i typed out a reply for my last post...:(...but don't see it there...so I'll try this,....
well thats strange...i see a reply from Kim H on the main page but not here.....
So I finally talked to him.....he's choosing to keep seeing me!!!!!!!!!
well they say expectations lead to disappointments...really i thought he would be telling me that we wouldn't be seeing each other anymore...well, I'm not disappointed!!!!!
She was at his house that nigth and apparently now he has a big hole in his wall. He told her about me to, which I'm proud of him for!!
She said she was a social worker for quite a few years and had to tell him that she's never seen anyone change...even if its 10 years later...they always go back. She's speaking about me and my addictions....
he knows he is taking this chance with me. Maybe he does see some change in me, because he's willing to risk...
I know I still have to take this one day at a time, just like my sobriety.
For prayers anyone said on my behalf, thankyou!!!
God, thankyou!!!
It's a brighter , beautiful day, I'm smiling again for the most part., family stuff I will save for another post.
God bless and may your day be filled with heart smiles!!!
Yeah, that happens to me too...post an answer and it dissappears. I think my computer is out to get me sometimes!!
Glad you're okay, even gladder (is that a word?) you're happy. Looks like you plan on taking it slow and easy...that's good, then you both know for sure that it's what you both want.And yes, he is taking a chance but so are you. Don't forget that, ok? You are a different person than you were when in your addictions...and people DO change.
You mentioned in an earlier post that he once said he wished you could have a beer with him occasionally...maybe he could attend some open meetings with you and learn why that is so dangerous for alcoholics.
Anyway, you've been on my mind alot...so don't dissappear completely, ok?
Hey Wendy, I'm glad you are happy and feeling better. I'm glad you said slow and easy, and one day at a time.We have to remember our sobriety comes first. I know your boyfriend has gone to a meeting with you , it would be great if he would go to more meetings with you. We have quite a few couples in our AA group, it is awesome to see them working on recovery together.We have even had some couples retreats. There is one couple who had been married 40 years, they are such an inspiration .There are always going to be tough times but it helps if we have an idea where the other is coming from.
How are things going with your sponsor? Did you say you are working on your 4th Step?
Keep posting and have a super sober day. Love can be beautiful!
.. he knows he is taking this chance with me. Maybe he does see some change in me, because he's willing to risk...
jeeze Louise is right!!! sounds to me like YOU'RE the one taking the chance......He sounds like the jerk I used to date!! Don't think I'd want a man who couldn't decide between me or another. That choice would be EASY, cause he wouldn't have one with me...Grow some brass ones girlfriend.......
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