There are quite a few, but the one that comes to mind first is years ago, when my John and I broke up for the umpteenth time, I posted him on Cheaters.com. It included his full name, address and phone number! He of course found out about it when out of the blue women starting calling and cussing him out! He also got 'hate mail' ! Needless to say he was first on my list for step 9!
Next?
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I was not the most loyal of boy friends myself. Of course I didn't see it that way at the time. This came back to haunt several times, and the worst was when wife #1 and I were separated, she immediately started dating someone. I was wrighting my 4th step at the time, and more or less stalking the house she lived in, on my way to work in moring, to see if that guy had been spending the night. No worse feeling than that.
Dragging my family and husband through the mud to get me back home after a week's worth of insnaity, and then not going home anyway. Thank God I made it back.
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Not on 4th step yet but yeah...got some pretty sick stuff to look forward to sharing. Good thing some of it was in my "Last drunk" assignment I wrote....way too graphic for this page.
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