Yep, I really did it! I said I was going to but not when, so now it's done!
Biggest difference: not spending every waking moment on some aspect of the wedding.
It really came off well. My sober-A stepdaughter gave the toast (with ginger ale) and it was one of the nicest things anybody ever said about me. Memories to treasure... but life goes on one day at a time - the minister even made mention of "the road of happy destiny" (from the Big Book page 164).
I even played bari sax and they didn't throw food at me!
Yay Bari!!! Happy happy times!!! I am with you, glad the "pre-wedding details" of the ordeal are over..... that part of weddings sucks!!! Sounds like you two had a very meaningful occasion with family and friends. Bless you both and a happy marriage to you!!
Joni
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~Your Higher Power has not given you a longing to do that which you have no ability to do.