Hi Joni! I have some ESH for you. I was sober for 3 years. I was very active in service work and meetings and sponsored half the women in San Diego. Then I got a job, ut oh! Gone went the meetings, service work, and sponsees. I stopped praying and being nice to people. I had the affair not my husband. Feelings of guilt I drank. My husband and I thought if we drank together it would save our marriage. We had a blast for about 2 days. Well, today is 10 years later. We have been divorced for 9 of it and I have been drunk for most of it except for the last 4 months. You are not alone. Just remember you and I have something special, we already know H.O.W. it works, we have to just do it!! You';ll be fine. Just pick up the tools and use them and work at it One Day At A Time! Bless you! Love in the Fellowship of the Spirit! Allison
It's the relationships that get them every time. My Mother (32 years sober) likes to say "Underneath every skirt there's a slip". I'm glad you're both back.
thanks so much, all. Nique, your experience struck me with amazement, and I was once told that if you listen (read?) long enough you will hear your story.
Thanks for the ESH, and I hope this reply works!!!!
joni
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That is how it works Joni. Identification is awsome. If you like we can be penpals my email address is allisonanderson67@yahoo.com drop me a note sometime. Allison
Allison, can I be really cheeky, can I copy ure addy too. Im new in sobriety after 4 years and although I go to meetings, when I get home I am on my own, trying to deal with everything.