Alcoholics Anonymous

mels · mels

I need to quit drinking and I dont know how to go about it I heard you can die during detox what should I do? I have no insurance to be monitored!!!

Wren · Wren

Problems exist only in the human mind. -- Anthony de Mello For most of us, theres always a long to do list. Thats a fact. And its easy to feel victimized. Poor me! Thats not a fact thats a choice. Experiment with your life to explore how much your mind is your jailer. Simply let go of the oh woe kinds of though...

Doll · Doll

A.A. IS NOT A CURE-ALL It would be a product of false pride to claim that A.A. is a cure-all, even for alcoholism. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 285 In my early years of sobriety I was full of pride, thinking that A.A. was the only source of treatment for a good and happy life. It certainly was the basic ingredient for m...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear not absence of fear. -- Mark Twain It is not unusual to feel afraid. It is unusual, however, to hear anyone admit to feeling afraid. Sometimes we think there are some people who are so cool and calm that they never feel afraid. This may make us think we're not...

LisaF · LisaF

There's too much crap going on right now... but I'm getting to meetings again even though the drive into town kills my back, it was getting better, now it's all screwed up again... but I need meetings right now. I guess everyone was right... not about moving up here to Nebraska... I still think that...

worriedfriend · worriedfriend

To make a really long story short my husband and I have a couple that we are very close friends with. The husband in the couple is an alcoholic. He has had numerous close calls ie. serious fall of his bike resulting in a brain injury leaving him with damage and now no drivers license to keep a job. He has b...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People believe in A.A. when they see it work. An actual demonstration is what convinces them. What they read in books, what they hear people say doesn't always convince them. But when they see a real honest-to-goodness change take place in a person, a change from a drunkard to...

Phil · Phil

http://www.12stepforums.net/interviewwithgod.html

Doll · Doll

NEW SOIL . . . NEW ROOTS Moments of perception can build into a lifetime of spiritual serenity, as I have excellent reason to know. Roots of reality, supplanting the neurotic underbrush, will hold fast despite the high winds of the forces which would destroy us, or which we would use to destroy ourselv...

Phil · Phil

When life seems like an up hill climbTake comfort in the factThat you are mooning everyone behind you

Quetzal · Quetzal

Inevitably, there are times of stress in our lives, no matter how long we've been in recovery. Sometimes, the stress is outside or around us. We're feeling balanced, but our circumstances are stressful. Sometimes, the stress is within; we feel out of balance. When the stress is external and interna...

LisaF · LisaF

Well, I'm an... ex-aunt? lol um, my ex-husband's sister had her baby on the 18th... they just sent pics, they didn't get a whole lot of good ones, but here's a couple... My ex-father-in-law and Shannon Kimi and Shannon His name is Shannon Michael Thomas Knight, weighed 6lb 13oz, not sure of his len...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

I'd love to take part in an online meeting with everybody but being a 5hour behind Scouser means it'd be way past my bedtime! Have a good meeting for those of you who can make it ;) Maybe I'll catch up with you soon or read the minutes! lol Happy Sober Day dears & if you're struggling it's because you're...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ After we've been in A.A. for a while, we find out that if we're going to stay sober, we have to be humble people. The men and women in A.A. who have achieved sobriety are all humble people. When I stop to think that but for the grace of God I might be drunk right now, I can't help feelin...

Tina · Tina

Morning all Just Thought I would check in to say hi, and things are progressing well. It's been a few days or so since my last post, my daughter and are doing fine, son is doing well. He's started home schooling not along ago, and done 2 exams already and is doing well in that area, he's seeing a counciler o...

Doll · Doll

CULTIVATING FAITH "I don't think we can do anything very well in this world unless we practice it. And I don't believe we do A.A. too well unless we practice it. . . . We should practice . . . acquiring the spirit of service. We should attempt to acquire some faith, which isn't easily done, especiall...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I am still amazed, after years of recovering, at how easily I can begin to talk myself out of attending meetings. I am also still amazed at how good I feel when I go. -- Anonymous We don't have to stay stuck in our misery and discomfort. An immediate option is available that will help us feel better: go to a m...

cindy · cindy

miss seeing u on here........hope u are ok......?

Doll · Doll

This cat showed up on my porch last October. She was sooo tiny & dirty. I ran ads in the local paper and even put up flyers w/pictures around the neighborhood. When no one claimed her, she became our Itty Bitty Kitty. Well, low and behold just a few days ago my b/f said "when are the kittens due&qu...

Doll · Doll

You still freezin' it off up there?! When you gonna make down for some warm SC weather!

Doll · Doll

SELF-EXAMINATION . . . we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 When said sincerely, this prayer teaches me to be truly unselfish and humble, for even in doing good deeds I often used to se...

Phil · Phil

RISKTo laugh, is to risk playing the fool. To weep, is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out to another, is to risk involvement. To expose feelings, is to risk exposing our true selves. To put your ideas, your dreams, before the crowd is to risk loss. To love, is to risk not being loved in return. To...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The satisfaction you get out of living a sober life is made up of a lot of little things, but they add up to a satisfactory and happy life. You take out of life what you put into it. So I'd say to people coming into A.A.: "Don't worry about what life will be like without liquor. J...

Laura · Laura

I took a nap today and had my first dream about drinking--I think, or possibly my second. I remember something sad happened (in my dream) on top of my reflection of the Virginia Tech shooting and I decided I wanted a beer. It was odd because I didn't dream about getting it--I just had this tremendous sadn...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I don't know whether I want in or out of this relationship. I've been struggling with it for months now. It's not appropriate to let it hang indefinitely. I will give myself two months to make a decision. -- Anonymous I've had this unsolved problem hanging over my head for six months now. I'm confused. I...

Phil · Phil

http://www.mensworkshop.org/AA_Gallery/source/aa_co-founders_dr._bob___b.htm You might hafta paste and copy into an address line...its worth seeing...lot of different pics -- Edited by Phil at 12:01, 2007-04-19

miller2 · miller2

I have a blog I started almost two years ago, I just got back to updating and adding to it the other day. Ive been around the board here a little while, but I didnt want to spam ... lol :) Id be glad to post the address if it's OK, and anyone is interested in taking a look... Id also love to get some folks pos...

Wren · Wren

Hi guys. Please take a bit of time today and pray for Wanda. She got home from taking an elderly neighbor in for a blood test, and her home was burnt to the ground. Thank God her little dogs were with her. She has lost everything material and is still in shock right now. I know this community will help her get...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been putting sobriety into my life, I've been taking out a lot of good things. I can describe it best as a kind of quiet satisfaction. I feel good. I feel right with the world, on the right side of the fence. As long as I put sobriety into my life, almost everything I take o...

Doll · Doll

BROTHERS IN OUR DEFECTS We recovered alcoholics are not so much brothers in virtue as we are brothers in our defects, and in our common strivings to overcome them. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 167 The identification that one alcoholic has with another is mysterious, spiritual--almost incomprehensible. But...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Inch by inch, row by row Someone bless these seeds I sow . . . 'Til the rain comes tumblin' down. --David Mallett We plant a garden with faith, never knowing exactly what the harvest will bring. We attend to those aspects of gardening, which we have some control over, planting good seeds in rich soil, in s...

LisaF · LisaF

*sigh* I don't know what's wrong with me today... I haven't been this depressed in I don't know how long. I just want to cry and I can't, and I don't even know why I want to. No thoughts of drinking... but thoughts of something else I shouldn't do (another bad coping mechanism) and I haven't done it in m...

Wren · Wren

"We are continually faced with great opportunities which are brilliantly disguised as unsolvable problems. -- Margaret Mead A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds. -- Francis Bacon "What is opportunity, and when does it knock? It never knocks. You can wait a whole lifeti...

nancyjo59 · nancyjo59

Hello, I'm going to be looking for a sponsor. Can anyone tell me what to look for. I've heard people asking for one at meetings...I have a hard time asking my own family for anything, and havent had the nerve to speak up and ask for one. Thanks Nancy Jo

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ As I look back over my drinking career, have I learned that you take out of life what you put into it? When I put drinking into my life, did I take out a lot of bad things? Hospitals with the D.T.'s? Jails for drunken driving? Loss of job? Loss of home and family? When I put drinking in...

nursedebbiepink · nursedebbiepink

hi folks, just need to vent. my active A is the best guy with a horrible disease. he was involved with AA for 3 years and was dry.i am involved with alanon. my problem is with intimacy. he has been on a daily drinking binge for about 2 months.works all day at his business and comes home to a bottle. i don't...

Doll · Doll

SELF-HONESTY The deception of others is nearly always rooted in the deception of ourselves. . . . When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and with God. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 17 When I was drinking, I deceived myself about reality, rewriting it to what I wa...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Many of us were oppressed and victimized as children. As adults, we may continue to keep ourselves oppressed. Some of us don't recognize that caretaking and not setting boundaries will leave us feeling victimized. Some of us don't understand that thinking of ourselves as victims will leave us feel...

LisaF · LisaF

Still in a lot of pain from my back... First dr I saw said it was nerve pain, but didn't run tests or anything. Second dr I saw said it's not nerve pain. Thinks it's muscle spasms. Sent me in for xrays and set up physical therapy. Xrays come back, don't show anything. I start physical therapy, physical ther...

Phil · Phil

This dance of Codependence is a dance of dysfunctional relationships - of relationships that do not work to meet our needs. That does not mean just romantic relationships, or family relationships, or even human relationships in general. The fact that dysfunction exists in our romantic, family, a...

oOOoOoOoOOo · oOOoOoOoOOo

My dad has been drinking for 8 days, he doesn't eat, he just drinks. I don't live with him, so I can't really control him. Today I visit his hous and he told me, that he is going 2 stop drinking. When I visit his house, he had 16 empty buttols on his table. I'll visit him tmorrow again, but I don't think he will...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Every time we go to an A.A. meeting, every time we say the Lord's prayer, every time we have quiet time before breakfast, we're paying a premium on our insurance against taking that first drink. And every time we help another alcoholic, we're making a large payment on our drink...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We often refer to recovery from codependency and adult child issues as self-care. Self-care is not, as some may think, a spin off of the me generation. It isn't self-indulgence. It isn't selfishness - in the negative interpretation of that word. We're learning to take care of ourselves, instead of o...

barisax · barisax

If you clicked on this thinking you might find something useful to the newcomer... well, my topic is actually the opposite. I have some sobriety... I don't know if I qualify as an oldtimer, but it seems as time goes by, I seem to have less of value to share with the newcomer. Often in the past, it seemed tha...

Doll · Doll

LOVE AND FEAR AS OPPOSITES All these failings generate fear, a soul-sickness in its own right. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 49 "Fear knocked at the door; faith answered; no one was there." I don't know to whom this quote should be attributed, but it certainly indicates clearly t...

wagon · wagon

glad i dont live like this now!!!!!things are good in iowa take care, wagon

Phil · Phil

by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2000 Simple as it may seem To listen to what's deep inside It is the hardest thing To let go from the heart what hidesYou deserve to listen... -Susan Herrick, You Deserve Intense emotion can be overwhelming for all of us. And if you're just opening up to an emotio...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we have insurance. Our faith in God is a kind of insurance against the terrible things that might happen to us if we ever drink again. By putting our drink problem in the hands of God, we've taken out a sort of insurance policy, which insures us against the ravages of drink...

Doll · Doll

ANGER: A "DUBIOUS LUXURY" If we were to live, we had to be free of anger. The grouch and the brainstorm were not for us. They may be the dubious luxury of the normal men, but for alcoholics these things are poison. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 66 "Dubious luxury." How often have I reme...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We do not have to work so hard at gaining our insights. Yes, we're learning that painful and disappointing things happen, often for a reason and a higher purpose. Yes, these things often work out for good. But we don't have to spend so much time and energy figuring out the purpose and plan for each detail...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	How to go about quitting??? (Preview) I need to quit drinking and I dont know how to go about it I heard you can die during detox what should I do? I have no insurance to be monitored!!!	mels	12	849	Apr 23, 2007 by Marti
	Imprisoned by your thoughts (Preview) Problems exist only in the human mind. -- Anthony de Mello For most of us, theres always a long to do list. Thats a fact. And its easy to feel victimized. Poor me! Thats not a fact thats a choice. Experiment with your life to explore how much your mind is your jailer. Simply let go of the oh woe kinds of though...	Wren	3	544	Apr 23, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections April 23 (Preview) A.A. IS NOT A CURE-ALL It would be a product of false pride to claim that A.A. is a cure-all, even for alcoholism. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 285 In my early years of sobriety I was full of pride, thinking that A.A. was the only source of treatment for a good and happy life. It certainly was the basic ingredient for m...	Doll	0	481	Apr 23, 2007 by Doll
	Courage (Preview) Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear not absence of fear. -- Mark Twain It is not unusual to feel afraid. It is unusual, however, to hear anyone admit to feeling afraid. Sometimes we think there are some people who are so cool and calm that they never feel afraid. This may make us think we're not...	Quetzal	0	434	Apr 23, 2007 by Quetzal
	Guess everyone was right... (Preview) There's too much crap going on right now... but I'm getting to meetings again even though the drive into town kills my back, it was getting better, now it's all screwed up again... but I need meetings right now. I guess everyone was right... not about moving up here to Nebraska... I still think that...	LisaF	11	577	Apr 23, 2007 by Wren
	We've had it! (Preview) To make a really long story short my husband and I have a couple that we are very close friends with. The husband in the couple is an alcoholic. He has had numerous close calls ie. serious fall of his bike resulting in a brain injury leaving him with damage and now no drivers license to keep a job. He has b...	worriedfriend	5	554	Apr 23, 2007 by miller2
	24 Hours a Day ~ 22nd April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ People believe in A.A. when they see it work. An actual demonstration is what convinces them. What they read in books, what they hear people say doesn't always convince them. But when they see a real honest-to-goodness change take place in a person, a change from a drunkard to...	Sobrietyspell	0	439	Apr 22, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	From MIP...For those that haven't seen this (Preview) http://www.12stepforums.net/interviewwithgod.html	Phil	2	585	Apr 22, 2007 by timverton
	Daily Reflections Apr 22 (Preview) NEW SOIL . . . NEW ROOTS Moments of perception can build into a lifetime of spiritual serenity, as I have excellent reason to know. Roots of reality, supplanting the neurotic underbrush, will hold fast despite the high winds of the forces which would destroy us, or which we would use to destroy ourselv...	Doll	0	412	Apr 22, 2007 by Doll
	An Uphill Climb (Preview) When life seems like an up hill climbTake comfort in the factThat you are mooning everyone behind you	Phil	3	512	Apr 22, 2007 by Tina
	Coping With Stress (Preview) Inevitably, there are times of stress in our lives, no matter how long we've been in recovery. Sometimes, the stress is outside or around us. We're feeling balanced, but our circumstances are stressful. Sometimes, the stress is within; we feel out of balance. When the stress is external and interna...	Quetzal	0	1202	Apr 22, 2007 by Quetzal
	baby! (Preview) Well, I'm an... ex-aunt? lol um, my ex-husband's sister had her baby on the 18th... they just sent pics, they didn't get a whole lot of good ones, but here's a couple... My ex-father-in-law and Shannon Kimi and Shannon His name is Shannon Michael Thomas Knight, weighed 6lb 13oz, not sure of his len...	LisaF	2	465	Apr 22, 2007 by destinydreamer
	Online Meeting 2nite :D (Preview) I'd love to take part in an online meeting with everybody but being a 5hour behind Scouser means it'd be way past my bedtime! Have a good meeting for those of you who can make it ;) Maybe I'll catch up with you soon or read the minutes! lol Happy Sober Day dears & if you're struggling it's because you're...	Sobrietyspell	0	526	Apr 21, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hours a Day ~ 21st April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ After we've been in A.A. for a while, we find out that if we're going to stay sober, we have to be humble people. The men and women in A.A. who have achieved sobriety are all humble people. When I stop to think that but for the grace of God I might be drunk right now, I can't help feelin...	Sobrietyspell	0	491	Apr 21, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Just checking in (Preview) Morning all Just Thought I would check in to say hi, and things are progressing well. It's been a few days or so since my last post, my daughter and are doing fine, son is doing well. He's started home schooling not along ago, and done 2 exams already and is doing well in that area, he's seeing a counciler o...	Tina	1	494	Apr 21, 2007 by miller2
	Daily Reflections Apr 21 (Preview) CULTIVATING FAITH "I don't think we can do anything very well in this world unless we practice it. And I don't believe we do A.A. too well unless we practice it. . . . We should practice . . . acquiring the spirit of service. We should attempt to acquire some faith, which isn't easily done, especiall...	Doll	0	492	Apr 21, 2007 by Doll
	Going To Meetings (Preview) I am still amazed, after years of recovering, at how easily I can begin to talk myself out of attending meetings. I am also still amazed at how good I feel when I go. -- Anonymous We don't have to stay stuck in our misery and discomfort. An immediate option is available that will help us feel better: go to a m...	Quetzal	0	495	Apr 21, 2007 by Quetzal
	you ok ryan? (Preview) miss seeing u on here........hope u are ok......?	cindy	0	512	Apr 20, 2007 by cindy
	Just call me "Grandma" (Preview) This cat showed up on my porch last October. She was sooo tiny & dirty. I ran ads in the local paper and even put up flyers w/pictures around the neighborhood. When no one claimed her, she became our Itty Bitty Kitty. Well, low and behold just a few days ago my b/f said "when are the kittens due&qu...	Doll	8	1262	Apr 20, 2007 by Doll
	Hey Peanut Brain (Preview) You still freezin' it off up there?! When you gonna make down for some warm SC weather!	Doll	13	792	Apr 20, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections April 20 (Preview) SELF-EXAMINATION . . . we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 86 When said sincerely, this prayer teaches me to be truly unselfish and humble, for even in doing good deeds I often used to se...	Doll	0	440	Apr 20, 2007 by Doll
	RISK (Preview) RISKTo laugh, is to risk playing the fool. To weep, is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out to another, is to risk involvement. To expose feelings, is to risk exposing our true selves. To put your ideas, your dreams, before the crowd is to risk loss. To love, is to risk not being loved in return. To...	Phil	0	485	Apr 20, 2007 by Phil
	24 Hours a Day ~ 20th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The satisfaction you get out of living a sober life is made up of a lot of little things, but they add up to a satisfactory and happy life. You take out of life what you put into it. So I'd say to people coming into A.A.: "Don't worry about what life will be like without liquor. J...	Sobrietyspell	0	485	Apr 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	First dream (Preview) I took a nap today and had my first dream about drinking--I think, or possibly my second. I remember something sad happened (in my dream) on top of my reflection of the Virginia Tech shooting and I decided I wanted a beer. It was odd because I didn't dream about getting it--I just had this tremendous sadn...	Laura	7	493	Apr 20, 2007 by Laura
	Deadlines (Preview) I don't know whether I want in or out of this relationship. I've been struggling with it for months now. It's not appropriate to let it hang indefinitely. I will give myself two months to make a decision. -- Anonymous I've had this unsolved problem hanging over my head for six months now. I'm confused. I...	Quetzal	0	479	Apr 20, 2007 by Quetzal
	AA Archives (Preview) http://www.mensworkshop.org/AA_Gallery/source/aa_co-founders_dr._bob___b.htm You might hafta paste and copy into an address line...its worth seeing...lot of different pics -- Edited by Phil at 12:01, 2007-04-19	Phil	0	558	Apr 19, 2007 by Phil
	Sober Blogging (Preview) I have a blog I started almost two years ago, I just got back to updating and adding to it the other day. Ive been around the board here a little while, but I didnt want to spam ... lol :) Id be glad to post the address if it's OK, and anyone is interested in taking a look... Id also love to get some folks pos...	miller2	8	537	Apr 19, 2007 by miller2
	Prayers Needed for Wandajf (Preview) Hi guys. Please take a bit of time today and pray for Wanda. She got home from taking an elderly neighbor in for a blood test, and her home was burnt to the ground. Thank God her little dogs were with her. She has lost everything material and is still in shock right now. I know this community will help her get...	Wren	7	656	Apr 19, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	24 Hours a Day ~ 19th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been putting sobriety into my life, I've been taking out a lot of good things. I can describe it best as a kind of quiet satisfaction. I feel good. I feel right with the world, on the right side of the fence. As long as I put sobriety into my life, almost everything I take o...	Sobrietyspell	0	1890	Apr 19, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Apr 19 (Preview) BROTHERS IN OUR DEFECTS We recovered alcoholics are not so much brothers in virtue as we are brothers in our defects, and in our common strivings to overcome them. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 167 The identification that one alcoholic has with another is mysterious, spiritual--almost incomprehensible. But...	Doll	0	493	Apr 19, 2007 by Doll
	Seeds Of Joy (Preview) Inch by inch, row by row Someone bless these seeds I sow . . . 'Til the rain comes tumblin' down. --David Mallett We plant a garden with faith, never knowing exactly what the harvest will bring. We attend to those aspects of gardening, which we have some control over, planting good seeds in rich soil, in s...	Quetzal	0	538	Apr 19, 2007 by Quetzal
	What's wrong with me? (Preview) sigh I don't know what's wrong with me today... I haven't been this depressed in I don't know how long. I just want to cry and I can't, and I don't even know why I want to. No thoughts of drinking... but thoughts of something else I shouldn't do (another bad coping mechanism) and I haven't done it in m...	LisaF	8	703	Apr 18, 2007 by miller2
	Opportunity (Preview) "We are continually faced with great opportunities which are brilliantly disguised as unsolvable problems. -- Margaret Mead A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds. -- Francis Bacon "What is opportunity, and when does it knock? It never knocks. You can wait a whole lifeti...	Wren	0	468	Apr 18, 2007 by Wren
	Sponsor (Preview) Hello, I'm going to be looking for a sponsor. Can anyone tell me what to look for. I've heard people asking for one at meetings...I have a hard time asking my own family for anything, and havent had the nerve to speak up and ask for one. Thanks Nancy Jo	nancyjo59	4	527	Apr 18, 2007 by nancyjo59
	24 Hours a Day ~ 18th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ As I look back over my drinking career, have I learned that you take out of life what you put into it? When I put drinking into my life, did I take out a lot of bad things? Hospitals with the D.T.'s? Jails for drunken driving? Loss of job? Loss of home and family? When I put drinking in...	Sobrietyspell	0	508	Apr 18, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	intimacy with my A (Preview) hi folks, just need to vent. my active A is the best guy with a horrible disease. he was involved with AA for 3 years and was dry.i am involved with alanon. my problem is with intimacy. he has been on a daily drinking binge for about 2 months.works all day at his business and comes home to a bottle. i don't...	nursedebbiepink	7	517	Apr 18, 2007 by Tina
	Daily Reflections Apr 18 (Preview) SELF-HONESTY The deception of others is nearly always rooted in the deception of ourselves. . . . When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and with God. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 17 When I was drinking, I deceived myself about reality, rewriting it to what I wa...	Doll	0	439	Apr 18, 2007 by Doll
	Freedom (Preview) Many of us were oppressed and victimized as children. As adults, we may continue to keep ourselves oppressed. Some of us don't recognize that caretaking and not setting boundaries will leave us feeling victimized. Some of us don't understand that thinking of ourselves as victims will leave us feel...	Quetzal	0	461	Apr 18, 2007 by Quetzal
	frustrated, still having back pain... (Preview) Still in a lot of pain from my back... First dr I saw said it was nerve pain, but didn't run tests or anything. Second dr I saw said it's not nerve pain. Thinks it's muscle spasms. Sent me in for xrays and set up physical therapy. Xrays come back, don't show anything. I start physical therapy, physical ther...	LisaF	4	509	Apr 17, 2007 by Doll
	Codependency And Letting Go (Preview) This dance of Codependence is a dance of dysfunctional relationships - of relationships that do not work to meet our needs. That does not mean just romantic relationships, or family relationships, or even human relationships in general. The fact that dysfunction exists in our romantic, family, a...	Phil	6	1752	Apr 17, 2007 by miller6
	What should I do? (Preview) My dad has been drinking for 8 days, he doesn't eat, he just drinks. I don't live with him, so I can't really control him. Today I visit his hous and he told me, that he is going 2 stop drinking. When I visit his house, he had 16 empty buttols on his table. I'll visit him tmorrow again, but I don't think he will...	oOOoOoOoOOo	13	810	Apr 17, 2007 by Phil
	24 Hours a Day ~ 17th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Every time we go to an A.A. meeting, every time we say the Lord's prayer, every time we have quiet time before breakfast, we're paying a premium on our insurance against taking that first drink. And every time we help another alcoholic, we're making a large payment on our drink...	Sobrietyspell	0	540	Apr 17, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Self-Care (Preview) We often refer to recovery from codependency and adult child issues as self-care. Self-care is not, as some may think, a spin off of the me generation. It isn't self-indulgence. It isn't selfishness - in the negative interpretation of that word. We're learning to take care of ourselves, instead of o...	Quetzal	2	791	Apr 17, 2007 by Phil
	Useful to the Newcomer (Preview) If you clicked on this thinking you might find something useful to the newcomer... well, my topic is actually the opposite. I have some sobriety... I don't know if I qualify as an oldtimer, but it seems as time goes by, I seem to have less of value to share with the newcomer. Often in the past, it seemed tha...	barisax	6	569	Apr 17, 2007 by sheilasdad
	Daily Reflections Apr 17 (Preview) LOVE AND FEAR AS OPPOSITES All these failings generate fear, a soul-sickness in its own right. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 49 "Fear knocked at the door; faith answered; no one was there." I don't know to whom this quote should be attributed, but it certainly indicates clearly t...	Doll	0	420	Apr 17, 2007 by Doll
	this song reminds me what addiction was like (Preview) glad i dont live like this now!!!!!things are good in iowa take care, wagon	wagon	9	681	Apr 16, 2007 by Doll
	What To Do With Your Feelings (Preview) by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2000 Simple as it may seem To listen to what's deep inside It is the hardest thing To let go from the heart what hidesYou deserve to listen... -Susan Herrick, You Deserve Intense emotion can be overwhelming for all of us. And if you're just opening up to an emotio...	Phil	1	540	Apr 16, 2007 by Doll
	24 Hours a Day ~ 16th April 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we have insurance. Our faith in God is a kind of insurance against the terrible things that might happen to us if we ever drink again. By putting our drink problem in the hands of God, we've taken out a sort of insurance policy, which insures us against the ravages of drink...	Sobrietyspell	0	556	Apr 16, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Apr 176 (Preview) ANGER: A "DUBIOUS LUXURY" If we were to live, we had to be free of anger. The grouch and the brainstorm were not for us. They may be the dubious luxury of the normal men, but for alcoholics these things are poison. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 66 "Dubious luxury." How often have I reme...	Doll	0	460	Apr 16, 2007 by Doll
	Letting Things Happen (Preview) We do not have to work so hard at gaining our insights. Yes, we're learning that painful and disappointing things happen, often for a reason and a higher purpose. Yes, these things often work out for good. But we don't have to spend so much time and energy figuring out the purpose and plan for each detail...	Quetzal	0	495	Apr 16, 2007 by Quetzal
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