Letting go is accepting and loving others as they are, not as we would like them to be
02. Letting go is accepting that we cannot control or change another, that we can only control or change ourselves.
03. Letting go is encouraging others to make their own decisions and to learn from the results.
04. Letting go is allowing others to feel pain or depression, and to struggle through and grow at their own pace.
05. Letting go is suspending our judgment so that we can really hear what others say, doing our best to see the world through their eyes.
06. Letting go is releasing our belief that what others say, do, or believe about us as people can define our self-worth: it is not needing approval from others to believe we are valuable.
07. Letting go is understanding and acknowledging the pains and failures of the past, and releasing them: it is preferring to live in the only time where we can make a difference---the present.
08. Letting go is admitting that we are powerless in certain situations that the outcome is not in our hands.
09. Letting go is releasing our outdated images of others and ourselves.
10. Letting go is striving to be emotionally healthier every day and fostering emotional health in those we love.
ellen said
Aug 7, 2005
LIKE TO LET GO OF THIS COMPUTER TODAY.... GOTTA HAMMER ANYONE.....
HAVING A BAD DAY AND CANT SEEM TO WORK TODAY....HAVING EMOTIONAL RELAPSES TODAY....THINGS AINT GOING MY WAY AND IT REALLY STINKS...NEED A VACATION.....ANY SANATARIUMS THAT HAVE AN OCCUPANCY...JUST LET ME KNOW....NO LOL'S HERE.....
GOTTA GET THIS DONE AND I AM NOT IN THE MOOD.....THINGS ARE MY PROBLEM TODAY.
JUST VENTING BUT REALLY WANT TO GO HOME AND PROCRASTINATE....
THANKS FOR THE POST PHIL.....GUESS IT'S MY TURN TO TAKE MY OWN ADVISE....JUST GOTTA CRAM IT DOWN MY THROAT AND SURRENDER...
THINK I WILL GO FOR A WALK AROUND THE OFFICE...MAYBE I WILL GET LOST...LOL
Phil said
Aug 7, 2005
hmmm-Ide say--come on up to Ontario, but I wanna live to see tomorrow-hahaha
um-you could do what I do--drive around town and scare the sheet out of little old ladies at crosswalks-no eh?
well-um-murders only against the law if you get caught right? I have this freind in Brazil... um-
no-better not do that--ide loose a freind.
hmmmm--another thing I do is go outside and scream in the middle of the night--it scares all the wild animals away-but theres an old peoples home across the road--and I really didnt know till a few days ago that old people knew how to cuss.
WE ALL HAVE OUR BAD DAYS__ITS YOUR TURN(Smile)
ps-you can swear at me it you wish-Ive got big shoulders.
Bobby Dean said
Aug 8, 2005
Hello Phil! Thanks, This is a really good post. Sometimes things are a bit clearer when I look at them in black and white.
02. Letting go is accepting that we cannot control or change another, that we can only control or change ourselves.
03. Letting go is encouraging others to make their own decisions and to learn from the results.
04. Letting go is allowing others to feel pain or depression, and to struggle through and grow at their own pace.
05. Letting go is suspending our judgment so that we can really hear what others say, doing our best to see the world through their eyes.
06. Letting go is releasing our belief that what others say, do, or believe about us as people can define our self-worth: it is not needing approval from others to believe we are valuable.
07. Letting go is understanding and acknowledging the pains and failures of the past, and releasing them: it is preferring to live in the only time where we can make a difference---the present.
08. Letting go is admitting that we are powerless in certain situations that the outcome is not in our hands.
09. Letting go is releasing our outdated images of others and ourselves.
10. Letting go is striving to be emotionally healthier every day and fostering emotional health in those we love.
LIKE TO LET GO OF THIS COMPUTER TODAY.... GOTTA HAMMER ANYONE.....
HAVING A BAD DAY AND CANT SEEM TO WORK TODAY....HAVING EMOTIONAL RELAPSES TODAY....THINGS AINT GOING MY WAY AND IT REALLY STINKS...NEED A VACATION.....ANY SANATARIUMS THAT HAVE AN OCCUPANCY...JUST LET ME KNOW....NO LOL'S HERE.....
GOTTA GET THIS DONE AND I AM NOT IN THE MOOD.....THINGS ARE MY PROBLEM TODAY.
JUST VENTING BUT REALLY WANT TO GO HOME AND PROCRASTINATE....
THANKS FOR THE POST PHIL.....GUESS IT'S MY TURN TO TAKE MY OWN ADVISE....JUST GOTTA CRAM IT DOWN MY THROAT AND SURRENDER...
THINK I WILL GO FOR A WALK AROUND THE OFFICE...MAYBE I WILL GET LOST...LOL
hmmm-Ide say--come on up to Ontario, but I wanna live to see tomorrow-hahaha
um-you could do what I do--drive around town and scare the sheet out of little old ladies at crosswalks-no eh?
well-um-murders only against the law if you get caught right? I have this freind in Brazil... um-
no-better not do that--ide loose a freind.
hmmmm--another thing I do is go outside and scream in the middle of the night--it scares all the wild animals away-but theres an old peoples home across the road--and I really didnt know till a few days ago that old people knew how to cuss.
WE ALL HAVE OUR BAD DAYS__ITS YOUR TURN(Smile)
ps-you can swear at me it you wish-Ive got big shoulders.
Hello Phil! Thanks, This is a really good post. Sometimes things are a bit clearer when I look at them in black and white.