July 7    ...primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and frustration. Therefore, no peace was to be had unless we could find a means of reducing these demands. The difference between a demand and a simple request is plain to anyone.     Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p. 76

Peace is possible for me only when I let go of expectations. When I'm trapped in thoughts about what I want and what should be coming to me, I'm in a state of fear or anxious anticipation and this is not condusive to emotional sobriety. I must surrender  -- over and over -- to the reality of my dependence on God, for then I find peace, gratitude and spiritual security.  Daily Reflections p.197