Hi eveyone thanks for all the replayes that you sent me it did help me a lot to know that you were there and i could tell somone other than famliey.Sorry about spellings i am not very good at writting so i hope you can work out what i have been trying to say. I hope you are all well and not to cold as its very cold here now. And i will let you all know how i am doing same with you all, Can you all let me know how things are with you all. Thats all for now love and fellowshipe Linda xxxxxxxxx
Hi Linda! Our cold spell finally broke today, and we are looking at temps in the 50's tomorrow!
I've got a meeting tonight, so I'm off to take a shower and put on my makeup.
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Hi Linda, Im so glad youve found something special here at MIP> I know I certainly have. Arent we blessed to have people who can relate to what we're going thru and know were not alone!!! Its snowing here and cold!!!!! But getting ready to jump into my warm bed!!!! Have a great day! Lani
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Hiya, Linda! Thanks for your presence here. I'm glad you're enjoying your day. May you have many more happy ones 1Day@aTime. I'm feeling much better of late. Sometimes I struggle with acceptance *Don't we All!* but today I feel alot calmer & surrendered. My temper has flared a few times this week & I've been learning alot about that & using the tools I'm learning in AA. Like if someone wrongs us & we are sore we are in the wrong also.. It's hard to look at myself like this but there is a certain freedom in knowing that I can change this even if it takes a few moments or awhile. I'm relieved it's progress & not perfection & between my 'flare~ups' the quality of my headspace is alot better so I'm not depressed today the way I used to be. Anger seems to be like a challenge of 'What am I going to do about this emotion now ~ What can I do with it' That takes some particular steering & it's new ways of thinking assertively for me without depending on ego for survival. Ego is exhausting! Anyway, thanks for asking. I hope you didn't mind my sharing in reply. I've joined my Monday morn BB study for my home~group now & have organised my availabilty at work to allow for this to which I'm grateful. Just for today tis onwards & upwards. I hope you're feeling joy in your recovery today too, Danielle x
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HI all thanks for thinking of me and getting back to me . I whent to a meeting last night it was great as it was my friends AAbrithday she was six so we had cakes and chocs very nice . Danielle do you know i have trouble with anger as well but i think its more with myself then with anyone eles but i still find it hard to let go but the thing is i know when i am doing it now and try to keep it in cheeck with the help of my H P and with eveything its still one day at a time for me anyway thanks again i will chat to you soon Linda xxxxxx
Hi all my firends, I hope your all well? Sorry its been so long since i have been on line but i always mean to come on and see what you have all been upto then somthing eles comes up. well i am well and still sobber by the grace of god. I am having some problems at work with one of my mangers, I have ulcers on my feet and cant work on two checkouts because there to low and this makes my feet very painfull but on sunday she made me go on these c/outs and i was crying with the. but someone must of told because her as i was taken of and put on a better one. My doctor has given me a note to say i cant work on these low c?outs so i will have to see what happens now. sorry i have goin on a bit x