Alcoholics Anonymous

Wren · Wren

"One of the great dangers of transformational work is that the ego attempts to sidestep deep psychological work by leaping into the transcendent too soon. This is because the ego always fancies itself much more ‘advanced’ than it actually is." -- Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson The Tibetan tea...

Doll · Doll

Need some help........My son is on a road to no where, fast. He's 16, barely passing in school, lieing about where he is and what he's doing. He got suspended 3 days while I was in AZ, I found out today when the letter came from the school. I provide him with a truck, I pay the insurance and I give him a t...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

Just thought I'd let everyone know that I'm still around. Just working long hours...averaging from 55 to 65 hours a week right now, trying to keep the factory above the red line. Hit the office at 6:45am today and finally left at 7:15pm with 15 minutes off for lunch. Gotta be crazy t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Hi everyone, I've been having a great few days recently. My boyfriend and I have finished setting up my new computer and it works just great; we had lunch out yesterday in a wonderful restaurant that specialises in fresh sea food, overlooking a marina; we are planning on going away for a few days ea...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Isn't it great life is open-ended! -- Brigitte Frase Elizabeth Lawton, known as "Grandma Layton," is an American artist who never drew a picture until she was 68 years old. She spent all the years before that time trying to cope with depression. She had gone through therapy, medications, and s...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

Just in case I 'vanish' for a week or so at some point in time, this is where I'll be........... Joni

Phil · Phil

Men are always whining about how women are sufficating them. Personally, I think if you can hear them whining..you are not pressing hard enough, on the pillow. If your'e not supposed to stick Q-tips in your ears..what the hell are they for??? Actually...you can have a healthy sex life, well in...

Doll · Doll

WITHOUT RESERVATION When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, . . . . AS BILL SEES IT, p.37 While practicing service to others, if my successes give rise to grandiosity, I must reflect on what brought me to this point. What has been given joyfully, with love, m...

Wren · Wren

Going Against What Is Popular Just because an idea or way of doing things is popular doesn't mean it's right for everyone. However, part of the way that something becomes popular is that many of us don't take the time to determine what's right for us; we simply do what most of the people we know are doin...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Today I will be grateful for where I am now. My life might not be perfect, and I might not have achieved the goals I thought I would have by now; I might not be living the kind of life I thought I would be or want to be, but I'm grateful for this day, right now, and the fact that I've made a commitment to mysel... >

LisaF · LisaF

I actually for the most part feel ok right now... since counseling today. I was dreading counseling so bad... I'd been doing writing exercises from a book and emailing what I wrote to my counselor... and then I had a really bad weekend... I was dreading talking about it all... but we talked about mostly...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

Had a great time in Oklahoma City and it was wonderful traveling through 5 beautiful states to get there. The ex-wife did NOT freak out at all, to my surprise... no, my husband ended up being the emotional one!!!! Anyhoo, it was so good to see the boys. Oklahoma City is very beautiful and the weather wa...

CAM · CAM

Hi everyone, I’m back. Did some more research again & WHAT a lesson…..why do I do this to myself? Again & again? I have no one to blame but myself! I had a no-where job, no-where life so I decided to put in my notice with my apartment complex. ...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Well it has only been a week, last Sunday, but feels I have been away from the Board for a month, got this Bug, and have been in Bed, and Ugh, that can just so boring. Just wanted to say hello, and hope everyone is doing o.k. today, and hope to rejoin you all soon. Hugs, Toni

Pytbull · Pytbull

Ok it was a big one.I went on a boat crusie on Friday night with every intention of behaving but had that first beer.I felt so bad on Saturday and embarrassed of my self because I didnt have the self-control to control my drinking.I was doing so good,I now know that I cant be around booze.I am thinking that...

Doll · Doll

OUR CHILDREN The alcoholic may find it hard to re-establish friendly relations with his children. . . . In time they will see that he is a new man and in their own way they will let him know it. . . . From that point on, progress will be rapid. Marvelous results often follow such a reunion. ALCOHOLICS ANONYM...

Robert · Robert

my partner is suffering from anxiety, I need some advice, she is anxious about being off work with anxiety! I love her and dont want to see her hurt, but I feel that I can get annoyed with her as I think that she is trying to rush things through, I said "you wouldnt be running if you had a broken leg, so dont get...

Wren · Wren

Are you afraid to be different? On the path of evolution, we move from being a willing and obedient member of the group to wanting to take control over our own lives. This is a necessary but difficult transition. Andrew Schneider says, "At this point we are afraid of being ourselves. We are afraid o...

RyanS · RyanS

I stumbled across a page of stuff that could be helpful concerning the dificulties we face after short term sobriety, just linking, copyrights and all.. http://www.tlctx.com/ar_pages/paw_part1.htm 3 pages, good stuff. Gave me another check up from the neck up. I get into an awfull rut with cigar...

Wren · Wren

"What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step." -- Antoine De Saint-Exupery Does the prospect of changing and growing seem monumental to you? Just too much to tackle? Then consider this approach. Take a simple step of affirming your openness to experience more or something new....

Doll · Doll

Got home last night. What a glorious trip. Spent 2 days in Las Vegas, definately something to see, but I really enjoyed my time traveling thru Arizona. I've never been off the East Coast, so this was a real treat for me.............It is always wonderful to get away, but there is no place like home. :smi...

SheIsSober · SheIsSober

OK, now, I don't think that's at all the acceptable term (drunk), but I don't know how to explain it any other way. My ex husband was what appeared, in every way, to be an alcoholic. Drank every night, got abusive, wrecked cars, lost jobs, cheated, lied, etc. And, in the past few mont...

Doll · Doll

FIRST THINGS FIRST Some of us have taken very hard knocks to learn this truth: Job or no job -- wife or no wife -- we simply do not stop drinking so long as we place dependence upon other people ahead of dependence on God. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 Before coming to A.A., I always had excuses for taking a dr...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I didn't really have a plan for a career, but I learned how to run our business quite successfully one day at a time. -- Joann Reed Whether we have a specific plan for how we anticipate our lives unfolding or we react to opportunities spontaneously, we have to take whatever comes in small incremen...

Phil · Phil

Courtesy, kindness, justice, and love are the keynotes by which we may come into harmony with practically anybody. When a drunk has a terrific hangover because he drank heavily yesterday, he cannot live well today. But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drink...

LisaF · LisaF

I don't have to drink over this! depression's not quite so bad as it was yesterday... well kinda up and down depression today, goes from bad to worse, bad to worse... but I will make it through this. I feel weird though... confused??... uncomfortable??... no real word to place on what I'm feel...

Doll · Doll

VIGILANCE We have seen the truth demonstrated again and again: "Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic." Commencing to drink after a period of sobriety, we are in a short time as bad as ever. If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that somed...

John · John

Hi Family, As many of you now know, two of my aunts were brutally murdered in Fort Myers, Fla. on the 10th of Sept, two weeks ago. Well, on Saturday, Sept 23rd, the person who murdered them was caught in Topeka, Kanas and is now in jail there. He was identified by finger prints and other forscen...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines. --Satchel Paige When children are tired they make their feelings very clear. They just sit down and start to cry. As adults, we may sometimes feel like...

Robert · Robert

one of the most important things in my life is music, and my memory is gone! if anyone plays piano, i have some questions for you if you dont mind, it really aches not knowin what i once used to know, its like a part of me is missing.... Rob

timverton · timverton

Does anyone go to these online meetings that are listed above as being on Tuesdays and Saturdays?...Tim

Robert · Robert

does anyone know what drivers I can install or rather down load so I can watch/play dvd's on the pc? Rob

LisaF · LisaF

I'm hurting a lot right now... I'm depressed, angry, raging... I was having fleeting thoughts of drinking... just thoughts like "I could use a drink right now" or "I need something to numb all this". I talked to some other alcoholics and I think I'm past it for now. I DO just want something to numb all thi...

Quetzal · Quetzal

In me there is darkness. But with you there is light. -- Dietrich Bonhoeffer A speaker at a meeting said, "To continue something when I'm making mistakes takes emotional courage." She was talking about making a decision to turn her will and life over to her Higher Power, and how it works in her life...

Phil · Phil

"I'll tell you one thing, if things keep going the way they are, it's going to be impossible to buy a week's groceries for $20." "Have you seen the new cars coming out next year? It won't be long before $2000 will only buy a used one." "If cigarettes keep going up in price, I'm going to quit. A quarter a p...

Phil · Phil

The sub-questions are designed to help shed light on the basic question. Read them only if necessary, but don't count them separately. What will eventually happen is that you will have a discussion with yourself; this is only an outline to give your conversation some constructive direction. Thi...

Pytbull · Pytbull

Hi everbody I am a 37 year old male that has been drinking for 25 years,with the very few and far between recreational pharmacutecal.I have never really admitted before that I have a problem only because I never drank everyday.I can go with out but if i have that first beer or drink it will lead to a lo...

Quetzal · Quetzal

. . .we may surprise ourselves by discovering a treasure. Not all secrets are bad. Some secrets are more like unspoken, unacknowledged mysteries than sinister destructive forces. We may quietly know what it is like to be a man or a woman in an intimate relationship, but we may never have told anyo...

ed v · ed v

in volume 3 of the big book page 449 has that wonderful paragraph on acceptance. what page is it on in volume 4? material success follows spiritual progress, it never precedes it. where is this quote found? i think it is in the steps.

Phil · Phil

What is Emotional Shoplifting?Emotional Shoplifting is when you steal truth from yourself and/or fail to disclose truth to another person with whom you have an intimate, personal relationship. Each time you stifle your feelings, you are literally shoplifting, stealing and sabotaging your sel...

Robert · Robert

Hiya. started uni today, felt less "alone" in a crowded room than I thought I would, have the chance to study into alcohol abuse, think I will get a distinction in that bearing in mind I have lots of experience!, do you think I should or would it be better to go for something that is not so close to home like c...

Phil · Phil

We wake up each morning Cobwebs in head Man!! We’re still breathin When we shoulda been dead Four cups of coffee And three smokes on the go Lighting a fire And thinkin of snow It’s 5am What the hell’s goin on Should be in bed Am I sick in the head? Oh well..up and at it And onwa...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I never realized how often I used the words "just" and "only." - Mary Pat K. Adult children [of alcoholics] often live within a framework of shame. One symptom of this is we minimize our achievements, feelings, needs, or opinions. Behind that is our feeling that we aren't and can't do anything spe...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. -- Winston Churchill As we grow spiritually, we naturally become more generous. It's a quality of a well-developed person. Rather than being anxious over whether we will have enough -- and rather than hungrily seeking more and more...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

What used to seem so difficult now seems so simple. Staying focused in the day and enjoying life is so important to this alchy. This staying sober stuff rocks!!! Developing new friendships with sober people is a wonderful thing. When I go to meetings now I really look forwards to seeing new friends. Ha...

Phil · Phil

Expectations By Robert Burney M.A. "I spent most of my life doing the Serenity prayer backwards, that is, trying to change the external things over which I had no control - other people and life events mostly - and taking no responsibility (except shaming and blaming myself) for my ow...

Phil · Phil

The Language of Letting Go. In recovery, we're learning to let ourselves go! We're learning to be spontaneous. Spontaneity may frighten some of us. We may be afraid of the loss of control involved with spontaneity. We may still be operating under the codependent rules that prohibit spontaneit...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

We are bound for Oklahoma tomorrow..... Looking forward to a week of R & R, and a BIG FAT steak in cowboy country!!! I will be passing by you, Ryan, and close to Thief... so I will holler out a big AA "YAAAAYYYY!!!!!" out the car window... Hope you two can hear me.. :o) Everyone take care and have...

Wren · Wren

"If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you." -- Louise Hay Pick one aspect of your life, e.g. your health, your competence, your prosperity or relationships, and think back to when you were a child. What messages about this subject did you hear from adults at that time tha...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make the best of it as it is, is the only way of being happy. -- Jennie Jerome Churchill We are generally so certain that we know what's best for ourselves. And we are just as often certain that what we think is best will guarantee happiness. Perhaps we sh...

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	Ego Tricks (Preview) "One of the great dangers of transformational work is that the ego attempts to sidestep deep psychological work by leaping into the transcendent too soon. This is because the ego always fancies itself much more ‘advanced’ than it actually is." -- Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson The Tibetan tea...	Wren	3	433	Sep 27, 2006 by jonibaloni
	The next right thing - HOW ??? (Preview) Need some help........My son is on a road to no where, fast. He's 16, barely passing in school, lieing about where he is and what he's doing. He got suspended 3 days while I was in AZ, I found out today when the letter came from the school. I provide him with a truck, I pay the insurance and I give him a t...	Doll	8	431	Sep 27, 2006 by Doll
	working too much (Preview) Just thought I'd let everyone know that I'm still around. Just working long hours...averaging from 55 to 65 hours a week right now, trying to keep the factory above the red line. Hit the office at 6:45am today and finally left at 7:15pm with 15 minutes off for lunch. Gotta be crazy t...	Sick of being sick	4	447	Sep 27, 2006 by Phil
	My Pink Cloud Days! (Preview) Hi everyone, I've been having a great few days recently. My boyfriend and I have finished setting up my new computer and it works just great; we had lunch out yesterday in a wonderful restaurant that specialises in fresh sea food, overlooking a marina; we are planning on going away for a few days ea...	Quetzal	4	430	Sep 27, 2006 by Phil
	Isn't it great life is open-ended! (Preview) Isn't it great life is open-ended! -- Brigitte Frase Elizabeth Lawton, known as "Grandma Layton," is an American artist who never drew a picture until she was 68 years old. She spent all the years before that time trying to cope with depression. She had gone through therapy, medications, and s...	Quetzal	2	475	Sep 27, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Where's WALDO????? (Preview) Just in case I 'vanish' for a week or so at some point in time, this is where I'll be........... Joni	jonibaloni	3	411	Sep 27, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Thoughts For The Day (Preview) Men are always whining about how women are sufficating them. Personally, I think if you can hear them whining..you are not pressing hard enough, on the pillow. If your'e not supposed to stick Q-tips in your ears..what the hell are they for??? Actually...you can have a healthy sex life, well in...	Phil	9	500	Sep 27, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Daily Reflection Sept 27 (Preview) WITHOUT RESERVATION When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, . . . . AS BILL SEES IT, p.37 While practicing service to others, if my successes give rise to grandiosity, I must reflect on what brought me to this point. What has been given joyfully, with love, m...	Doll	1	451	Sep 27, 2006 by Phil
	Against the Grain~OM (Preview) Going Against What Is Popular Just because an idea or way of doing things is popular doesn't mean it's right for everyone. However, part of the way that something becomes popular is that many of us don't take the time to determine what's right for us; we simply do what most of the people we know are doin...	Wren	3	418	Sep 26, 2006 by Phil
	Today I will be grateful for where I am now. (Preview) Today I will be grateful for where I am now. My life might not be perfect, and I might not have achieved the goals I thought I would have by now; I might not be living the kind of life I thought I would be or want to be, but I'm grateful for this day, right now, and the fact that I've made a commitment to mysel... >	Quetzal	0	393	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	little bit better (Preview) I actually for the most part feel ok right now... since counseling today. I was dreading counseling so bad... I'd been doing writing exercises from a book and emailing what I wrote to my counselor... and then I had a really bad weekend... I was dreading talking about it all... but we talked about mostly...	LisaF	4	405	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	Good to be back at Home!!!! (Preview) Had a great time in Oklahoma City and it was wonderful traveling through 5 beautiful states to get there. The ex-wife did NOT freak out at all, to my surprise... no, my husband ended up being the emotional one!!!! Anyhoo, it was so good to see the boys. Oklahoma City is very beautiful and the weather wa...	jonibaloni	6	437	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	update - long (Preview) Hi everyone, I’m back. Did some more research again & WHAT a lesson…..why do I do this to myself? Again & again? I have no one to blame but myself! I had a no-where job, no-where life so I decided to put in my notice with my apartment complex. ...	CAM	4	385	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	It has been a little while (Preview) Well it has only been a week, last Sunday, but feels I have been away from the Board for a month, got this Bug, and have been in Bed, and Ugh, that can just so boring. Just wanted to say hello, and hope everyone is doing o.k. today, and hope to rejoin you all soon. Hugs, Toni	Toni Baloney	5	501	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	A bit of a relapse (Preview) Ok it was a big one.I went on a boat crusie on Friday night with every intention of behaving but had that first beer.I felt so bad on Saturday and embarrassed of my self because I didnt have the self-control to control my drinking.I was doing so good,I now know that I cant be around booze.I am thinking that...	Pytbull	6	442	Sep 26, 2006 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Sept 26 (Preview) OUR CHILDREN The alcoholic may find it hard to re-establish friendly relations with his children. . . . In time they will see that he is a new man and in their own way they will let him know it. . . . From that point on, progress will be rapid. Marvelous results often follow such a reunion. ALCOHOLICS ANONYM...	Doll	0	383	Sep 26, 2006 by Doll
	advice (Preview) my partner is suffering from anxiety, I need some advice, she is anxious about being off work with anxiety! I love her and dont want to see her hurt, but I feel that I can get annoyed with her as I think that she is trying to rush things through, I said "you wouldnt be running if you had a broken leg, so dont get...	Robert	4	476	Sep 26, 2006 by Robert
	Are you afraid to be different?/ Joy (Preview) Are you afraid to be different? On the path of evolution, we move from being a willing and obedient member of the group to wanting to take control over our own lives. This is a necessary but difficult transition. Andrew Schneider says, "At this point we are afraid of being ourselves. We are afraid o...	Wren	8	461	Sep 25, 2006 by timverton
	Longer term difficulties (Preview) I stumbled across a page of stuff that could be helpful concerning the dificulties we face after short term sobriety, just linking, copyrights and all.. http://www.tlctx.com/ar_pages/paw_part1.htm 3 pages, good stuff. Gave me another check up from the neck up. I get into an awfull rut with cigar...	RyanS	4	425	Sep 25, 2006 by jonibaloni
	One Step at a Time (Preview) "What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step." -- Antoine De Saint-Exupery Does the prospect of changing and growing seem monumental to you? Just too much to tackle? Then consider this approach. Take a simple step of affirming your openness to experience more or something new....	Wren	4	414	Sep 25, 2006 by soberdrunk
	What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas (Preview) Got home last night. What a glorious trip. Spent 2 days in Las Vegas, definately something to see, but I really enjoyed my time traveling thru Arizona. I've never been off the East Coast, so this was a real treat for me.............It is always wonderful to get away, but there is no place like home. :smi...	Doll	2	432	Sep 25, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Can someone be a "drunk"? (Preview) OK, now, I don't think that's at all the acceptable term (drunk), but I don't know how to explain it any other way. My ex husband was what appeared, in every way, to be an alcoholic. Drank every night, got abusive, wrecked cars, lost jobs, cheated, lied, etc. And, in the past few mont...	SheIsSober	2	639	Sep 25, 2006 by Doll
	Daily Reflections Sept 25 (Preview) FIRST THINGS FIRST Some of us have taken very hard knocks to learn this truth: Job or no job -- wife or no wife -- we simply do not stop drinking so long as we place dependence upon other people ahead of dependence on God. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 Before coming to A.A., I always had excuses for taking a dr...	Doll	0	369	Sep 25, 2006 by Doll
	Today Offers Me .... (Preview) I didn't really have a plan for a career, but I learned how to run our business quite successfully one day at a time. -- Joann Reed Whether we have a specific plan for how we anticipate our lives unfolding or we react to opportunities spontaneously, we have to take whatever comes in small incremen...	Quetzal	0	423	Sep 25, 2006 by Quetzal
	Quotes from Step Ten (Preview) Courtesy, kindness, justice, and love are the keynotes by which we may come into harmony with practically anybody. When a drunk has a terrific hangover because he drank heavily yesterday, he cannot live well today. But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drink...	Phil	0	410	Sep 24, 2006 by Phil
	still hurting... BUT (Preview) I don't have to drink over this! depression's not quite so bad as it was yesterday... well kinda up and down depression today, goes from bad to worse, bad to worse... but I will make it through this. I feel weird though... confused??... uncomfortable??... no real word to place on what I'm feel...	LisaF	5	481	Sep 24, 2006 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Sept 24 (Preview) VIGILANCE We have seen the truth demonstrated again and again: "Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic." Commencing to drink after a period of sobriety, we are in a short time as bad as ever. If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any kind, nor any lurking notion that somed...	Doll	2	425	Sep 24, 2006 by timverton
	Update; Family Death (Preview) Hi Family, As many of you now know, two of my aunts were brutally murdered in Fort Myers, Fla. on the 10th of Sept, two weeks ago. Well, on Saturday, Sept 23rd, the person who murdered them was caught in Topeka, Kanas and is now in jail there. He was identified by finger prints and other forscen...	John	4	486	Sep 24, 2006 by Phil
	Never let your head hang down (Preview) Never let your head hang down. Never give up and sit down and grieve. Find another way. And don't pray when it rains if you don't pray when the sun shines. --Satchel Paige When children are tired they make their feelings very clear. They just sit down and start to cry. As adults, we may sometimes feel like...	Quetzal	1	504	Sep 24, 2006 by Jo
	does anyone play piano? (Preview) one of the most important things in my life is music, and my memory is gone! if anyone plays piano, i have some questions for you if you dont mind, it really aches not knowin what i once used to know, its like a part of me is missing.... Rob	Robert	8	489	Sep 24, 2006 by Robert
	Online meetings (Preview) Does anyone go to these online meetings that are listed above as being on Tuesdays and Saturdays?...Tim	timverton	9	436	Sep 24, 2006 by Wren
	off topic (Preview) does anyone know what drivers I can install or rather down load so I can watch/play dvd's on the pc? Rob	Robert	8	485	Sep 23, 2006 by Robert
	Hurting... (Preview) I'm hurting a lot right now... I'm depressed, angry, raging... I was having fleeting thoughts of drinking... just thoughts like "I could use a drink right now" or "I need something to numb all this". I talked to some other alcoholics and I think I'm past it for now. I DO just want something to numb all thi...	LisaF	5	453	Sep 23, 2006 by Doll
	In me there is ..... (Preview) In me there is darkness. But with you there is light. -- Dietrich Bonhoeffer A speaker at a meeting said, "To continue something when I'm making mistakes takes emotional courage." She was talking about making a decision to turn her will and life over to her Higher Power, and how it works in her life...	Quetzal	1	491	Sep 23, 2006 by Phil
	Hey Younguns? Sayings I used to hear from my parents in 1955.. (Preview) "I'll tell you one thing, if things keep going the way they are, it's going to be impossible to buy a week's groceries for $20." "Have you seen the new cars coming out next year? It won't be long before $2000 will only buy a used one." "If cigarettes keep going up in price, I'm going to quit. A quarter a p...	Phil	1	917	Sep 22, 2006 by Busbe
	Am I An Alcoholic??? (Preview) The sub-questions are designed to help shed light on the basic question. Read them only if necessary, but don't count them separately. What will eventually happen is that you will have a discussion with yourself; this is only an outline to give your conversation some constructive direction. Thi...	Phil	2	500	Sep 22, 2006 by Phil
	Introducing my self (Preview) Hi everbody I am a 37 year old male that has been drinking for 25 years,with the very few and far between recreational pharmacutecal.I have never really admitted before that I have a problem only because I never drank everyday.I can go with out but if i have that first beer or drink it will lead to a lo...	Pytbull	9	488	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	Surprising Ourselves (Preview) . . .we may surprise ourselves by discovering a treasure. Not all secrets are bad. Some secrets are more like unspoken, unacknowledged mysteries than sinister destructive forces. We may quietly know what it is like to be a man or a woman in an intimate relationship, but we may never have told anyo...	Quetzal	1	462	Sep 22, 2006 by Phil
	pls answer 2 questions (Preview) in volume 3 of the big book page 449 has that wonderful paragraph on acceptance. what page is it on in volume 4? material success follows spiritual progress, it never precedes it. where is this quote found? i think it is in the steps.	ed v	7	579	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	Emotional Shoplifting (Preview) What is Emotional Shoplifting?Emotional Shoplifting is when you steal truth from yourself and/or fail to disclose truth to another person with whom you have an intimate, personal relationship. Each time you stifle your feelings, you are literally shoplifting, stealing and sabotaging your sel...	Phil	1	502	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	New start today (Preview) Hiya. started uni today, felt less "alone" in a crowded room than I thought I would, have the chance to study into alcohol abuse, think I will get a distinction in that bearing in mind I have lots of experience!, do you think I should or would it be better to go for something that is not so close to home like c...	Robert	10	479	Sep 21, 2006 by Phil
	The Suns a commin up... (Preview) We wake up each morning Cobwebs in head Man!! We’re still breathin When we shoulda been dead Four cups of coffee And three smokes on the go Lighting a fire And thinkin of snow It’s 5am What the hell’s goin on Should be in bed Am I sick in the head? Oh well..up and at it And onwa...	Phil	2	419	Sep 21, 2006 by Phil
	"just" and "only" (Preview) I never realized how often I used the words "just" and "only." - Mary Pat K. Adult children [of alcoholics] often live within a framework of shame. One symptom of this is we minimize our achievements, feelings, needs, or opinions. Behind that is our feeling that we aren't and can't do anything spe...	Quetzal	2	523	Sep 21, 2006 by Quetzal
	We make a living by what we get ... (Preview) We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. -- Winston Churchill As we grow spiritually, we naturally become more generous. It's a quality of a well-developed person. Rather than being anxious over whether we will have enough -- and rather than hungrily seeking more and more...	Quetzal	0	463	Sep 20, 2006 by Quetzal
	Taking life as it comes (Preview) What used to seem so difficult now seems so simple. Staying focused in the day and enjoying life is so important to this alchy. This staying sober stuff rocks!!! Developing new friendships with sober people is a wonderful thing. When I go to meetings now I really look forwards to seeing new friends. Ha...	soberdrunk	3	495	Sep 20, 2006 by Quetzal
	Ohhhhh Yaaaaaa... (Preview) Expectations By Robert Burney M.A. "I spent most of my life doing the Serenity prayer backwards, that is, trying to change the external things over which I had no control - other people and life events mostly - and taking no responsibility (except shaming and blaming myself) for my ow...	Phil	0	452	Sep 20, 2006 by Phil
	Spontaneity (Preview) *The Language of Letting Go*. In recovery, we're learning to let ourselves go! We're learning to be spontaneous. Spontaneity may frighten some of us. We may be afraid of the loss of control involved with spontaneity. We may still be operating under the codependent rules that prohibit spontaneit...	Phil	0	429	Sep 20, 2006 by Phil
	~~~~~Bon Voyage~~~~~ (Preview) We are bound for Oklahoma tomorrow..... Looking forward to a week of R & R, and a BIG FAT steak in cowboy country!!! I will be passing by you, Ryan, and close to Thief... so I will holler out a big AA "YAAAAYYYY!!!!!" out the car window... Hope you two can hear me.. :o) Everyone take care and have...	jonibaloni	4	434	Sep 19, 2006 by RyanS
	The Past in the Present~Higher Awareness (Preview) "If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you." -- Louise Hay Pick one aspect of your life, e.g. your health, your competence, your prosperity or relationships, and think back to when you were a child. What messages about this subject did you hear from adults at that time tha...	Wren	4	448	Sep 19, 2006 by Wren
	Life is not always what one wants it to be (Preview) Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make the best of it as it is, is the only way of being happy. -- Jennie Jerome Churchill We are generally so certain that we know what's best for ourselves. And we are just as often certain that what we think is best will guarantee happiness. Perhaps we sh...	Quetzal	1	561	Sep 19, 2006 by Phil
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