That the new job is going well and that things are slowly up, and well, guess I bumped into a situation.
And need some advice, now here is how it is but not sure I should bring it up on the board....
And it scares me somewhat, but not sure if i did the right thing. I feels rite and well needed to move on, and so did the person I WAS seeing moves on and told them that they needed to work on them selves and that I couldn't do the roller coaster ride anymore. I don't hold resentments, cause I had my part in it allowing it to continue.
Letting go of chaos is a very stable and wise thing to do, when it is affecting our ability to move forward.
I am trying hard to let go of my own "non-removable" chaos here at home. I miss the days when I could shut the door on stuff that was interfering with my sanity and serenity. But I have to be grateful for whatI do have, and still try to detach in the midst of it all.
Wishing you a lovely day.
Joni
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~Your Higher Power has not given you a longing to do that which you have no ability to do.
It's great that you've reached the point where you feel courageous enough to let go, Tina. You're living in the now & allowing yourself the love to take care of you. That shows great strength & progress & you're listening to & following your heart. Well done! I'm sure your HP is looking after you too just fine. It sounds like you have a lot of acceptance & have been enjoying your new job. Long may the joy continue 1Day@aTime. I've been learning how to deal with unhealthy dynamics & relationships in sobriety too & it's all thanks to this fellowship & the support everyone gives me in moving forward & learning how to practice in my program. Where would we be without each other? Good luck in your next ventures :) Recovery love, Danielle x
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Progress not perfection.. & Practice makes Progress!
Hi Tina Good news that you are taking care of YOU!! It is painful to move on, change what is familiar and comfortable.... But we all know when the time has come for the time to be done!!!! Wishing you peace and happiness!
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"We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. "
Yes sometimes it can be hard to move on, and it is necessary. Just when I thought I had a bad week. Found out Last Nite that someone I knew through the program had committed suicide Wednesday.
I heart goes out to all whom were close to him, He well be remembered for his wise words from the AA Meetings that I had a pleasure of attending.
Kinda makes my small problems, seem alittle out of sorts, when others are going through tougher situations then I am.
