You used great courage admitting your alcoholism and reaching out to a recovery community.
I have a few questions... How are you feeling? Any withdrawals or heebie-jeebies? Alcohol detox can be potentially deadly. I want to make sure that you're not seeking us out if you should be in a hospital.
What actions have you taken so far to stop drinking or get sober?
Any other drug problems? I do, and I am finding it incredibly helpful to keep my doctor informed of my progress and issues in sobriety, as well as utilizing other psychotherapy.
Best thing I can recommend is to "pull up a chair", and start reading others' posts. Introduce yourself and let us get to know a little about you, as much as you are comfortable with. This is a great place to share our experience, strangth and hope with how to cope with the various things that we face while trying to get and stay sober through AA. It does not take the place of real-life face-to-face ("F2F") AA meetings, but it can help you in many ways and is a nice supplement to recovery through AA.
I am a true alcoholic--- drinking has affected my mind, body, relationships and attitudes. I need F2F AA meetings and the support of AA people in my life. But there are times when I am not at a meeting and I need to talk, or just to come here and see what is going on with everyone else. Sometimes I can offer some support to another person here. We get to know eachother here like "family", and we welcome you to it.
Looking forward to getting to know you, Trailboss. Feel free to share with us anything and any time you like. We were all "new" at one time and we are here to help the present newcomers just like you!!
joni
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~Your Higher Power has not given you a longing to do that which you have no ability to do.
Aloha trailboss...Glad you are here...some basics? It's a mind and mood altering chemical and I'm powerless over it. Familiar? I didn't learn that in a drinking institution, family group, TV commercial, booze label or any where else I use to go find it at. I learned that little...huge...bit or info from inside recovery. I also learned that it was most of the reason why my skin had a yellowish-green hue to it also. Stick around there is sooo much more to learn and some of it will apply to you. Keep coming back. Have you taken the assessment yet or are you otherwise convinced?
I would suggest finding AA meetings in your area and begin to attend. Ppl there should make you feel very comfortable and after awhile you will begin to feel right at home .
Id also suggest getting a big book of Alcoholics Anonymous and reading it.
Keep coming back here ... if you feel up to it, share a little about yourself and give us the chance to possibly help you.
Theres no shame in being an alcoholic. There is shame tho in being one, knowing it and not doing anything about it.
I didn't know anything about AA either. I was fortunate to have an ex who had been in the program and who stayed on the phone with me for 4 hours that first day and told me everything I wanted to know about before my first meeting. We've all been there. There are no stupid questions.
I've made a ton of sober friends in the program and now really enjoy going to meetings. It's scary at first, but I have confidence you can do it.
Welcome to MIP Trailboss. Kudos to you for taking this first step to learning about AA, alcoholism and what we do to help us stay sober. Please share whatever you need to, and reading the "archives" may help give you some insights into AA while you're getting your land legs. Glad to have you aboard! be well, Chris