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Hi Everybody
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Just got back from spending the weekend at my sponsor's wedding...got to visit with all the people I love and miss so much. But I really missed all the people I've met here...Wendy,Nic, and Gammy especially.
Welcome to all the new people here...I'm so glad the board is picking up in activity again. K...
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"A Gift That Grows With Time"
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June 26 For most normal folks , drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that li...
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helpless feeling
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hi to everyone,
ive just found your site and read alot of the posts, im finding it hard at the moment and cant put it into words!i have only managed to do 3 days at the moment and feel like crying to be honest.its my 1st friday night without booze, (seem to drink everyday that i...
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sick of it
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I haven't been here in awhile..mostly because I had gotten my drinking under control...mostly because I was having trouble accessing the board for some reason. I had a few slips but nothing was as bad as the other night. i found myself not in black out drunk mode..but stupid enough to sli...
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Personal Inventory
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The ways by which people try to dominate others or demonstrate selfishness are of two types: the active, obvious ways, and the less active, more indirect ways. Among the active, obvious techniques are the use of physical force, bullying, boasting, temper tantrums, and excessive noisiness. these...
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"A Spiritual Kindergarten"
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June 24 We are only operating a spititual kindergarten in which people are enabled to get over drinking and find the grace to go on living to better effect. As Bill Sees It p.95
When I came to A.A., I was run down by the bottle and wanted to lose the obsession to drink, b...
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Fear of quitting
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For many years I have wondered about the cause of my drinking. Lately I have been seeking counseling. A pastor I have been sharing with is in my mind trying to get me to accept the fact that I was molested as a child. I feel he is totally off base. A mental health specialist believes I have a combination of Ag...
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"A Two- Way Street"
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June 25 If we ask, God will certainly forgive our derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that way without our cooperation. Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions P.65
When I prayed , I used to omit a lot of things for which I needed t...
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hello
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hi everyone today is friday i used to think oh no. i not suppose to drink because im in aa nowt i enjoy the weekends with my family and friends (not the peple from the bar i thought were friends) i feel great and doing fine just checking in god bless you all WAGON
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A little help cheering up my girl
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A little help cheering up my girl
Thanks you all for your support. I’m just trying to cheer up my girl with a joke / prank. She has really been struggling lately. I found an old photo of her when she was 12 (bad hair photo) and posted it on Jones Soda Pop label page. To my surprise it received 600 vo...
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"Trusting Others"
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June 23 But does trust require that we be blind to other people's motives or, indeed, to our own? Not at all; this would be folly. Most certainly, we should assess the capacity for harm as well as the capacity for good in every person that we would trust. Such a private invento...
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Let go of the past
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Let go of the past
"Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don't think that you've lost time. There is no short-cutting to life. It took each and every situation you have encountered to bring you to the now. And now is right on time."
-- Asha Tyson
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Hey Wendy...
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Wendy , Congratulations again on your first year birthday. Have a piece of cake  for me too. The promises are coming true my friend.
(((Hugs)))
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"Today I'm Free"
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June 22 This brought me to the good healthy realization that there were plenty of situations left in the world over which I had no personal power -- that if I was so ready to admit that to be the case with alcohol , so I must make the same admission with respect to much else. I woul...
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"Fear And Faith"
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June 21 The achievement of freedom from fear is a lifetime undertaking, one that can never be wholly completed. When under heavy attack, acute illness,or in other conditions of serious insecurity, we shall all react to this emotion --well or badly, as the case may be. Only the self-dec...
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Happy Father's Day
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Goodmorning....I don't know how many Dad's we have these days but if you are a Dad , I pray you have a blessed sober Father's Day.
I miss my Dad, he's been gone 12 years now and as I drank my first cup of coffee this morning I thought of him. I have a lot of good memories of him and a few not so good ones. He was an...
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"Release From Fear"
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June 20 The problem of resolving fear has two aspects. We shall have to try for all the freedom from fear that is possible for us to attain . Then we shall need to find both the courage and grace to deal constructively with whatever fears remain. As Bill Sees It p. 61
Most of my...
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My problem
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I am on my 2nd day of not drinking today and I know to take it one day at a time. I will tell you that I have Social Anxiety which I use alcohol as a crutch whenever I am in a social situation,with friends,family,etc. Pretty much all my friends and family drink whenever we get together. I even ha...
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U.K. Conventions
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Is anyone out there going to the Birmingham convention or the Cannock camp out in July?
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Things I Don't Worry About ........anymore
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1.Who I called last night.
2. What I said and did yesterday.
3. Hating myself
4. Hangovers
5. Lost events, happenings
6. Cops
7. Breaking the law
8. Job woes
9. Wondering who to blame this time
10. My future
11. My faith in God
12. Money
13. Who my true friends are...my so...
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Getting Current
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Hi Folks,
I haven't posted much. I came to this site just about 60 days ago when I was in serious need of help. I haven't had a drink since then. I'm going to four or more meetings a week. I've gotten a sponsor and started the steps. I'm doing Step 4 right now. I've also started meditating and honestly aski...
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one thing at a time!! but all together:)
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hi friends!!
i've missed you!
Lots going on in my world...my daughters friends has moved in with us...she was having problems with her Aunt and Uncle, she is 19 years old, a good girl, she doesn't plan on being here too long, she wants her own place. I have too soft of a heart, can't see anyone out on th...
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Anyone read this?
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Looks good...
Damaged Merchandise: Poems and stories of an alcoholic addict
By Dave Harm
"Damaged Merchandise," is a book about hope and dreams. Even those lost in an alcoholic or drug induce haze, have dreams. They were just lost or "damaged" due to the abuse. With sobriety, came the knowled...
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"A.A. Regeneration"
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June 19 Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: Strength arising out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of one's old life as a condition for finding a new one. A.A. Comes Of Age p.46
A thousand beatings by John Barleycorn did not encou...
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Relapse Prevention Page
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Ran across this website: www.mirror-mirror.org/replan.htm
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A Fellowship of Freedom
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June 18 ...if only men were granted absolute liberty, and were compelled to obey no one, they would then voluntarily associate themselves in the common interest. As Bill Sees It p.50
When I no longer live under the dictates of another or of alcohol,...
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Albert Schweizer said...
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"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown back into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light."
...Dunno who Albert is, but I think I would like him.
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"Deep Down Within Us"
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June 17 We found the Great Reality deep down within us. In the last analysis it is only there that He may be found...search diligently within yourself...With this attitude you cannot fail. The consciousness of your belief is sure to come to you. Alcoholics Anonymous p.55
It was out of the dep...
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Falling apart
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 Last night I got yelled at by my best friend. I am sober 22 days. She said she's surprised I didnt lose my job for being taken into protective custody 3 weeks ago.
She said I would lose everything if I drink.
She spent an hour talking with my son and two minutes telling me how awful I am.
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Help with stress - about to backslide
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Please, I need immediate advice. If I'm posting in the wrong place, someone tell me as I am new. I am 10 years sober and have been through a lot of stress without taking a drink.
My mother is quite ill and a son has dropped out of school and even though we took him to a counselor today, he is ranting and ragin...
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Open-Mindedness
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June 16 We have found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him. To us, the realm of spirit is broad, roomy,all inclusive, never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek .It is open we believe to all men. "As Bill Sees It", p.7
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Theophostics???
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Has anyone ever heard of this? My husband is going to school to be a counselor and he is working at a treatment center during break...he asked me if I had ever heard of it. I did an internet search but didn't find much...kind of looks like RET with alot of bible thrown in.
If anyone else has anymore inform...
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Daily Reflections
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June 15 Making A.A. Your Higher Power
"... You can...make A.A. itself your 'higher power.' Here's a very large group of people who have solved their alcohol problem ...many members ... have crossed the theshold just this way ... their faith broadened and deepened ...t...
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How's everyone doing?
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Well, it's been pretty quiet around here, I guess that means everyone is busy or just doing so well in recovery they don't have anything to discuss. I hope everyone is sober and doing great. Miss you all.
I have an AA meeting tonight. I really need one , life on the homefront is tough every now and then. T...
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Thomas Chandler Haliburton said...
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"When a man is wrong and won't admit it, he always gets angry."
How's that for a name? Quite prestigious sounding...don't you think?  Hope he wasn't born with a lisp.
I like what he said...I have my ex really angry with me tonight. I have raised my girls for 12 years without support, and he reme...
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Teen Alcoholism
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This is the intro to some online Teen Alcoholism information/study notes... to locate the full chapters, go here.
http://www.enotes.com/teen-alcoholism/
ALCOHOL IS A DRUG. As such, it has the power to alter both the mind and body, and it is also potentially addictive. While most adults know...
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look mom no hands
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 today is my 5 month sober birthday wow i didnt think i could make it 5 days WAGON
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We always question ourselves. We are our own worst enemy.
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FEAR IS FAITH THAT FORGOT TO SAY IT'S PRAYERS
in convo with a friend in the program...on this work thing i'm dealing with...
Step 1 will be sharing with your boss about the past
Step 2 will be trusting that God will get you through this
Step 3 will be the willingness to trust in God and lea...
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Daily Reflections
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June 14 When The Going Gets Rough
It is a design for living that works in rough going. Alcoholics Anonymous, pg.15
When I cameto A.A. , I realized that A.A. worked wonderfully to help keep me sober. But could it work on real life problems, not concerned with drink...
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One Mans Story - Excellent Online ID
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This took a while to load for me, you may want to let it load in the background if you have trouble with it, but it really is a good way in which one guy shares his life and reaches out to others. Includes real $values in terms of personal and societal costs.
http://www.nhpr.org/static/programs/speci...
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In the News...
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Found this today online in the Register Gaurd (which is apparently an Oregon Paper...) Ya'll may have already seen it?
June 10, 2005 'My name is Bill W.': Alcoholics Anonymous began 70 years ago
A Register-Guard Editorial
Forward story
Printer- fri... >
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Causes of Poverty
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Reporter asks , ‘Why are there so many poor people in the world?’
Engineer said, ' poverty is caused by industrialisation'
Political scientist says, ' poverty is caused by political conflict'
Sociologist discussed class stratification, and economis...
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help for family
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Hello,
I am a newlywed of 5 months, and my wife is a recovering alcoholic - 2.5 years sober. I have always tried my best to support her. I used to drink alot, although I do not consider myself an alcoholic, but since we started dating, I have stopped drinking completely when I'm aro...
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Hi all
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Hi all I am new here, just lookin for a place to help me get through this, I just stopped drinking yesterday and not to sure on what to do. so i found this site and signed up. so far i am doing pretty good, so if anyone has any suggestions i am open to them.
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for those who don't yet have a BB
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http://www.aa.org/bigbookonline/en_tableofcnt.cfm
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Daily Reflections
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June 13 Living Our Amends
"Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic. The entire family is to some extent ill." Alcoholics Anonymous, p.122
It is important for me to realize that, as an alcoholic, I not only hurt myself but also those ar...
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love all your posts
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Hi there, it is Michelle here, I just browsed over all the posts, and you know what? alot of good sobriety here. Some more so than others, but wow!!! nice to hear a bit of this and a bit of that. I myself had a great week-end, I was feelin...
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Daily Reflections
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June 12 Forming True Partnership
But it is from our twisted relations with family ,friends, and society at large that many of us have suffered the most. We have been especially stupid and stubborn about them. The primary fact that we fail to recognize is our total inability to form a tr...
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Daily Reflection
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June 11 Family Obligations ....a spiritual life which does not include...family obligations may not be so perfact after all. Alcoholics Anonymous,p.12
I can be doing great in the program--Applying it at meetings ,at work,and in service activi...
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Cabbagehead Chris...
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Hey Chris...Refresh my memory , when is the big day.How many days, hours, minutes,seconds? If you don't know ask the future Mrs..Glad you stopped by, stay sober and keep us posted, please.
(((Hugs))) GammyRose
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