Alcoholics Anonymous

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

I had 6 years sober the 4 years and the last 4 hears have been fightning to get back in AA. Like I said before I'm doing step four with a little step 5 mixed in with my Spounsor. I always felt like I didn't belong ..always felt nervous and at times made stories up just to have something to say at the meeting...

Phil · Phil

Letting People Be There for Us Sometimes, we need nurturing. Sometimes, we need people to support us. Many of us have been deprived of support and nurturing for so long we may not realize it's something we want and need. Many of us have learned to block our stop ourselves from getting what we want...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

You are reading from the book Touchstones </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=212>. In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. --Albert Camus Sometimes we suddenly see or sense opposite emotions within ourselves. The cold of win...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Hope for Today - November 30 When listening to others share at Al-Anon meetings, I became aware that I hold myself to unrealistically high standards. I expect myself to be less fallible than everyone else. I acquired this character defect as a child in my attempts to control my...

Phil · Phil

Step Seven "Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings." Since this Step so specifically concerns itself with humility, we should pause here to consider what humility is and what the practice of it can mean to us. Indeed, the attainment of greater humility is the foundation princi...

Rick · Rick

Words are mere bubbles of water, but deeds are drops of gold. Chinese proverb Success means we go to sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others. Ma...

Phil · Phil

Fear and Relationships Fear keeps us from leading meaningful lives and having meaningful relationships. Inner Dragons Our inner dragons of fear can keep us from having meaningful relationships. These fears can make us run from love and intimacy and hide from the very things we say...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Sharing The Real Me "Sharing with others keeps us from feeling isolated and alone."Basic Text pg. 81Intimacy is the sharing of our innermost thoughts and feelings with another human being. Many of us long for the warmth and companionship intimacy brings, but those things don't come without ef...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Wisdom for Today There are two kinds of fear in this world, healthy fear and unhealthy fear. Healthy fear tells you not to do something that will harm yourself, like grabbing onto live electrical wires. Unhealthy fear, on the other hand, distorts reason and distorts beliefs. Unhealthy fear can co...

STOPDRINKING · STOPDRINKING

IM SO DOWN RIGHT KNOW..LAST NIGHT I FAILED AGAIN.... MAN I JUST CAN DO THIS ITS SO DAME HARD.. SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT ITS JUST IN MY HEARD.. BUT TO ME ITS A DISEASE.. MY DAD DRINKS MY BROTHER AND MY MOM USE TO SHE STOP.. IM SO TRYERD OF FAILING.. PS SORRY FOR MY SPELLING NOT GOOD

lily · lily

??? I've "entered" the room using my nickname, and I get a message back /NICK What do I do next? How do I join and chat with the other 3 people that are already in?

User Name · User Name

Sorry about the login name, I couldn't decide on anything without being depressing. After 30yrs of not missing a single day of drinking I stopped 8 days ago. I thought it would be harder or something bad would happen. I at least thought that I wouldn't be able to sleep without being boozed up. Not tr...

cheri · cheri

If you're still on and need to talk, go to the chat room. I'm headed there now. just clink on the link in the upper left of your screen and it'll take you ther. It takes a few minutes so be patient. cheri

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Subject: Meditation: Step Eleven "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out." -- Step Eleven of Alcoholics Anonymous Days of Healing Days o...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Tuesday, November 29, 2005 Freedom of attitude When you wake up in the morning, you are completely free to choose whatever attitude you wish to have. And the attitude you choose can have an enormous impact on the way your day unfolds. Each time you encounter another person, you are completely fre...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

A Strong Father Many of us understand God in terms of a father, one on whom we can rely no matter what the situation. Our biological father may have been a tyrant or a pal, remote or accessible, firm or weak. However much we loved him and depended on him, he was only a person and not infallible.For reco...

Rick · Rick

When I meditated on the word Guidance, I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky. When one per...

Phil · Phil

When written in Chinese, the word crisis is composed of two characters--one represents danger and the other represents opportunity. --John F. Kennedy Family crises are unavoidable. At times, things are going to break down. This is no reason to give up and abandon ship. These breakdowns are...

STOPDRINKING · STOPDRINKING

well for about 5 days I went on a drinking rage... and lastnight I got so missed up.. and my husbent wrote me a letter.. telling me i need to stop or im going to lose him and my kids. and today i didnt drink

but what about tomorrow..im so so scard

ill take it one day at a time need to find a mee...

Doll · Doll

Daily Affirmation with Stuart Smalley Stuart Smalley is a caring nurturer, a member of several twelve-step programs, but not a licensed therapist. His show "Daily Affirmations" is on a cable access channel. The show is geared to help people with mental disabilities, such as overeatin...

Phil · Phil

What Makes Forgiveness So Hard? Why Forgiveness is so Hard? And how we can change? Human behavior that suggests that people are “hard-wired" to experience ruptured relational bonds, psychological distance, physiological arousal, and the desire to retaliate when they ha...

flumpy · flumpy

Hello all

I'm sorry about this but I have to ask if anyone knows how I can get back into the Al-anon chat room as my computer went awal this morning and has for some reason dumped it from my favorites. I'm sorry to ask such a stupid question but I tryed looking on the web and all I could find was thi...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born. DALE TURNER When we were kids, we had big dreams of what we would do when we grew up. Some of us feel sad when we compare the big plans we used to have t...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Hope for Today - November 28 My parents didn't know I was angry with them, because I was the "good" kid. I felt angry about the drinking and the constant chaos, but I never said anything. I swallowed my resentment, thinking either my needs would go away or my parents would change. Of course...

Phil · Phil

STEP THREE "Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him" Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked. All we need is a key, and the decision to swing the door open. There is only one key, and it is c...

jeannie · jeannie

Wise sayings often fall on barren ground;but a kind word is never thrown away. Gratitude is fine but it is not enough.

Phil · Phil

To avoid situations in which you might make mistakes may be the biggest mistake of all. There are people who are always anticipating trouble, and in this way they manage to enjoy many sorrows that never really happen to them." Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of...

wantneeda · wantneeda

sundays are my only day off.....crap.... so i'm off to a meeting. Get to drive myself there!!! yay!! my car's a tad noisy, rusty...but hey it works.... among other things i know that work...:) if it works...work it..right?! i've been doing some heavy thinking on my daughter this week. I got h...

Doll · Doll

My sponsor says if you don't get mad once in a while, you're not working the program hard enough.......Guess I've been going at it full force the last few days... There are some with many years of sobriety, but it seems very LITTLE recovery. Bitch and moan constantly about what'...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Giving up is not giving in, nor is it failing. It is no longer needing to be right. --Anonymous When someone tells us a riddle, we may give up if we don't know the answer. We give up because we are tired of trying to get it, or because we are eager to find out what it is. Giving up in other situations, may be...

flawitness · flawitness

So, I really do want to stop drinking, or do I? I've never had a dui, never had a morning eye opener, never called in sick due to a hangover, never had a blackout or anything like that. But I still drink everyday and look forward to it. I do seem to drink more and more. Wine mostly, red win...

CAM · CAM

One day at a time, taking it easy….how do if I know I’m doing it right? Squeezed the crap out of the old tube…..all gunky & gross!!! It’s just gross!!!! So I bought a new tube a couple of weeks ago at the local dollar store. When I went to brush my teeth that nigh...

Inspiteofme · Inspiteofme

I'm 2 years and 30 something days sober. My personal deffects have become even more apparent ..... I am crabby and unhumble and miserable a lot of the time....... constantly battling the world telling myself to let go and let GOD but as soon as I say that I lash out at the world again. I am red...

intoteach · intoteach

I am so glad I found all of you. As my anniversary is nearing, I always find myself thinking of this journey of recovery I have been blessed with. I always seem to reflect at this time of year what is was like then and where I am now. I feel so blessed to have walked into AA. The jour...

wagon · wagon

after getting a e mail from john i decided i missed u guys long enough i been good and sober and miss u all god bless wagon

Phil · Phil

WE ARE ALL THINKING ALL OF THE TIME. Can you believe that our thoughts never leave us. Wow! Silly thoughts, hungry thoughts, angry thoughts, melancholy thoughts, happy thoughts; that’s a bunch of emotions that has a significant impact on our lives. Physically, emotionally, it’s all there. Every t...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Keep It Simple It’s going to be a long hard drag, but we’ll make it. ---Janis Jopin Some people start each day with a groan. They act like staying sober is no fun at all. They may have turned over their illness to their Higher Power. But they haven’t yet turned over their will and their life. They don’t se...

Phil · Phil

Some Things Can Be Fixed. . . Others Must HealThom Rutledge, Guest Author Are you a fixer? When someone tells you a problem they are having, do you immediately feel the need to offer advice? Is it difficult for you to just listen to someone who is in distress, to just be there for them with...

Badger · Badger

http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/Sports/Soccer/2005/11/26/1324617-sun.htmlneeded to add something to this, George Bests final battles have been the subject of much media interest. I am not a fan of his, not a soccer fan, but i have one thing in common with him i to am an alcoholic. it helps me...

Phil · Phil

DON'T QUIT! When things go wrong as they sometimes will When the road you're trudging seems all up hill When the funds are low and the debts are high And you want to smile, but you have to sigh When care is pressing you down a bit Rest, if you must, but don't you quit. Life is queer, with its twists and t...

Badger · Badger

I would be 84 days sober now if I hadnt had a 2 day slip, can I just deduct that from the total or do I start counting from the slip hmmmmmnnn? ok I guess I know the honest answer You gotta love me for tryin

  &n...

buckeyebear · buckeyebear

Good morning all you sick folks. Well I made it sober while being around my sick family. I have 3 brothers and 1 sister and they are all heavy drug and drink users. My oldest brother is meaner than all get out. Mike is his name and Mad Dog 20/20 is his game. I had no problems with him this time,,hmmm wounder...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is November 26, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! RECOVERY "There is a destiny that makes us brothers, none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others come back into our own." -- Edwin Markham I can remember when I felt so isolated and alone. I used to look at peopl...

wantneeda · wantneeda

i've been working my a$$ off, :) its been tough but i'm hanging in there, i reaaly have been missing my meetings!! working 10 am to 11 pm, i'm determined to get through christmas...for xtra cash...then i'll see how i feel. my computers monitor went on me a couple of weeks ago so i haven't been able t...

Phil · Phil

Saw your message from down below. Got the cookies thing on the computer all fixed hu? Hows it goin over there,,and the new job,still going well?.... How many days till you leave for the big day? Snow? You vant snow? 2 feet in 2 days.---then the temps going back up to 50 and...

STOPDRINKING · STOPDRINKING

is there anyway you can look up meetsing on the compter. I need to find one. im getting bad again about drinking and need to go to a meeting please help me

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Depression All of us go through times of depression. When we were overeating, we may have felt depressed almost continually. We find that abstinence and the OA program lift us out of depression. The outward circumstances of life may not change radically, but by means of our program we experienc...

gr8fl2dy · gr8fl2dy

One year ago, I became very ill. I had a wonderful career in social work. Because of my illness, I have had to step away from my job till who knows when. I have always been very active in recovery and maintained a balance in family, career, and recovery. I will have 10 years coming up in a wonderful ne...

Phil · Phil

Poor Self-Esteem vs. Healthy Self-Esteem People with poor self-esteem often rely on how they are doing in the present to determine how they feel about themselves. They need positive external experiences to counteract the negative feelings and thoughts that constantly plague them. Even t...

serendipity · serendipity

Hello, I am new. I am an alcoholic married to an alcoholic. I feel powerless and out of control and am searching for a support system.

I hope I can find that here.

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Just wanted to share (Preview) I had 6 years sober the 4 years and the last 4 hears have been fightning to get back in AA. Like I said before I'm doing step four with a little step 5 mixed in with my Spounsor. I always felt like I didn't belong ..always felt nervous and at times made stories up just to have something to say at the meeting...	buckeyebear	5	483	Dec 1, 2005 by Phil
	Hazelden (Preview) Letting People Be There for Us Sometimes, we need nurturing. Sometimes, we need people to support us. Many of us have been deprived of support and nurturing for so long we may not realize it's something we want and need. Many of us have learned to block our stop ourselves from getting what we want...	Phil	2	664	Dec 1, 2005 by Phil
	in the depths of despair...i found a light (Preview) **You are reading from the book Touchstones </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=212>. In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. --Albert Camus** Sometimes we suddenly see or sense opposite emotions within ourselves. The cold of win...	rosie light shines	1	546	Dec 1, 2005 by Phil
	"ding dong the witch is dead" (Preview) Hope for Today - November 30 When listening to others share at Al-Anon meetings, I became aware that I hold myself to unrealistically high standards. I expect myself to be less fallible than everyone else. I acquired this character defect as a child in my attempts to control my...	rosie light shines	2	601	Nov 30, 2005 by rosie light shines
	Being Humble (Preview) Step Seven "Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings." Since this Step so specifically concerns itself with humility, we should pause here to consider what humility is and what the practice of it can mean to us. Indeed, the attainment of greater humility is the foundation princi...	Phil	0	1428	Nov 30, 2005 by Phil
	why goodness matters (Preview) Words are mere bubbles of water, but deeds are drops of gold. Chinese proverb Success means we go to sleep at night knowing that our talents and abilities were used in a way that served others. Ma...	Rick	4	506	Nov 30, 2005 by rosie light shines
	Fear And Relationships (Preview) Fear and Relationships Fear keeps us from leading meaningful lives and having meaningful relationships. Inner Dragons Our inner dragons of fear can keep us from having meaningful relationships. These fears can make us run from love and intimacy and hide from the very things we say...	Phil	3	542	Nov 30, 2005 by rosie light shines
	sharing the REAL me (Preview) Sharing The Real Me "Sharing with others keeps us from feeling isolated and alone."Basic Text pg. 81Intimacy is the sharing of our innermost thoughts and feelings with another human being. Many of us long for the warmth and companionship intimacy brings, but those things don't come without ef...	rosie light shines	0	508	Nov 30, 2005 by rosie light shines
	good fear.....bad fear (Preview) Wisdom for Today There are two kinds of fear in this world, healthy fear and unhealthy fear. Healthy fear tells you not to do something that will harm yourself, like grabbing onto live electrical wires. Unhealthy fear, on the other hand, distorts reason and distorts beliefs. Unhealthy fear can co...	rosie light shines	0	461	Nov 30, 2005 by rosie light shines
	starting over (Preview) IM SO DOWN RIGHT KNOW..LAST NIGHT I FAILED AGAIN.... MAN I JUST CAN DO THIS ITS SO DAME HARD.. SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT ITS JUST IN MY HEARD.. BUT TO ME ITS A DISEASE.. MY DAD DRINKS MY BROTHER AND MY MOM USE TO SHE STOP.. IM SO TRYERD OF FAILING.. PS SORRY FOR MY SPELLING NOT GOOD	STOPDRINKING	5	509	Nov 30, 2005 by nancyjo59
	how does the chat room work? (Preview) ??? I've "entered" the room using my nickname, and I get a message back /NICK What do I do next? How do I join and chat with the other 3 people that are already in?	lily	2	623	Nov 29, 2005 by lily
	So What Do I do Now??? (Preview) Sorry about the login name, I couldn't decide on anything without being depressing. After 30yrs of not missing a single day of drinking I stopped 8 days ago. I thought it would be harder or something bad would happen. I at least thought that I wouldn't be able to sleep without being boozed up. Not tr...	User Name	15	588	Nov 29, 2005 by STOPDRINKING
	Stopdrinking... (Preview) If you're still on and need to talk, go to the chat room. I'm headed there now. just clink on the link in the upper left of your screen and it'll take you ther. It takes a few minutes so be patient. cheri	cheri	1	404	Nov 29, 2005 by STOPDRINKING
	step 11....and trusting hp has a plan for me (Preview) Subject: Meditation: Step Eleven "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out." -- Step Eleven of Alcoholics Anonymous Days of Healing Days o...	rosie light shines	1	611	Nov 29, 2005 by Doll
	good morning (Preview) Tuesday, November 29, 2005 Freedom of attitude When you wake up in the morning, you are completely free to choose whatever attitude you wish to have. And the attitude you choose can have an enormous impact on the way your day unfolds. Each time you encounter another person, you are completely fre...	wantneeda	2	442	Nov 29, 2005 by nancyjo59
	MY God does not have to be a father (Preview) A Strong Father Many of us understand God in terms of a father, one on whom we can rely no matter what the situation. Our biological father may have been a tyrant or a pal, remote or accessible, firm or weak. However much we loved him and depended on him, he was only a person and not infallible.For reco...	rosie light shines	2	520	Nov 29, 2005 by Pickledraker
	Dancing with GOD (Preview) When I meditated on the word Guidance, I kept seeing "dance" at the end of the word. I remember reading that doing God's will is a lot like dancing. When two people try to lead, nothing feels right. The movement doesn't flow with the music, and everything is quite uncomfortable and jerky. When one per...	Rick	1	432	Nov 29, 2005 by amanda2u2
	Thoughts (Preview) *When written in Chinese, the word crisis is composed of two characters--one represents danger and the other represents opportunity. --John F. Kennedy* Family crises are unavoidable. At times, things are going to break down. This is no reason to give up and abandon ship. These breakdowns are...	Phil	2	447	Nov 29, 2005 by rosie light shines
	firstday (Preview) well for about 5 days I went on a drinking rage... and lastnight I got so missed up.. and my husbent wrote me a letter.. telling me i need to stop or im going to lose him and my kids. and today i didnt drink but what about tomorrow..im so so scard ill take it one day at a time need to find a mee...	STOPDRINKING	7	536	Nov 28, 2005 by lily
	Stuart Smalley (Preview) Daily Affirmation with Stuart Smalley Stuart Smalley is a caring nurturer, a member of several twelve-step programs, but not a licensed therapist. His show "Daily Affirmations" is on a cable access channel. The show is geared to help people with mental disabilities, such as overeatin...	Doll	9	685	Nov 28, 2005 by rosie light shines
	What Makes Forgiveness So Hard? (Preview) What Makes Forgiveness So Hard? Why Forgiveness is so Hard? And how we can change? Human behavior that suggests that people are “hard-wired" to experience ruptured relational bonds, psychological distance, physiological arousal, and the desire to retaliate when they ha...	Phil	7	1155	Nov 28, 2005 by rosie light shines
	I'm so stupid and need a bit of help!! (Preview) Hello all I'm sorry about this but I have to ask if anyone knows how I can get back into the Al-anon chat room as my computer went awal this morning and has for some reason dumped it from my favorites. I'm sorry to ask such a stupid question but I tryed looking on the web and all I could find was thi...	flumpy	2	511	Nov 28, 2005 by GammyRose
	dreams ARE renewable (Preview) Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born. DALE TURNER When we were kids, we had big dreams of what we would do when we grew up. Some of us feel sad when we compare the big plans we used to have t...	rosie light shines	0	392	Nov 28, 2005 by rosie light shines
	SOMETIMES amends are for me!!! (Preview) Hope for Today - November 28 My parents didn't know I was angry with them, because I was the "good" kid. I felt angry about the drinking and the constant chaos, but I never said anything. I swallowed my resentment, thinking either my needs would go away or my parents would change. Of course...	rosie light shines	0	558	Nov 28, 2005 by rosie light shines
	The 3rd one...out of a 12 pack (Preview) STEP THREE "Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him" Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked. All we need is a key, and the decision to swing the door open. There is only one key, and it is c...	Phil	0	473	Nov 28, 2005 by Phil
	THINK ABOUT THIS (Preview) Wise sayings often fall on barren ground;but a kind word is never thrown away. Gratitude is fine but it is not enough.	jeannie	6	462	Nov 27, 2005 by jeannie
	Sunday Stuff (Preview) To avoid situations in which you might make mistakes may be the biggest mistake of all. There are people who are always anticipating trouble, and in this way they manage to enjoy many sorrows that never really happen to them." Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of...	Phil	2	452	Nov 27, 2005 by jeannie
	if only i could sleep in!!!! (Preview) sundays are my only day off.....crap.... so i'm off to a meeting. Get to drive myself there!!! yay!! my car's a tad noisy, rusty...but hey it works.... among other things i know that work...:) if it works...work it..right?! i've been doing some heavy thinking on my daughter this week. I got h...	wantneeda	3	610	Nov 27, 2005 by cheri
	Bitch and moan! (Preview) My sponsor says if you don't get mad once in a while, you're not working the program hard enough.......Guess I've been going at it full force the last few days... There are some with many years of sobriety, but it seems very LITTLE recovery. Bitch and moan constantly about what'...	Doll	10	879	Nov 27, 2005 by darrell
	giving up is NOT losing (Preview) *Giving up is not giving in, nor is it failing. It is no longer needing to be right. --Anonymous* When someone tells us a riddle, we may give up if we don't know the answer. We give up because we are tired of trying to get it, or because we are eager to find out what it is. Giving up in other situations, may be...	rosie light shines	3	726	Nov 27, 2005 by amanda2u2
	can i do it? (Preview) So, I really do want to stop drinking, or do I? I've never had a dui, never had a morning eye opener, never called in sick due to a hangover, never had a blackout or anything like that. But I still drink everyday and look forward to it. I do seem to drink more and more. Wine mostly, red win...	flawitness	8	541	Nov 27, 2005 by darrell
	toothpaste (Preview) One day at a time, taking it easy….how do if I know I’m doing it right? Squeezed the crap out of the old tube…..all gunky & gross!!! It’s just gross!!!! So I bought a new tube a couple of weeks ago at the local dollar store. When I went to brush my teeth that nigh...	CAM	2	587	Nov 27, 2005 by gr8fl2dy
	The 2nd year blues (Preview) I'm 2 years and 30 something days sober. My personal deffects have become even more apparent ..... I am crabby and unhumble and miserable a lot of the time....... constantly battling the world telling myself to let go and let GOD but as soon as I say that I lash out at the world again. I am red...	Inspiteofme	6	1471	Nov 27, 2005 by gr8fl2dy
	Sobriety anniversary (Preview) I am so glad I found all of you. As my anniversary is nearing, I always find myself thinking of this journey of recovery I have been blessed with. I always seem to reflect at this time of year what is was like then and where I am now. I feel so blessed to have walked into AA. The jour...	intoteach	3	462	Nov 27, 2005 by GammyRose
	hi (Preview) after getting a e mail from john i decided i missed u guys long enough i been good and sober and miss u all god bless wagon	wagon	3	455	Nov 27, 2005 by GammyRose
	Negative vs Positive (Preview) WE ARE ALL THINKING ALL OF THE TIME. Can you believe that our thoughts never leave us. Wow! Silly thoughts, hungry thoughts, angry thoughts, melancholy thoughts, happy thoughts; that’s a bunch of emotions that has a significant impact on our lives. Physically, emotionally, it’s all there. Every t...	Phil	9	563	Nov 27, 2005 by gr8fl2dy
	change is a long hard drag!!! (Preview) Keep It Simple It’s going to be a long hard drag, but we’ll make it. ---Janis Jopin Some people start each day with a groan. They act like staying sober is no fun at all. They may have turned over their illness to their Higher Power. But they haven’t yet turned over their will and their life. They don’t se...	rosie light shines	4	474	Nov 27, 2005 by gr8fl2dy
	Ouch---this hits home. (Preview) Some Things Can Be Fixed. . . Others Must HealThom Rutledge, Guest Author Are you a fixer? When someone tells you a problem they are having, do you immediately feel the need to offer advice? Is it difficult for you to just listen to someone who is in distress, to just be there for them with...	Phil	3	554	Nov 26, 2005 by rosie light shines
	George Best 0 alcoholism 1 (Preview) http://lfpress.ca/newsstand/Sports/Soccer/2005/11/26/1324617-sun.htmlneeded to add something to this, George Bests final battles have been the subject of much media interest. I am not a fan of his, not a soccer fan, but i have one thing in common with him i to am an alcoholic. it helps me...	Badger	8	926	Nov 26, 2005 by Doll
	Dont Quit (Preview) *DON'T QUIT!* When things go wrong as they sometimes will When the road you're trudging seems all up hill When the funds are low and the debts are high And you want to smile, but you have to sigh When care is pressing you down a bit Rest, if you must, but don't you quit. Life is queer, with its twists and t...	Phil	2	531	Nov 26, 2005 by jeannie
	hmmmmn? (Preview) I would be 84 days sober now if I hadnt had a 2 day slip, can I just deduct that from the total or do I start counting from the slip hmmmmmnnn? ok I guess I know the honest answer You gotta love me for tryin   &n...	Badger	5	534	Nov 26, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	I'm Thankful (Preview) Good morning all you sick folks. Well I made it sober while being around my sick family. I have 3 brothers and 1 sister and they are all heavy drug and drink users. My oldest brother is meaner than all get out. Mike is his name and Mad Dog 20/20 is his game. I had no problems with him this time,,hmmm wounder...	buckeyebear	2	425	Nov 26, 2005 by GammyRose
	recovery...absolutely!!! (Preview) Today is November 26, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! RECOVERY "There is a destiny that makes us brothers, none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others come back into our own." -- Edwin Markham I can remember when I felt so isolated and alone. I used to look at peopl...	wantneeda	2	525	Nov 26, 2005 by wantneeda
	wow, have i missed you's!!!!! (Preview) i've been working my a$$ off, :) its been tough but i'm hanging in there, i reaaly have been missing my meetings!! working 10 am to 11 pm, i'm determined to get through christmas...for xtra cash...then i'll see how i feel. my computers monitor went on me a couple of weeks ago so i haven't been able t...	wantneeda	4	609	Nov 26, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	Hey Cabbagehead (Preview) Saw your message from down below. Got the cookies thing on the computer all fixed hu? Hows it goin over there,,and the new job,still going well?.... How many days till you leave for the big day? Snow? You vant snow? 2 feet in 2 days.---then the temps going back up to 50 and...	Phil	3	447	Nov 26, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	need to find a meeting (Preview) is there anyway you can look up meetsing on the compter. I need to find one. im getting bad again about drinking and need to go to a meeting please help me	STOPDRINKING	4	454	Nov 26, 2005 by bostonmike
	depression or just plain grief???? (Preview) Depression All of us go through times of depression. When we were overeating, we may have felt depressed almost continually. We find that abstinence and the OA program lift us out of depression. The outward circumstances of life may not change radically, but by means of our program we experienc...	rosie light shines	1	648	Nov 26, 2005 by BarryH
	Self-centeredness (Preview) One year ago, I became very ill. I had a wonderful career in social work. Because of my illness, I have had to step away from my job till who knows when. I have always been very active in recovery and maintained a balance in family, career, and recovery. I will have 10 years coming up in a wonderful ne...	gr8fl2dy	3	466	Nov 26, 2005 by BarryH
	Self Esteem (Preview) Poor Self-Esteem vs. Healthy Self-Esteem People with poor self-esteem often rely on how they are doing in the present to determine how they feel about themselves. They need positive external experiences to counteract the negative feelings and thoughts that constantly plague them. Even t...	Phil	3	698	Nov 25, 2005 by Dave Harm
	New Looking for support (Preview) Hello, I am new. I am an alcoholic married to an alcoholic. I feel powerless and out of control and am searching for a support system. I hope I can find that here.	serendipity	7	798	Nov 25, 2005 by buckeyebear
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