Alcoholics Anonymous

Phil · Phil

Why are we Impatient and Intolerant? As humans we reach out to others to fill a void in life We seek to find our completeness in the company of another or by possession of an object-- as if what another or anything outside of ourselves can offer will make us happy We expect a c...

Phil · Phil

The High Cost of Resentment and Anger in Marriage Many spouses carry heavy suitcases filled with a collection of anger and resentment from their marriage. Periodically, they unpack these suitcases and review every situation in which they feel they were treated unfairly. "Resentment is...

Robert · Robert

Hi there, sorry i have not been in touch, it has been a mad few days, anyway its the weekend, I have a belly full of tandori masala and im content. speak soon

Robert · Robert

Man I am feeling groggy., I slept quite poor on tues night, last night, I kept having panic attacks and felt like crap after drinking too much pop. it sounds wack but I dont think im gonna sleep tonight either. I am so bored. I hate not sleeping, reminds me of the early days. Perhaps I should go to bed? b...

New Member · Country

hello all. My name is Michael and i am an alcoholic. I am married with two children ages 5 and 6. I am 27 years old from tennessee. my beer drinking habits are ruining my family and my life. I am in need of support and prayers. I found this message board today as if God directed me here. Thanks for any advise or...

Phil · Phil

Just had a carrier pigeon..fly in from California.... Computer down...could be a few days... Message to Sober...."Congrats on new job..glad everythings going better for you" And to everyone on the board? "She sends her love...and will miss you." -------------- oops...Had to do a spe...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

The new job went well. Lots of paper signing and video watching along with some tests. Passed the tests with flying colors. Reading and comprehension is still easy for me. I guess my brain still works when it comes to certain things!!! The real work starts tomorrow. Hands on. After all that I'...

Doll · Doll

CULTIVATING FAITH "I don't think we can do anything very well in this world unless we practice it. And I don't believe we do A.A. too well unless we practice it. . . . We should practice . . . acquiring the spirit of service. We should attempt to acquire some faith, which isn't easily done, especially for t...

texas mike · texas mike

Hello folks, sorry I have not visited for a couple of days. I have been so busy, I started back to work on Monday and am having a good time at it for a change, I also take in 2 meetings a day one in the am and one @ 5:30 pm and then I am also doing what they call IOP so I am staying very busy both in my recovery a...

trudi · trudi

Hi everyone I have not posted a topic for some time so just wanted to say hi. Things are good with me (reason being I have not had a drink!) Moving house soon and I am finding all the buying/selling very stressful. Although at the same time it is exciting I just pray I can stick with sobriety throughout the s...

good2bsober · good2bsober

Hello Everyone, I just wanted to say hello and thank you for being here. Recovery has changed my life and I cannot thank AA and all the AA's enough. In 1993 my journey in recovery began and I continue to love my sober life. I was only a baby when I got sober (just 21) but through this pr...

Robert · Robert

tidied entire house top to bottom, purchased chinese lillies polished washed pots still wasnt good enough for a certain person, cant be arsed with her! on a downer

Cabbageheadchris · Cabbageheadchris

Drunk Jokes A drunk was in front of a judge. The judge says "You've been brought here for drinking." The drunk says "Okay, let's get started." Another drunk goes up to a parking meter, puts in a quarter, the dial goes to 60. The drunk says "Huh. I lost 100 pounds!"

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Today's thought is: The goal isn't to do a successful inventory. The goal is to dig to the deepest levels of self-honesty. --Anonymous The Fourth Step is the hardest one for many newcomers in the Program. It is so difficult, in fact, that some of us still waiting to do it are no longer newcomers...

Phil · Phil

Hurried and worried until we're buried And there's no curtain call, Life's a very funny proposition, after all. --George M. Cohan Often, when we involve ourselves in a whirlwind of activities, plans, and expectations, we push ourselves so hard that we don't derive any satisfaction from suc...

kspear · kspear

Good morning, all. I'm looking at kind of revamping how I work my daily inventory...typically as I lie down at night for bed, I begin reviewing my day. Unfortunately, with the new hours I keep due to taking my son to work at 3 in the morning, I find myself falling asleep in the midst of the invento...

Robert · Robert

Hey! when I got back from the meeting I really craved a sugery drink. I have been off the cola for two weeks near. But this eve I had to get some pop! as she who must be obeyed is away! had sausage chips and beans 4 cans of coke and some cookies ! was lovely! only just going to bed now! (3:01) have been making...

Robert · Robert

Oh gosh coke overload. I had 6 tins and I am still awake, I went to bed at about 3:30 but the cat kept me up scratching and generally being stupid, about 4 I chucked her out the window, (she aint dead, we have a sloping roof so she just sat on the windowsil) by this time I was in a bad mood so I went to listen to so...

Doll · Doll

SELF-EXAMINATION . . . we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 When said sincerely, this prayer teaches me to be truly unselfish and humble, for even in doing good deeds I often used to se...

iffer · iffer

Just wondering if anyone here is interested in doing online meetings?? I have read various posts about nobody ever showing up for them but I wonder if there is a desire for anyone among us? I wouldn't mind chairing once a week or something if anyone is interested.... Just a thought....... Jen...

Niall · Niall

Some thoughts to share... am at work and need to reach out.. no-one availalbe right now I always found it very hard in the early days of sobriety to face life and my fears without the numbing oblivion of alcohol. Even though at the end it was doing nothing for me anymore, the fear of facing the consequ...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Some of us, observing that ideals are rarely achieved, proceed to the error of considering them worthless. Such an error is greatly harmful. True North cannot be reached either, since it is an abstraction, but it is of enormous importance, as all the world's travelers can attest. --Steve Allen ...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

Since I've been putting sobriety into my life, I've been taking out a lot of good things. I can describe it best as a kind of quiet satisfaction. I feel good. I feel right with the world, on the right side of the fence. As long as I put sobriety into my life, almost everything I take out is good. The satisfact...

Phil · Phil

Anger Quotes and Proverbs Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution Physiologically, it simply doesn't matter whether your anger is justified or not. The body doesn't make moral judgements about feelings; it just responds. Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution Re...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

-- Edited by Toni Baloney at 22:32, 2006-07-20

Niall · Niall

If anyone is interested read this. The first part just about sums up alot about how I have operating all my life. Quite a shock. Maybe some of you can relate THE PROBLEM Many of us felt inadequate, unworthy, alone, and afraid. Our insides never matched what we saw on the outsides of others. Earl...

Rob · Rob

Hi everyone. I ent really got much to say at the moment. I didnt know if i was gona go to meeting tonight, infact i probably wouldnt have.. But this morning at t-braek my mobile rang, made me jump,.. it was Alan, asking how i was and if i was going to meeting tonight.. i said "err.. yeah..m...

Doll · Doll

BROTHERS IN OUR DEFECTS We recovered alcoholics are not so much brothers in virtue as we are brothers in our defects, and in our common strivings to overcome them. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 167 The identification that one alcoholic has with another is mysterious, spiritual--almost incomprehensible. But...

Phil · Phil

Fear is the absence of faith. —Paul Tillich We all experience fear. Sometimes we fear small things that only seem large at the time, like a test in school or meeting a new boss or going to the dentist. Sometimes we fear big things like serious illness or death or that someone w...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

I was just thinking how easy it would be to fix my brain if it was like a computer. Just a few simple steps and I would have a fully functioning brain! Back to reality..... I have done a whole lot of damage to my thinker. I remember in rehab they taught us about how the brain works when it comes to pleasure...

Phil · Phil

We know it hasnt been easy. We know there are times when its tough. We know that things arent always fair, but that doesnt mean, it should be this rough. The journey should be a lot smoother, and life should play by the rules. Time passes too quickly, in everything, except, when it heals our wounds...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

I have a question for those of you on this board. I was at my IOP class today and I was talking about the percentage of alcoholics/addicts that actually stay sober after being exposed to the 12 step programs. I was under the impression that it's somewhere around 5% or one in every 20, however ya look at i...

Candace · Candace

Yesterday I posted how drinking buddies diappear real fast. Well, my neighboor/ best friend/ best drinking bud ended up calling me yesterday around 8ish. She told me that she hadn't called me for the past 5 days because she was on a bender and knew I was trying to quit... and that she was dr...

Candace · Candace

I've made it -- ONE WHOLE WEEK! and starting on my 8th day. The first couple of days were rough.. now I wake up and see things in a whole new light. I feel a whole lot better, and realize that it's worth it to keep sober. Like for example, yesterday on Easter -- I would of been hung o...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

If one is a greyhound, why try to look like a Pekingese?.......Edith Sitwell Children accept more variety among their pets than among one another. A child, who is out of the ordinary---strinkingly tall or short, freckled, large-nosed, big-eared, eyeglassed--may be teased mercilessly duri...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Hi, Checked in twice yesterday, only one Post, then Today, I have checked in twice, and only 2 Postings. Feels like everyone has gone on vacation??? Oh, well, I guess I'll go mind my own business, and cook dinner, and check in tomorrow. This is the quietest I have ever seen the Board. G...

Phil · Phil

While conflict in marriage is inevitable, fighting is optional. The secret is in how you approach and handle the conflict. It can make the difference between a really great relationship and a breakup looking for a place to happen. With that notion in mind, let's take a look at five styles of han...

Robert · Robert

I feel that Helen is depressed as a result of me getting into uni, because it puts off her plans for the next 3 years, and I am not sure how to deal with it, I have put Helen and other people before me, for the vast majority of my life and now I am taking action to better myself and I do not feel it is selfish to want...

Doll · Doll

LOVE AND FEAR AS OPPOSITES All these failings generate fear, a soul-sickness in its own right. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 49 "Fear knocked at the door; faith answered; no one was there." I don't know to whom this quote should be attributed, but it certainly indicates clearly that fear is a...

Phil · Phil

The great mind knows the power of gentleness. — Robert Browning We have learned to become gentle with ourselves & other people. The slogan “Easy Does It” works in all situations. We created confusion in our lives when we lost our light touch & our softspoken word. We were li...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

I've heard people describe events in their lives as being lucky. When I look back I don't see to much of any kinda luck. I really believe that God has been involved in my life even when I didn't believe in a god. I think that all the hell I've been through has happened in order to get me to believe in something...

Robert · Robert

Hiya. I feel a bit deflated. I spoke to my sponcer about my anxiety of work. "do not worry, we will work the steps, and by the time you go back to work all will be well" were his words. (The fact is I am on antidepressants and the main reason for my continued depression is my job. I had a real rough ordeal and it h...

Doll · Doll

ANGER: A "DUBIOUS LUXURY" If we were to live, we had to be free of anger. The grouch and the brainstorm were not for us. They may be the dubious luxury of the normal men, but for alcoholics these things are poison. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 66 "Dubious luxury." How often have I remembered those words. It'...

Doll · Doll

God, I offer myself to You -- to build with me and to do with me as You will . Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Your will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Your Power, Your Love,...

Candace · Candace

Well, I managed to make it through last night. The funniest thing about it was that I was real emotional and crying (but a good cry it was). My partner walked in the door from fishing and was like "what's wrong" -- I'm was like "nothing, I'm great - I haven't been better" with a big smile on my f...

Rob · Rob

Im not really in the mood to post tonight.. But i wanted to ask how you are doing this weekend Rob? Rob(3)

Rick · Rick

Are you meeting roadblocks to recovery? A disorder means out of order, not the way things should be. Are we convinced that addictive behavior is counter to the way we are intended to function? Or do we harbor, somewhere in the back of our minds, the idea that we'll never change our habits? ...

Rick · Rick

I hope I shall follow firmness of virtue enough to maintain that I consider the most enviable of all titles --the character of an honest man. --George Washington Happiness in recovery and in society depends on our honesty. We create pain for others, and ourselves, when we are dishonest...

paul · paul

Happy day! This 12 step thing we do, is so incredible! I, for one am grateful for your messages full of inspiration, hope and Love. paul "Sense shines with a double luster when it is set in humility. An able and yet humble man is a jewel worth a kingdom." — William Pe...

Phil · Phil

The First Step on the Road to Recovery is Always the Most Important One The first few steps you take on any journey won't get you where you want to go. But without those first steps and the many more that follow, you wouldn't where you are, looking towards the future and wondering what it would really...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Impatient and Intolerant? (Preview) Why are we Impatient and Intolerant? As humans we reach out to others to fill a void in life We seek to find our completeness in the company of another or by possession of an object-- as if what another or anything outside of ourselves can offer will make us happy We expect a c...	Phil	1	701	Apr 21, 2006 by soberdrunk
	The High Cost.... (Preview) The High Cost of Resentment and Anger in Marriage Many spouses carry heavy suitcases filled with a collection of anger and resentment from their marriage. Periodically, they unpack these suitcases and review every situation in which they feel they were treated unfairly. "Resentment is...	Phil	1	359	Apr 21, 2006 by wandajf
	out of touch (Preview) Hi there, sorry i have not been in touch, it has been a mad few days, anyway its the weekend, I have a belly full of tandori masala and im content. speak soon	Robert	4	343	Apr 21, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Havent slept since Tuesday (Preview) Man I am feeling groggy., I slept quite poor on tues night, last night, I kept having panic attacks and felt like crap after drinking too much pop. it sounds wack but I dont think im gonna sleep tonight either. I am so bored. I hate not sleeping, reminds me of the early days. Perhaps I should go to bed? b...	Robert	8	368	Apr 21, 2006 by Robert
	New Member (Preview) hello all. My name is Michael and i am an alcoholic. I am married with two children ages 5 and 6. I am 27 years old from tennessee. my beer drinking habits are ruining my family and my life. I am in need of support and prayers. I found this message board today as if God directed me here. Thanks for any advise or...	Country	10	646	Apr 21, 2006 by jeannie
	Re: Toni Baloney (Preview) Just had a carrier pigeon..fly in from California.... Computer down...could be a few days... Message to Sober...."Congrats on new job..glad everythings going better for you" And to everyone on the board? "She sends her love...and will miss you." -------------- oops...Had to do a spe...	Phil	0	300	Apr 21, 2006 by Phil
	New Job!!! (Preview) The new job went well. Lots of paper signing and video watching along with some tests. Passed the tests with flying colors. Reading and comprehension is still easy for me. I guess my brain still works when it comes to certain things!!! The real work starts tomorrow. Hands on. After all that I'...	soberdrunk	5	327	Apr 21, 2006 by amanda2u2
	April 21 (Preview) CULTIVATING FAITH "I don't think we can do anything very well in this world unless we practice it. And I don't believe we do A.A. too well unless we practice it. . . . We should practice . . . acquiring the spirit of service. We should attempt to acquire some faith, which isn't easily done, especially for t...	Doll	1	319	Apr 21, 2006 by Phil
	GREAT DAY TODAY (Preview) Hello folks, sorry I have not visited for a couple of days. I have been so busy, I started back to work on Monday and am having a good time at it for a change, I also take in 2 meetings a day one in the am and one @ 5:30 pm and then I am also doing what they call IOP so I am staying very busy both in my recovery a...	texas mike	3	311	Apr 21, 2006 by soberdrunk
	Touching base.... (Preview) Hi everyone I have not posted a topic for some time so just wanted to say hi. Things are good with me (reason being I have not had a drink!) Moving house soon and I am finding all the buying/selling very stressful. Although at the same time it is exciting I just pray I can stick with sobriety throughout the s...	trudi	2	331	Apr 20, 2006 by Phil
	Hello (Preview) Hello Everyone, I just wanted to say hello and thank you for being here. Recovery has changed my life and I cannot thank AA and all the AA's enough. In 1993 my journey in recovery began and I continue to love my sober life. I was only a baby when I got sober (just 21) but through this pr...	good2bsober	5	309	Apr 20, 2006 by soberdrunk
	Moaning minnie (Preview) tidied entire house top to bottom, purchased chinese lillies polished washed pots still wasnt good enough for a certain person, cant be arsed with her! on a downer	Robert	2	303	Apr 20, 2006 by Robert
	True? (Preview) Drunk Jokes A drunk was in front of a judge. The judge says "You've been brought here for drinking." The drunk says "Okay, let's get started." Another drunk goes up to a parking meter, puts in a quarter, the dial goes to 60. The drunk says "Huh. I lost 100 pounds!"	Cabbageheadchris	2	323	Apr 20, 2006 by trudi
	step four (Preview) Today's thought is: The goal isn't to do a successful inventory. The goal is to dig to the deepest levels of self-honesty. --Anonymous The Fourth Step is the hardest one for many newcomers in the Program. It is so difficult, in fact, that some of us still waiting to do it are no longer newcomers...	rosie light shines	1	292	Apr 20, 2006 by Phil
	Thought For Thursday (Preview) *Hurried and worried until we're buried And there's no curtain call, Life's a very funny proposition, after all. --George M. Cohan* Often, when we involve ourselves in a whirlwind of activities, plans, and expectations, we push ourselves so hard that we don't derive any satisfaction from suc...	Phil	1	304	Apr 20, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Daily Inventory/Daily Prayer - ESH please (Preview) Good morning, all. I'm looking at kind of revamping how I work my daily inventory...typically as I lie down at night for bed, I begin reviewing my day. Unfortunately, with the new hours I keep due to taking my son to work at 3 in the morning, I find myself falling asleep in the midst of the invento...	kspear	3	423	Apr 20, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Boys Night In (Preview) Hey! when I got back from the meeting I really craved a sugery drink. I have been off the cola for two weeks near. But this eve I had to get some pop! as she who must be obeyed is away! had sausage chips and beans 4 cans of coke and some cookies ! was lovely! only just going to bed now! (3:01) have been making...	Robert	2	298	Apr 20, 2006 by Robert
	No Sleep (Preview) Oh gosh coke overload. I had 6 tins and I am still awake, I went to bed at about 3:30 but the cat kept me up scratching and generally being stupid, about 4 I chucked her out the window, (she aint dead, we have a sloping roof so she just sat on the windowsil) by this time I was in a bad mood so I went to listen to so...	Robert	6	294	Apr 20, 2006 by Robert
	April 20 (Preview) SELF-EXAMINATION . . . we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 When said sincerely, this prayer teaches me to be truly unselfish and humble, for even in doing good deeds I often used to se...	Doll	0	283	Apr 20, 2006 by Doll
	Does anyone want to go to the online meeting? (Preview) Just wondering if anyone here is interested in doing online meetings?? I have read various posts about nobody ever showing up for them but I wonder if there is a desire for anyone among us? I wouldn't mind chairing once a week or something if anyone is interested.... Just a thought....... Jen...	iffer	3	356	Apr 20, 2006 by John
	Fear of the future... (Preview) Some thoughts to share... am at work and need to reach out.. no-one availalbe right now I always found it very hard in the early days of sobriety to face life and my fears without the numbing oblivion of alcohol. Even though at the end it was doing nothing for me anymore, the fear of facing the consequ...	Niall	5	490	Apr 20, 2006 by John
	oh man!! i think i messed up (Preview) Some of us, observing that ideals are rarely achieved, proceed to the error of considering them worthless. Such an error is greatly harmful. True North cannot be reached either, since it is an abstraction, but it is of enormous importance, as all the world's travelers can attest. --Steve Allen ...	rosie light shines	4	1129	Apr 20, 2006 by John
	April 19th A.A. Thought For The Day (Preview) Since I've been putting sobriety into my life, I've been taking out a lot of good things. I can describe it best as a kind of quiet satisfaction. I feel good. I feel right with the world, on the right side of the fence. As long as I put sobriety into my life, almost everything I take out is good. The satisfact...	soberdrunk	2	314	Apr 19, 2006 by soberdrunk
	A Big Page on Anger.... (Preview) Anger Quotes and Proverbs Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution Physiologically, it simply doesn't matter whether your anger is justified or not. The body doesn't make moral judgements about feelings; it just responds. Doc Childre and Howard Martin, HeartMath Solution Re...	Phil	0	320	Apr 19, 2006 by Phil
	Not so good day, Better Tomorrow (Preview) -- Edited by Toni Baloney at 22:32, 2006-07-20	Toni Baloney	7	448	Apr 19, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Thye Problem/The Solution... (Preview) If anyone is interested read this. The first part just about sums up alot about how I have operating all my life. Quite a shock. Maybe some of you can relate THE PROBLEM Many of us felt inadequate, unworthy, alone, and afraid. Our insides never matched what we saw on the outsides of others. Earl...	Niall	1	334	Apr 19, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	5th Meeting (Preview) Hi everyone. I ent really got much to say at the moment. I didnt know if i was gona go to meeting tonight, infact i probably wouldnt have.. But this morning at t-braek my mobile rang, made me jump,.. it was Alan, asking how i was and if i was going to meeting tonight.. i said "err.. yeah..m...	Rob	12	379	Apr 19, 2006 by Doll
	April 19 (Preview) BROTHERS IN OUR DEFECTS We recovered alcoholics are not so much brothers in virtue as we are brothers in our defects, and in our common strivings to overcome them. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 167 The identification that one alcoholic has with another is mysterious, spiritual--almost incomprehensible. But...	Doll	0	282	Apr 19, 2006 by Doll
	Fear (Preview) Fear is the absence of faith. —Paul Tillich We all experience fear. Sometimes we fear small things that only seem large at the time, like a test in school or meeting a new boss or going to the dentist. Sometimes we fear big things like serious illness or death or that someone w...	Phil	0	288	Apr 19, 2006 by Phil
	Experiencing Technical Difficulties (Preview) I was just thinking how easy it would be to fix my brain if it was like a computer. Just a few simple steps and I would have a fully functioning brain! Back to reality..... I have done a whole lot of damage to my thinker. I remember in rehab they taught us about how the brain works when it comes to pleasure...	soberdrunk	7	398	Apr 19, 2006 by paul
	Have a good night...and welcome back eh? (Preview) We know it hasnt been easy. We know there are times when its tough. We know that things arent always fair, but that doesnt mean, it should be this rough. The journey should be a lot smoother, and life should play by the rules. Time passes too quickly, in everything, except, when it heals our wounds...	Phil	3	354	Apr 18, 2006 by soberdrunk
	?????????? (Preview) I have a question for those of you on this board. I was at my IOP class today and I was talking about the percentage of alcoholics/addicts that actually stay sober after being exposed to the 12 step programs. I was under the impression that it's somewhere around 5% or one in every 20, however ya look at i...	soberdrunk	6	512	Apr 18, 2006 by amanda2u2
	passed my first test (Preview) Yesterday I posted how drinking buddies diappear real fast. Well, my neighboor/ best friend/ best drinking bud ended up calling me yesterday around 8ish. She told me that she hadn't called me for the past 5 days because she was on a bender and knew I was trying to quit... and that she was dr...	Candace	15	410	Apr 18, 2006 by soberdrunk
	8th day (Preview) I've made it -- ONE WHOLE WEEK! and starting on my 8th day. The first couple of days were rough.. now I wake up and see things in a whole new light. I feel a whole lot better, and realize that it's worth it to keep sober. Like for example, yesterday on Easter -- I would of been hung o...	Candace	5	371	Apr 18, 2006 by Phil
	no wonder i had such a hard time being ME (Preview) *If one is a greyhound, why try to look like a Pekingese?.......Edith Sitwell* Children accept more variety among their pets than among one another. A child, who is out of the ordinary---strinkingly tall or short, freckled, large-nosed, big-eared, eyeglassed--may be teased mercilessly duri...	rosie light shines	3	317	Apr 18, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Where did everybody Go? (Preview) Hi, Checked in twice yesterday, only one Post, then Today, I have checked in twice, and only 2 Postings. Feels like everyone has gone on vacation??? Oh, well, I guess I'll go mind my own business, and cook dinner, and check in tomorrow. This is the quietest I have ever seen the Board. G...	Toni Baloney	0	377	Apr 17, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Conflict.... (Preview) While conflict in marriage is inevitable, fighting is optional. The secret is in how you approach and handle the conflict. It can make the difference between a really great relationship and a breakup looking for a place to happen. With that notion in mind, let's take a look at five styles of han...	Phil	0	342	Apr 17, 2006 by Phil
	my partners depression (Preview) I feel that Helen is depressed as a result of me getting into uni, because it puts off her plans for the next 3 years, and I am not sure how to deal with it, I have put Helen and other people before me, for the vast majority of my life and now I am taking action to better myself and I do not feel it is selfish to want...	Robert	10	595	Apr 17, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Daily Reflections April 17 (Preview) LOVE AND FEAR AS OPPOSITES All these failings generate fear, a soul-sickness in its own right. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 49 "Fear knocked at the door; faith answered; no one was there." I don't know to whom this quote should be attributed, but it certainly indicates clearly that fear is a...	Doll	0	308	Apr 17, 2006 by Doll
	Easy Does It.... (Preview) The great mind knows the power of gentleness. — Robert Browning We have learned to become gentle with ourselves & other people. The slogan “Easy Does It” works in all situations. We created confusion in our lives when we lost our light touch & our softspoken word. We were li...	Phil	0	387	Apr 16, 2006 by Phil
	Luck? (Preview) I've heard people describe events in their lives as being lucky. When I look back I don't see to much of any kinda luck. I really believe that God has been involved in my life even when I didn't believe in a god. I think that all the hell I've been through has happened in order to get me to believe in something...	soberdrunk	2	367	Apr 16, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	BIG TROUBLE! (Preview) Hiya. I feel a bit deflated. I spoke to my sponcer about my anxiety of work. "do not worry, we will work the steps, and by the time you go back to work all will be well" were his words. (The fact is I am on antidepressants and the main reason for my continued depression is my job. I had a real rough ordeal and it h...	Robert	13	562	Apr 16, 2006 by Robert
	Daily Reflections April 16 (Preview) ANGER: A "DUBIOUS LUXURY" If we were to live, we had to be free of anger. The grouch and the brainstorm were not for us. They may be the dubious luxury of the normal men, but for alcoholics these things are poison. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 66 "Dubious luxury." How often have I remembered those words. It'...	Doll	1	331	Apr 16, 2006 by rosie light shines
	3rd Step Prayer - My Version (Preview) God, I offer myself to You -- to build with me and to do with me as You will . Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Your will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Your Power, Your Love,...	Doll	1	319	Apr 16, 2006 by rosie light shines
	6th day - almost 1 week (Preview) Well, I managed to make it through last night. The funniest thing about it was that I was real emotional and crying (but a good cry it was). My partner walked in the door from fishing and was like "what's wrong" -- I'm was like "nothing, I'm great - I haven't been better" with a big smile on my f...	Candace	8	360	Apr 16, 2006 by Cabbageheadchris
	Hey Mistermook how are you this weekend? (Preview) Im not really in the mood to post tonight.. But i wanted to ask how you are doing this weekend Rob? Rob(3)	Rob	6	376	Apr 16, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Roadblocks (Preview) Are you meeting roadblocks to recovery? A disorder means out of order, not the way things should be. Are we convinced that addictive behavior is counter to the way we are intended to function? Or do we harbor, somewhere in the back of our minds, the idea that we'll never change our habits? ...	Rick	1	327	Apr 16, 2006 by Rick
	Happy Easter (Preview) *I hope I shall follow firmness of virtue enough to maintain that I consider the most enviable of all titles --the character of an honest man. --George Washington* Happiness in recovery and in society depends on our honesty. We create pain for others, and ourselves, when we are dishonest...	Rick	0	288	Apr 16, 2006 by Rick
	Happy! (Preview) Happy day! This 12 step thing we do, is so incredible! I, for one am grateful for your messages full of inspiration, hope and Love. paul "Sense shines with a double luster when it is set in humility. An able and yet humble man is a jewel worth a kingdom." — William Pe...	paul	1	304	Apr 16, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Have a good night...from Ontario Canada eh? (Preview) The First Step on the Road to Recovery is Always the Most Important One The first few steps you take on any journey won't get you where you want to go. But without those first steps and the many more that follow, you wouldn't where you are, looking towards the future and wondering what it would really...	Phil	1	334	Apr 16, 2006 by Phil
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