Well Guys!! did we all get through the weekend ok? Amanda. good to hear your back on track. Some days I wonder what that is. Emotional balance they say.:) Busbe. I have all the answers. I just hafta matchem up with the questions.(Smile) I do know that we hafta take care of US first. And in turn you love your husband so in my opinion the both of you come first, and LET GO OF THE REST OF IT. cant fix em, cant change em, and murders against the law. I used to react all over ther place about people, situations and things. I guess all I can share with you is--When I went through enough pain and caous trying to control or change or fix--I just had to let That Good Old Higher Power take care of it --let it go, and put up boundaries to keep my sanity. Ran around trying to make everything right, and people pleasing --my Gosh!! It can drive some of us right back to the bottle, or a dry drunk. You take care of you Dear. Thats gotta come first.:) Ive got a great saying that I picked up somewhere, and to me its the same as letting go. "Screw it!! Screw it!! Screw it!!! hahaha I guess it kinda says to Live and Let Live--Try to keep things as simple as possible, and when one gets wound up, just STOP!! and regroup the 2 brain cells that one has left. And who took the picture of my head and posted it on here? hahaha. All you guys have a good Monday!! Gotta regroup on this end. Closed the office for 2 days--retreated to a fireplace and great freindship for a full day. AND I DONT WANNA GO BACK TO WORK!! Onward Ho with love.:)

Thanks Phil just having one of my insane days seems like I lost all program

I dont like myself when I get that way.   Our u sure there isnt a way I could get

away with MURDER!!!!!  LOL     Hopefully today I will regain some sanity back

I have to remember that there is always hope.....Thanks so much for all your help

Everyones help on here has been great. I know I have the other disease but it

sure seems the feelings are the same...Busbe

I hope you got to read my reply to you in your "Please Help Me!" post.

Just want you to know that I was thinking about you.  I'm so glad to see you here today.  The wind is howling here and causing the heavy rain to hit all 4 sides of the house, so I won't be going out to any After- Christmas sales! 

What you said about reacting all over the place to people and situations, that was me.  Trying to please everyone and anyone, that was me, too.

I don't do it anymore,  but I'm a nicer person because I don't have the resentments that went with it.  Please be well and I'm so happy to hear that you're doing okay, dear friend.

Love & Hugs & Prayers,

Alice

I still have the isms....blah blah blah  Luv Busbe