I stated a post about my husband's drinking. I said how long he drink and how long he was sober.. and it's a good bit of years.. people always give me hell because I am married to an older man.. I do not wish to disclose his age as I cannot stand to be upset.. especially not right now.. people don't understand our relationship, but we are deeply in love and soul mates and I personally am not a relationship person.. so it's gotta be special. Happily married.. VERY happily.. 4 years this October.. I found in group therapy a lot of people judged our relationship.. when they had no right to.. and actually my husband is what's kept me sane all these years.. I mean.. it's funny.. gay marriage.. I have nothing against it.. but people jump down your throat if somebody says something wrong about it.. but age is such a big issue isn't it? NOT. We have EVERYTHING in common, we like almost EVERYTHING the same.. the same shows, the same food, the same everything.. we call ourself "The Odd Couple" because of the age diffference.. but we are so compatible.. i talk to him about everything and he listens and he knows all my dirty little secrets and just kisses me and holds my hand. in fact.. he's such a wonderful husband.. my girlfriends are jealous.. =P

So I highly doubt anybody here will judge me.. just wanted to make sure I am secure in this fact..

-- Edited by whiskey__heartache at 21:41, 2008-05-28