No I didn't say live and let live about you i meant that i wanted to get conversation going on the board and i, myself weren't accepting the board the way it was.  so there was irony for me to look at.

sorry about your situation.  I just got a phone call last night about a girl who left an apartment in her name to get sober.  she left her boyfriend and all her furniture to find recovery. it is always so difficult to stand your ground to become well.  i hate having to be in that position, not that i feel totally bad but i feel so mean. i chose to live today and nobody is worth compromising my position.