Boy, I can relate to what you said about no one knowing how to live and let live! I moved over 2,000 miles away from a very dysfunctional, alcoholic family and the craziness still reached me! I had to set boundaries in order to protect my sobriety, sanity and my serenity, no matter how many feathers got ruffled.
Keep on working your program as best you can and God will provide you with the strength and courage you need to keep on your path to the good life.
God bless... and I wish you a blessed Christmas, Busbe.