Some of you have asked questions and offered suggestion, thank you. The situation of Deaf in AA highlights some very basic characteristics of AA that almost nobody realises. Perhaps if we have some discussion here the light will spread.
In 2000 I became General Service Representative for the Better Attitudes Group and attended General Service district meetings, area quarterly meetings and Special Needs Committee meetings. Sign Language Interpreters helped me at all of those meetings. A little over a month ago I became GSR for the As Bill Sees It Group. I asked for an interpreter for the District General Service meeting and my request was denied. The meeting was last Saturday, I went but left when I saw that there was going to be no interpreter. Because I am Deaf, I have been denied participation in AA General Service. How can that happen? The answer as always, is in the spiritual dimension but there are two main facts in the physical world that point to the answer. In 2000 when Deaf could participate there was no AA advertising and there was no Linguistics Committee. I'm not judging those things good or bad, just saying that they show the direction of the AA Body Politic.
An AA group is a gathering of men and women who come together to share their experience, strengths and hopes with each other that they may solve their common problem of alcoholism. AA committees do not come together for the same purpose. The group is a collective consciousness because of the common intention of its members. Committees and boards are a collective unconsciousness and therefore a gathering of egos. Egos only have one intention and that is to strengthen its self individually. When they see an opportunity to strengthen themselves individually by joining with others, they are attracted to the service boards and committees. The AA Body Politic is simply a collection of egos promoting themselves. That explains why in spite of a tradition that says "Our public relations policy is based upon attraction rather than promotion", we have Bill Board Advertising and why we have Linguistics Committees that only speaks Spanish. Not very many of those egos can see how providing access to Deaf will strengthen it. The only way they will see that is for the rest of us to raise our consciousness and express our intentions to those egos. Yes, there are many things that could be done. But none of those things will be done by the committees and boards until those egos see either, that they can strengthen themselves and look good or that they cannot survive unless they do those things.
So, there are a number of directions this discussion can go. The topic might be "Primary Purpose". The good news is that my group has embraced me and is supporting me in many ways including by providing an interpreter for our meetings.
Kudos to you for getting active to address this problem. It's sad that a burarcracy exists in the regional levels of AA. Clearly it will take some more work to over come and if you provide some contact info to the proper channells, I and perhaps others would take the time to contract these folks and express our opinion about the need for equal access for our hearing impaired brothers and sisters. I must say though that making general statements about all these folks being nothing but a "collection of egos" is hardly fair and could hardly be appealing to further your cause, speaking as a professional negotiator.
I live fairly close to you and have been active in Pinellas Co. AA since I moved here, with 3 years sober, in '92. If you would like to address this problem in our County, I will do what I can to make that happen. You have my email.
Thanks, yes that is a problem - my background is "Auditor" (tell it like it is) and I am the son of a Marine Drill Instructor (beat them into submission). I tend to leave bodies floating in the wake as I make way here. You are welcome to quote anything I have written here to further the cause.
Welcome to MIP, Greg. I hope you'll keep coming back & sharing your ESH. We all deserve sobriety & I'm touched by the message you gave in another post in regards to the spirit you're able to sense in the rooms of AA despite your restrictions. I hope sharing here will enhance your recovery so that you get to 'hear' more of what may be shared too. I'm intrigued by your book & would love to sample more exerpts if that's possible with a view to a purchase. I bought some John Bradshaw books on Dean's recommendation though I've not spent the time needed to read through them yet! Still on the To Do list, hopefully for this summer after my course finishes! Keep on coming back, Greg. You're more than welcome, Danielle x
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"despite your restrictions" I smiled as I read that. So many times I have approached someone after a meeting, told them I didn't hear much of what they said during the meeting, asked them to share with me this serious problem (I had heard only what they said with their face) and then they unload a completely different issue than they had shared in the meeting. A whole room full of people and I was the only one that "heard" the true story. It happens regularly. So, who is restricted? I'm not criticizing your choice of words just pointing out that it is more of a difference than a restriction. The difference between those two terms is why when I ask for accommodation, I get only sympathy - if that - smile.