, instead of loving someone in spite of who they are. Positive love is a love of not wanting to be together physically all the time, but knowing that we are always together, emotionally.

Positive love between two people provides a balance to each other’s strengths and weaknesses and makes two people more than a couple. Positive love makes two people one complete unit. Positive love enables the complete unit to face any challenge, and to achieve any goal without fear or uncertainty. Positive love provides a bond which can only come with a love which spans many lifetimes. Positive love places people in tune with each other and allows communication without words. Positive love places each other above everything and everyone else in their life. Positive love puts the other person first without fear that this will be abused.


We feel positive love with a deep inner certainty. We feel positive love without one doubt in our mind, heart or soul. We know that this person is the right partner for us. The love which we feel is too positive, too important, and too powerful for us to compromise ourselves. If either of us have to compromise ourselves to be together, then we are not both giving an equal amount to the relationship, and our unit will not be complete. The need to compromise ourselves will turn positive love into negative love, and that is a risk which we cannot take. When two people both see and feel positive love, nothing will or can keep them apart.




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MIP Old Timer

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WOW! What wonderful words. Thank you for sharing them, Phil


 


Now. How the heck did you do that multi color line at the bottom???  


 


Love to you


Doll



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