Just thought I'd drop and say hi and well just returned yesterday from Toronto.
Went down for some legal stuff and did what I wanted to do, but what a disappointment with some family members. Just at a lost for words, the self pity party and blaming everyone else. Sad Really
I went to see if my brother and sister had some information to add with my papers and not a one had anything. One would think with a case pending that most people would hang on to such papers.
I told my aunt that I was done wash my hands of them and time for me to move on, this too will bother me for a while and I pray for them, not like it's gonna do much for them but.....
The outcome was I did what I needed to do for some closure to move with regards to my mothers accident and her unfortunate death as a result.
And I was able to spend some time with my 70 year old aunt, any ways I'm back and it's good be here.
Glad you are back, we can only try to change things, and give yourself a pat on the back for that. Family issues, just lots of Prayers seem to work with others that I cannot really reach, for whatever reason.
I related some to that post Tina with the perception that before you washed your hands of them did you put them in your Higher Powers hands? HP has a very different and unique way of having things come out which I like better than just watching them and all of it spiral down the drain once and for all. Glad you're back. (((((Hugs)))))
I agree that self pity is not the way to go. I stay positive and try to make the best of a bad situation. Everything will be ok. Feeling sorry for yourself never did anyone any good.
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