Recommended ways to treat your sponsor if you don't want to develop the level of trust necessary for working a through and cleansing Fifth Step with him or her.   1. Call your sponsor after all major decisions in your life and tell him or her how well you've managed by yourself.   2. Avoid calling your sponsor when you feel angry because you know he or she will help you look for your part in it.   3. Tell your sponsor what you think he or she needs to hear, omitting the details that you consider unimportant and slanting the story in your favor.   4. Avoid attending meetings where your sponsor might be, and tell him or her that you still go to a lot of meetings -- they just happen to on the other side of town.   5. Call your sponsor at home in the middle of the day (knowing he or she has a daytime job) and leave a message on his or her answering machine requesting a call back, putting the "ball in his or her court" and giving yourself some time to "work it out yourself" (along with a ready-made excuse of "well, I called").   6. Give your sponsor credit for all of your new decisions and behaviors, telling everyone that "my sponsor recommends" whether he or she actually did so or not.   7. Screen your phone calls, answering only those that you are in the mood to talk to.   8. If you don't like the suggestions your sponsor makes, keep checking with other A.A. members until you find one who gives you the answer you want.   9. Remember the character defects that your poor sponsor has shared over time and throw them up to him or her when he or she is helping you discover your own defects.   A.S.A.P. Always Say A Prayer  

Hey buddy

how about a sponser that says your doing good

go to meetings if u want to

i can't tell u what to do

you did a fourth and fifth ,what are u worring about??

just thinking here

Hey Rick Bud.:)  Sounds pretty good from this end.

Gotta just do what yu gotta do for you Pal.

Step 6 and 7--Oooooo my God!! Look Out!! hahaha

If Im not talking with you before tomorrow-Im taking off Saturday on a leave of absence, for a few days. Back on the board in a week.

Stay sober my freind.--- And Sane? We arent going there.:)

 

 

YEH i KNOW

hAVE A GREAT TRIP

i'M THROWING MY BOAT IN THIS AFTERNOON

iT TOOK 2 YEARS TO GET IT RUNNING.  A WHOLE BIG STORY. GODS TIME NOT MINE

COOK OUT THIS EVE WITH MY BROTHERINLAW (WHO HELPED ME) AND HIS FAMILY

SHOULD BE FUN--IT TOOKA LOT OF YEARS AND SOME FORGIVENESS, BUT NOW I LIKE HIM.( ANOTHER STORY TO FORGET ABOUT)

FORGIVENESS  A BIG WORD

Well-you have a serene and fun time my freind.:) At least youre getting yours in the water.:) Bought one a few summers ago-big ideas. It set on my lawn for months. Never did get it in the water.  Had to just accept the fact, that it wasnt going to happen.

Had to revert back to the bath tub and a rubber ducky.

Forgiveness-have no problem forgiving others now--its forgiving myself sometimes that creeps back in.  The old stuff of Guilt and Shame

--today --its trying to put brain in gear before opening mouth. I sometimes say things in a joking manner, that are taken the wrong way, and hurt others. or react in anger with hurtful words to those I care about.   God!! I hate doing that. Then --I can kick my ass all over the street.

Oh well-progress.

DURING jADES HOSTIPAL STAY i PRAYED FOR A CLOSED MOUTH EVERYDAY!!  It worked pretty well, I didn't run my mouth.  Tried to let god do his thing!!

Outcome??  What when?????????

Kinda in a depressive mood here, trying to move outta it. I'm in the slow mode ok!!   Just doing nota thing.  Oh well--sober!!

This too shall pass, then I'll take advantage of it.( my energy)  aT LEAST BEING ON HERE i FEEL GOOD

iSN'T THAT THE POINT???

mY TYPING JUST MAY IMPROVE IN A FEW YEARS--have a hell of a time with cap lock!!

not perfect  not even close  and it's ok!!

otta here  Rick

Good for you ...have a great time sailing!!

Open mouth...insert foot!! Having a dollar for the times that happened...might have a few extra bucks.

Nancy Jo