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just another new alki
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hi everyone this is first my visit to the site and with little more than a passing glance at the posts i can tell im in a good place ....i went to my first meeting just two short weeks ago and it opened my eyes ...i knew i had a problem and i knew i wanted a little advise on how to get over the cravings and su...
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Craving...
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I cannot believe how strong the actual physical cravings I'm having for alcohol are...I quit smoking nearly two years ago and it's as bad as that was. I'm achy, cranky, moody...I'm real unpleasant to be around right now.
Somebody needs to make a friggen patch for this sh*t!  -- Edited b...
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Prayer Request (& a question)
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My sig. other's daughter was arrested last night, DUI & Posession of a Controlled Substance....Your prayers are greatly needed.........my question: He had allowed her to borrow his car, she's not named on the insurance, her car was in the shop & he loaned her one of his. Does anyone know how...
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almost left...
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I've been watching for a way out of my marriage for a long time... I get those serious thoughts of leaving, but it comes down to not having anywhere to go where I can take my animals, and I can't support myself. I know this isn't a good reason to stay. I thought about it over the weekend while I was camping wit...
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JONI
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It came today, it came today, it came today.............I LOVE it........thank you Sooooo much!!!
Love you. Jen
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The "Letting Go Stuff" in one big bag
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Letting Go: The Journey for your Life - Letting Go
By Barry Elwin-Jones
WHAT IS LETTING GO?
Letting go can be the most terrifying experience we can have. Letting go means having no support mechanism for our egos. Put simply, when we let go, we trust that everything is going to work out in our bes...
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Bad memory contractions...
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I keep having these flashbacks of me being a completely offensive idiot while drinking...some of them recent some from years and years ago. My girlfriend notices me cringing and wincing and asks whats wrong but I cant really explain it to her without sounding like a nut so I tell h...
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24 Hours a Day...for Today
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day A.A. Thought For The Day Am I still on a "free ride" in A.A.? Am I all get and no give? Do I go to meetings and always sit in the back row and let others do all the work? Do I think it's enough just because I'm sober and can rest on my laurels? If so, I haven't gone very far in the program, nor...
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a bit about me.
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hi again and thankyou for the warm welcomes,i feel surrounded by friends as i knew i would.Today i also feel surrounded by god and i know and feel that he loves me,really i feel he has always been in my life apart from a few years when i and alcohol decided to terminate the relationship!.i dont feel alone a...
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Daily Reflections Oct 12
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CURBING RASHNESS When we speak or act hastily or rashly, the ability to be fair-minded and tolerant evaporates on the spot. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 91 Being fair-minded and tolerant is a goal toward which I must work daily. I ask God, as I understand Him, to help me to be loving and tolera...
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I can't handle it, God. You take over
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I can't handle it, God. You take over. -- Anonymous
The life we lived in the dark world of our disease was a terrifying one. It was as if we were perched on a tiny ledge thousands of feet up the side of a mountain. The drop was straight down. We never dared to look up or down because we so desperately feare...
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You are the hero of your life.
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You are the hero of your life.
Each of us plays the starring role in the drama that is our life. We co-create the script, along with our Higher Power. Sometimes we forget our lines, and so we improvise as best we can. We are heroes, each of us, as we move through the events of the day, refining...
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I'm home!
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I'm home! I had a WONDERFUL weekend camping!!! It was so relaxing, finally had some peace... my mom got annoyed with me because I spent so much time outside by myself, but a lot of that was I just felt so close to God out there and spent a lot of time outside in prayer. Read my big book some, did my stepwork I ha...
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Just stuff......ehhhh
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The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age.
When I was kidnapped, my parents snapped into action. They rented out my room.
Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.
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Phil
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Daily Reflections Oct 11
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SELF--RESTRAINT Our first objective will be the development of self-restraint. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 91 My drive to work provides me with an opportunity for self-examination. One day while making this trip, I began to review my progress in sobriety, and was not happy with what I sa...
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Frustrated with my brother
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My brother has been labelled by himself and others as an alcoholic. Maybe I am speaking from the position of not understanding the disease - but what it looks like to me is that he is just a very immature individual who can't say no to a party.
He "dried out" 2 years ago at a centre for one mon...
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I have this drinkin thing licked!
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At least that's the stage I'm in right now...then it's usually followed by the "Why did I ever think I had a problem?" stage which precedes the "Wow those AA people are sure f**ked up!" stage. With the grand finally being the "I'm going for a beer or two just like any other normal pe...
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Hangover?
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Step Ten: Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
"When a drunk has a terrific hangover because he drank heavily yesterday, he cannot live well today. But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drinking or not. That is the e...
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The mind is a baby giant
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The mind is a baby giant who, more provident in the cradle than he knows, has hurled his paths in life all round ahead of him, like playthings.... -- Robert Frost
Sometimes we are bewildered by the options open to us. We feel we have no way of knowing which course would be best. But when we reflect calm...
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introduce myself
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my name is shaun and im an alcoholic.new to this site but nice to be part of it.just thought id touch base.i have some problems with forgiving myself and would like some feedback, if i could.This will take some time to type but i will come back shortly...shaun u.k
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Not a fan of Dr. Phil, but........
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http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/770
I happened upon today's show.
Maybe it will help someone.
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Been a rough couple days...
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Feeling depressed about losing my gf of 5 years, I let the demons get the best of me. Got a meeting tonight but it's not enough. I desperately need to get a sponser and start to get serious about the steps. Spent the weekend at my old mans to help him with some chores and such around his house. Didn't drink on...
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To Ryan...THANK YOU!!
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Ryan,
Your words just moved me so very deeply in that Post that you made, I hope that everyone will have a chance to read that in your Response to the Installing Love Post.
To express how deeply those words touched me, well there are no words.
Other than to say, that you are so very cherished a...
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Hi all....I am Batman
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Yes even Batman has problems! Yes I joke because that is how I deal with my problems. Except, as I am sure you all are aware of, this is no joke. Drinking 35 beers a night just isn't funny is it? For the last 18 years I have ignored all the signs. I have been to alot of recovery programs and AA, and have even done...
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24 Hours a Day
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day A.A. Thought For The Day When new members come into my A.A. group, do I make a special effort to make them feel at home? Do I put myself out to listen to them, even if their ideas of A.A. are vague? Do I make it a habit to talk to all new members myself, or do I often leave that to someone el...
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
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I only have a few minutes and just wanted to wish all of you great people North of the border a happy and sober Thanksgiving! Eat much, but don't overeat. Enjoy and be thankful for the bounties you are so fortunate to have compared to many others in this world. Phil, Kit...
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Today...
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This morning I went for a walk with my girlfriend and my dog on the beach...we drank our coffee while we threw the ball and just hung out watching all the puppies play. It was a little chilly but really sunny and there were lots of happy people out playing with their non-canine children at the playground,...
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Installing LOVE
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Installing Love Tech Support: Yes, how can I help you?
Customer: Well, after much consideration, I've decided to install Love. Can you guide me through the process? Tech Support: Yes. I can help you. Are you ready to proceed? Customer: Well, I'm not very technical, but I think I'm ready. W...
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Nonresistance
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Each Day a New Beginning.
Sometimes it's worse to win a fight than to lose. --Billie Holiday
Our struggles with other people always take their toll on us. They often push us to behavior we're not proud of. They may result in irreparable rifts. They frequently trigger an emotional relapse. No ba...
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There is nothing permanent except change
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There is nothing permanent except change. -- Heraclitus
Most of us don't like change very much. Getting sober is like stepping into a rushing river of change that will take us to new places in our lives. We sense that. We are learning to trust it more each day. But even though life keeps getting be...
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Wisdom of Fear-OM
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October 9, 2006 Honoring Life Changes The Wisdom Of Fear
Anything worth doing will always have some fear attached to it. For example, having a baby, getting married, changing careers-all of these life changes can bring up deep fears. It helps to remember that this ty...
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Daily Reflections Oct 10
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FIXING ME, NOT YOU If somebody hurts us and we are sore, we are in the wrong also. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 90 What a freedom I felt when this passage was pointed out to me! Suddenly I saw that I could do something about my anger, I could fix me, instead of trying to fix them. I believe that t...
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The 12th Tradition - History
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Tradition Twelve "Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities." THE spiritual substance of anonymity is sacrifice. Because A.A.'s Twelve Traditions repeatedly ask us to give up personal desires for the common good, w...
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family afterwards!
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man im struggling with my partner.
Since I have decided to do something that I wanted to do (go to uni) she has dropped into a deep depression.
I feel this is an arrangement of finances rather than a relationship of love.
"I will be ok once Ive got the house, once ive got the kid, once i have money"
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Robert
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24 Hours a Day
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day A.A. Thought For The Day Am I willing to be bored sometimes at meetings? Am I willing to listen to much repetition of A.A. principles? Am I willing to hear the same thing over and over again? Am I willing to listen to a long blow by blow personal story, because it might help some new m...
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Veteran Member...
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Puh-leeze!
I should be considered many things but "veteran" is hardly one of them. I think there should be a list of choices for our tag lines...mine would read "relapsing dickhead"
What would yours say?
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Hi all
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Haven't had much to say lately but I check in every day to see how everyone is doing.
I've been going to meetings regulary and have been appointed squad leader for the Sunday morning BB I go to. Today was my first day of it.
Been busy working the steps and that's going okay. I have d...
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The most deadly thing when added to alcohol
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Sick of being sick
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Step 1
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You know something, I dont think I have ever really done step 1...I've gone to meetings and said the obligatory "Hi I'm duane and I'm an alcoholic" but it was always like I had my fingers crossed. Even right now I realize that I'm having trouble reconciling that what I have is alcoholism. That it is chron...
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Enough
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"Man stands in his own shadow and wonders why it is dark." ~Zen saying We stand in the shadow of our lives every time we tell ourselves that something cannot be done because we are not good enough, or strong enough, or rich enough, or young enough or thin enough, or anything else enough. It is only w...
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Daily Reflections Oct 9
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A SPIRITUAL AXIOM It is a spiritual axiom that every time we are disturbed, no matter what the cause, there is something wrong with us. 12 & 12, p. 90 I never truly understood the Tenth Step's spiritual axiom until I had the following experience. I was sitting in my bedroom, reading into the wee hour...
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My bad attitude...
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Whenever I decide to try to stop drinking I do very well for about a week and then out of nowhere this arrogant attitude comes along and my brain starts saying things like "Are you really going to let these people tell you what to do?" and "Don't you miss being a rebellious fun loving bad ass?" and be...
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Morning All
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I never thought Id say this, but there is not a single thing that drink can give me today, it always told me what it could give me, and it was sort of right for a certain time, but what it didnt tell me is what it takes away, ie everything, including what it just gave you...
I am alot happier sober and that sou...
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Hard to Leave.. Missed ya all...
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hello family:
i knew that i couldn't stay away for long.. u guys lift my spirits. i missed ya. mom is still in hospital. too much to go into. it is just one thing after another. i just pray to god and my higher power. for her and for i. i hope all is w...
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Thought for the year...
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I'm a drunken twit.
Well I'm not drunk right this second but if I was, phew, I assure you that I'd be quite the boob.
Seriously though I'm thinking of taking another stab at the old non-drinking. It's probably a complete waste of time since I usually only last until payday but I figure since I lost my j...
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election
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my home group voted me in for gsr, many said i would be great for this service, and i hope i can do what is expected of me. thanks for all of your support the last months. wagon
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humility
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there is a story about the alcoholic being like a guy that falls into a rushing river clutching a boulder to his chest. the people who are trying to save him from drowning are running along the bank screaming at him to drop the boulder. finally he does and is pulled out of the water, when asked why he held on...
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Gratitude List
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What a great tool for us in recovery. Even the first day sober, I could be grateful for SOMETHING. I find as my sobriety grows, my gratitude grows. This morning I am grateful for the CONSISTENCY my Higher Power has brought into my life. Sure, curveballs whip by my head regularly, but the very basis of my d...
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Wish me luck
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Wish me luck
All my life I have an estranged relationship with my father, only saw him maybe twice a year at my grandmothers house. When she past away 11 years ago her funeral was the last time I spoke to him (but I don’t think I talked to him because I was high and angry, cant remember) I have spent the pa...
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Blame And Denial
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Blame and Denial
Blaming others for any set of consequences usually constitutes Denial.
Denial keeps all addicts in their addictions.
Defense Mechanisms
Rationalizing - I don't drink/use every day, I don't have a problem.
Minimizing - I don't drink/use half of what Sam drinks.
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