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The Simple Approach to the 12 Steps

Step 1: There's a power that will kill me.

Step 2:There's a power that wants me to live.

Step 3:Which do I want? (If you want to die, stop here. If you want to live, go on.)

Step 4: Using examples from your own life, understand that selfishness, dishonesty,
resentment, and fear control your actions.

Step 5: Tell all your private, embarrassing secrets to another person.

Step 6: Decide whether or not you want to live that way any more.

Step 7: If you want your life to change, ask a Power Greater Than yourself to change it for you.
(If you could have changed it yourself, you would have long ago.)

Step 8: Figure out how to make right all the things you did wrong.

Step 9: Fix what you can without causing more trouble in the process.

Step 10: Understand that making mistakes is part of being human
(When you make a mistake, fix it, immediately if you can.)

Step 11: Ask for help to treat yourself and others like you, the way you want your higher power to treat you.

Step 12: Don't stop doing 1 through 11. And PASS IT ON!



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Thanks, Larry.  I like these. I'm such a freak about semantics, that it really helps to read the steps for what they mean... 

Example:  "Once you're sober..."  I always thought, "I am sober.  Right now, I'm sober."  That's not what that means...

Anyway, thanks again.
L

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Or you could read them the way they are written, and take the gentler approach & go through them with the help of a Big Book Step Study Sponsor.

The program looks different to everyone, it's not one size fits all. (Not that anything ever is.)

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