Are any of these a problem for the alcoholic?    Perfectionism, Procrastination, Paralyisis,

I can see where perfectionism could be if an alcoholic feels in their thinking they could never be enough while growing up, etc.  How about the other two?

um-sounds like any one of these is possible, with any human being.:)

I can share one thing with you, and Ile speak for myself.

We are usally extremists, or do nothing.:)

Character defects run riot? Yikes. If we revert back to our old ways of thinking. Yup.

Its the emotional spiritual balance, and striving for moderation--at least in my daily living anyway, that I work towards.

Stubborness is another biggy. hehehe

 

You still tryin to figure him out, there Sal Gal?  Likely never happen. (Smile) I hafta keep going to

 Alanon to stay out of their minds and keep in my own. Its safer. And saner, and gives one a bit more

 peace of mind. Its the Love and detatch thingy. And beating him with a rubber hammer?  Thats

assault.  Cant control him, cant cure him, cant kill him.:)

You have a great evening.

 I have to laugh at myself sometimes, and  LOOK OUT FOR MR PERFECT

Perfectionism

Part of the ego reduction necessary to our recovery is the acceptance of the fact that we are not and never will be perfect. Perfectionism gets in the way of recovery because it imposes impossible, unrealistic goals which guarantee failure. If we do not think we have to be perfect, then we can accept our mistakes as learning experiences and be willing to try again.

Deepening acquaintance with our Higher Power is good insurance against perfectionism. We come to believe that God accepts and loves us as we are, and this gives us the courage and humility to accept ourselves.

We are not perfect, but we are growing. In spite of our weaknesses, we can serve others according to God's plan for our lives. Accepting our own limitations makes us more tolerant of the faults and weaknesses of those around us. Together, we progress.

I am thankful that I don't need to be perfect.

Paralyisis,  A bad case of depression?   That's what I had

 Thanks for your replies.  I am trying to figure me out.  The perfection post really hits home, and yeah, several types of depression w/me cause procrastination and paralysis.  So, yeah, I am a mixed ball of wax here.  So I can see my making my relationship closer with my Higher Power will be the most helpful.  

And Phil, you mention moderation and not extremes.  How true, for me, seeking that out again in life and more balance.   Should help me with all three P's!   Thanks Guys!