At Step Four we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking, and frightened? Though a given situation had not been entirely our fault, we often tried to cast the whole blame on the other person involved.
We finally saw that the inventory should be ours, not the other man's. So we admitted our wrongs honestly and became willing to set these matters straight.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, P. 67
-- Edited by FlyingSquirrel on Tuesday 10th of August 2010 01:57:33 PM
This has become a career step for Jerry F; the longest career I've ever had with the best payoff. I get to know the one person I've lived my entire life with and knew nothing about. Guess who? Mahalo again.
