Alcoholics Anonymous

cindy · cindy

i love my dad, though he's been addicted since before i was born. they say dont try to 12 step family, but i tried anyway. now finally his battered body has had enough and he's on his way out. i have mixed emotions because it has been a love hate thing. he's a tough old guy, and lived a hard life. a logger in his...

wantneeda · wantneeda

heard lots of stuff i liked, brought lots of it home with me... bought 2 books...one called coming to believe...its on step 2 a pocket size Big Book for my purse then today i met an old fellow that came all the way from Kenora, Ontario for the roundup, He wanted to buy me a book, the 12 by 12...1...

Doll · Doll

"THY WILL, NOT MINE" . . . when making specific requests, it will be well to add to each one of them this qualification. ." . . . if it be Thy will." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 102-03 I ask simply that throughout the day God place in me the best understanding of His will that I can have for that day...

timverton · timverton

God, grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to know the difference. O.K. If you've seen it before, chalk it up to late-arriving spam...Tim -- Edited by timverton at 09:56, 2006-11-20

Phil · Phil

5 Corporate Lessons Corporate Lesson 1 A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower when the doorbell rings. The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next door neighbour. ...

Phil · Phil

Accepting Our Feelings Why do we struggle so with our feelings? Why do we work so hard to deny our emotions, especially concerning other people? They are only feelings! In the course of a day, we may deny we feel frustrated in reaction to someone who is selling us a service. We may deny that we feel...

ZB · ZB

Hi All, I'm newly sober (today is day 9 after a week-long relapse from 6 weeks of sobriety) and am looking for some kind of online community to fill in the cracks between meetings. Hope to get to know some of you better while I'm here. ZB

Wren · Wren

How often do we get caught up in life's events, the days just roll on by, and we forget how rich and beautiful our lives are today? And I find it is in the small events, the little moments, that my memory is jolted. Today was like most days for me. Yknow, get up, get your coffee or tea, visit the loo, and check y...

Zster · Zster

Hi all! I am finally able to log in here, after a long time trying. Thought I would take a sec to introduce myself to y'all... I am Leszlie, alcoholic. I have managed to put together 15 months sobriety, with the grace of God and AA. Most recently, I am being challenged by the loss of my beloved&n...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

MMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!......Turrrkeeeeeeeeeeyyyy!!!........

Quetzal · Quetzal

The greatest gift we can give another person is the gift of ourselves. When we can share our deepest convictions and failures, our ideals and disillusionments, our hopes and frustrations, our dreams and despairs, our answers and our questions then we are loving our neighbors as ourselves as well as...

Wren · Wren

How do you work with anger? "Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action. If one lets fear or hate or anger take possession of the mind, they become self-forged chains." -- Helen Douglas How do you feel about anger, in yourse...

RyanS · RyanS

Toni, I want to apologize if my temper tantrum over a post being edited triggered whatever went on here. I think editing ought be for spam or pure filth, but I dont run this deal and could have discussed it with the moderator like an adult. My reaction was far more childish than the incident I allowed to tr...

wantneeda · wantneeda

is the name of the roundup I am fortunate and grateful to be able to attend this week end. Thanks to the group i'm considering joining, they gave me a ticket to go to. i love roundups! what does unity mean to you? for me.... WE cannot do alone what WE can do together. :) the fi...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Fending off loneliness (Extract from Living Sober) Alcoholism has been described as "the lonely disease," and very few recovered alcoholics argue the point. Looking back at the last years or months of our drinking, literally hundreds of thousands of us remember feeling isolated eve...

Phil · Phil

"Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs." All of A.A.'s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires . . . they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any Step is more necessary...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Do not compare yourself with others, for you are a unique and wonderful creation. Make your own beautiful footprints in the snow. -- Barbara Kimball Comparisons we make of ourselves to other women do destruction far greater than our conscious minds are aware of. Positioning ourselves or her...

Wren · Wren

“Balance is a dynamic process; it changes with the days, the seasons, the years.” -- Sherrill Sellman How rigid are your routines? Do you exercise for 30 minutes, three times each week no matter how you feel? Routines and structure can provide a valuable framework to bring disciplin...

RyanS · RyanS

"Not Allied With Any Sect . . ." "While A.A. has restored thousands of poor Christians to their churches, and has made believers out of atheists and agnostics, it has also made good A.A.'s out of those belonging to the Buddhist, Islamic, and Jewish faiths. For example, we question very muc...

Wren · Wren

Perception There is no secret recipe for happiness and contentment. The individuals who move through life joyously have not necessarily been blessed with lives of abundance, love, success, and prosperity. Such people have, however, been blessed with the ability to take the circumstances the...

Doll · Doll

OVERCOMING LONELINESS Almost without exception, alcoholics are tortured by loneliness. Even before our drinking got bad and people began to cut us off, nearly all of us suffered the feeling that we didn't quite belong. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 90 The agonies and the void that I often felt inside occur less...

LisaF · LisaF

Talked to my sponsor today... we agreed more or less the whole thing about the pills and how I'm doing was a communication problem... I should've asked her for clarification before asking anyone else about it. But she had flat out said I wasn't sober, how do you take that wrong? I assumed ok I need to pick...

Robert · Robert

PEEK A BOO! OH NO ITS A BIRD!! thats better -- Edited by Robert at 14:33, 2006-11-17

Quetzal · Quetzal

I think happiness is like the effect on an audience (when acting), if you think of it all the time you will not get it, you must get lost in the part, lost in your purposes and let the effect be the criterion of your success. -- Joanna Field Happiness is a gift that accompanies every instance of our li...

Scott · Scott

Just to give a little update on where I am, for those of you who I've spoken with before... Since October 29, I have stumbled twice. A week ago today, I went out and had 3 beers at the bar. Then on Monday of this week, I had a particularly bad day, and I ended up binging that night and missing wo...

Phil · Phil

The Language of Letting Go. Trust in God and do something. --Mary Lyon It's important to let ourselves grieve as a passage between yesterday and tomorrow. But we do not have to be controlled unduly by our grief, or our pain. There are times when we have grieved, surrendered to the h...

SheIsSober · SheIsSober

I'm celebrating my 6 month sobriety anniversary today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow, 6 whole months and it's really wild, because yesterday and the day before were the first days that I actually felt like my life was really shaping up. The eating disorder has a lot to do with w...

Robert · Robert

I am emotional eating, and I have put on a load of weight, and cant seem to cut it.. anyone else been there?

toni baloney · toni baloney

Hi There Amanda, Well it has been a while, and just wanted to say, it was so good to see you again, here on MIP. I have not been very active on this Board, have been so busy with a new puppy, and my meetings and some other personal stuff, but I do read about once a week to see how everyone is doing. A...

RyanS · RyanS

Foundation For Life We discover that we receive guidance for our lives to just about the extent that we stop making demands upon God to give it to us on order and on our terms. ************************************** In praying, we ask simply that throughout the day God place in u...

Quetzal · Quetzal

The answer to personality problems is found in a quiet return to God-like thinking. -- Science of Mind magazine When we're edgy and critical or perhaps feeling inadequate or depressed, we've lost our attunement with God. And when acting the way God would have us act is no longer our priority, our...

Phil · Phil

"Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him" Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked. All we need is a key, and the decision to swing the door open. There is only one key, and it is called willingnes...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Before a secret is told, one can often feel the weight of it in the atmosphere. -- Susan Griffin Newcomer When I had a wisdom tooth pulled a few days ago, the dentist gave me a medication that contains codeine. I've heard people at meetings say they take their doctors' prescriptions, s...

RyanS · RyanS

I met a woman, and we hit it off very well. We talk for hours over the phone, say goodbye 15 times before we hang up, and have found mutual understanding on a deep level, almost scarry. To top it off, we're both single parents and share a lot of the same ideals about our futures and what we want. Uncanny. We bo...

CAM · CAM

Growing Up "How many of us would presume to declare, 'Well, I'm sober and I'm happy. What more can I want, or do? I'm fine the way I am.' We know that the price of such self-satisfaction is an inevitable backslide, punctuated at some point by a very rude awakening. We have to grow or else deterior...

LisaF · LisaF

I talked to mine and my sponsor's friend before the meeting, because I was supposed to pick up my 3 month chip today... and my sponsor had told me I'm not sober because of the sleeping pills, so I told my friend about that and asked what she thought... she asked how I'm using the pills, and I said I take them e...

RyanS · RyanS

Moral Responsibility "Some strongly object to the A.A. position that alcoholism is an illness. This concept, they feel, removes moral responsibility from alcoholics. As any A.A. knows, this is far from true. We do not use the concept of sickness to absolve our members from responsib...

Phil · Phil

"We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable." Who cares to admit complete defeat? Practically no one, of course. Every natural instinct cries out against the idea of personal powerlessness. It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our m...

Doll · Doll

DAILY REPRIEVE What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 Maintaining my spiritual condition is like working out every day, planning for the marathon, swimming laps, jogging. It's staying in good shape spi...

Phil · Phil

Step Two "Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity." The moment they read Step Two, most A.A. newcomers are confronted with a dilemma, sometimes a serious one. How often have we heard them cry out, "Look what you people have done to us! You have convinced us that w...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

Just a post to say that I appreciate very much the efforts that Phil has been making, and to say 'hello'. God bless you all, love in recovery, amanda

Quetzal · Quetzal

Reflection for the Day What is the definition of humility? "Absolute humility," said AA co- founder Bill W., "would consist of a state of complete freedom from myself, freedom from all the claims that my defects of character now lay so heavily upon me. Perfect humility would be a full wil...

RyanS · RyanS

Moral Rresponsibility "Some strongly object to the A.A. position that alcoholism is an illness. This concept, they feel, removes moral responsibility from alcoholics. As any A.A. knows, this is far from true. We do not use the concept of sickness to absolve our members of responsibility. On t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Vulnerable Honesty There's a fine line between being vulnerably honest and just being honest. Has a friend ever called early in the morning, right when you were waking up? Can you remember how you talked then, before your defenses were up? When we're vulnerably honest, our defenses are dow...

Doll · Doll

VITAL SUSTENANCE Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more do without it than we would refuse air, food, sunshine. And for the same reason. When we refuse air, light or food, the body suffers. And when we turn away from meditation and prayer, we likewise deprive our minds, our e...

Phil · Phil

A number of days ago..I was asked to share on the Alanon board....and try to share some positive stuff.. Im not only an alcoholic....but a member of Alanon as well.... I've come to the point where....I can't do it, anymore...I'm Powerless All I see is anger, resentment, reacting, and hurt.......

LisaF · LisaF

I opened up to my sponsor today... told her how I've been feeling... one of my alters apparently called her before I talked to her today and told her all this, what's going on with me. I also told her about being addicted to sleeping pills, and she said because of that I'm not sober... She's suggestin...

CAM · CAM

Withholding The most common form of withholding is what we commonly call "the silent treatment," but withholding encompasses any unwillingness to express your true feelings. It also includes an unwillingness to give support, praise, or positive attention to the people you love. We have all kn...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

Expectations, expectations, expectations! Followed by a long list of expletives!

I just saw my doc. and he said I'll most likely be outta work for another two weeks.

I've been worrying about how this will affect my job, being out of work for three weeks. I've worked so hard to se...

LisaF · LisaF

I've been putting on an act with everyone lately... I'm really not doing too great... no one knows how I'm really doing... I'm trying to open up a little online today, where I can get some kind of support... not even my sponsor knows how I'm really doing... well, Nikki, one of my alters, said she was going...

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	family disease (Preview) i love my dad, though he's been addicted since before i was born. they say dont try to 12 step family, but i tried anyway. now finally his battered body has had enough and he's on his way out. i have mixed emotions because it has been a love hate thing. he's a tough old guy, and lived a hard life. a logger in his...	cindy	2	361	Nov 20, 2006 by cindy
	round up was awesome!!! (Preview) heard lots of stuff i liked, brought lots of it home with me... bought 2 books...one called coming to believe...its on step 2 a pocket size Big Book for my purse then today i met an old fellow that came all the way from Kenora, Ontario for the roundup, He wanted to buy me a book, the 12 by 12...1...	wantneeda	4	368	Nov 20, 2006 by cindy
	Daily Reflections Nov 20 (Preview) "THY WILL, NOT MINE" . . . when making specific requests, it will be well to add to each one of them this qualification. ." . . . if it be Thy will." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 102-03 I ask simply that throughout the day God place in me the best understanding of His will that I can have for that day...	Doll	1	316	Nov 20, 2006 by Phil
	The Senility Prayer (Preview) God, grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to know the difference. O.K. If you've seen it before, chalk it up to late-arriving spam...Tim -- Edited by timverton at 09:56, 2006-11-20	timverton	2	377	Nov 20, 2006 by Phil
	Corporate Lessons From Cana..Du eh... (Preview) 5 Corporate Lessons Corporate Lesson 1 A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower when the doorbell rings. The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next door neighbour. ...	Phil	3	408	Nov 20, 2006 by Doll
	The Language of Letting Go. (Preview) Accepting Our Feelings Why do we struggle so with our feelings? Why do we work so hard to deny our emotions, especially concerning other people? They are only feelings! In the course of a day, we may deny we feel frustrated in reaction to someone who is selling us a service. We may deny that we feel...	Phil	1	405	Nov 19, 2006 by Jo
	Hiya (Preview) Hi All, I'm newly sober (today is day 9 after a week-long relapse from 6 weeks of sobriety) and am looking for some kind of online community to fill in the cracks between meetings. Hope to get to know some of you better while I'm here. ZB	ZB	8	407	Nov 19, 2006 by ZB
	Gratitude for Today (look out, I'm in a mood) (Preview) How often do we get caught up in life's events, the days just roll on by, and we forget how rich and beautiful our lives are today? And I find it is in the small events, the little moments, that my memory is jolted. Today was like most days for me. Yknow, get up, get your coffee or tea, visit the loo, and check y...	Wren	2	313	Nov 19, 2006 by Quetzal
	Greetings - just got here (Preview) Hi all! I am finally able to log in here, after a long time trying. Thought I would take a sec to introduce myself to y'all... I am Leszlie, alcoholic. I have managed to put together 15 months sobriety, with the grace of God and AA. Most recently, I am being challenged by the loss of my beloved&n...	Zster	3	292	Nov 19, 2006 by Quetzal
	Addiction confession (Preview) MMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!......Turrrkeeeeeeeeeeyyyy!!!........	Sick of being sick	8	418	Nov 19, 2006 by Robert
	The Gift Of Ourselves (Preview) The greatest gift we can give another person is the gift of ourselves. When we can share our deepest convictions and failures, our ideals and disillusionments, our hopes and frustrations, our dreams and despairs, our answers and our questions then we are loving our neighbors as ourselves as well as...	Quetzal	0	313	Nov 19, 2006 by Quetzal
	Work with causes instead of effects (Preview) How do you work with anger? "Character isn’t inherited. One builds it daily by the way one thinks and acts, thought by thought, action by action. If one lets fear or hate or anger take possession of the mind, they become self-forged chains." -- Helen Douglas How do you feel about anger, in yourse...	Wren	1	310	Nov 18, 2006 by Phil
	Toni (Preview) Toni, I want to apologize if my temper tantrum over a post being edited triggered whatever went on here. I think editing ought be for spam or pure filth, but I dont run this deal and could have discussed it with the moderator like an adult. My reaction was far more childish than the incident I allowed to tr...	RyanS	1	286	Nov 18, 2006 by toni baloney
	unity (Preview) is the name of the roundup I am fortunate and grateful to be able to attend this week end. Thanks to the group i'm considering joining, they gave me a ticket to go to. i love roundups! what does unity mean to you? for me.... WE cannot do alone what WE can do together. :) the fi...	wantneeda	1	303	Nov 18, 2006 by Phil
	Fending off loneliness (Preview) Fending off loneliness (Extract from Living Sober) Alcoholism has been described as "the lonely disease," and very few recovered alcoholics argue the point. Looking back at the last years or months of our drinking, literally hundreds of thousands of us remember feeling isolated eve...	Quetzal	1	382	Nov 18, 2006 by Phil
	Numb Ba Five (Preview) "Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs." All of A.A.'s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires . . . they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any Step is more necessary...	Phil	0	295	Nov 18, 2006 by Phil
	Comparisons (Preview) Do not compare yourself with others, for you are a unique and wonderful creation. Make your own beautiful footprints in the snow. -- Barbara Kimball Comparisons we make of ourselves to other women do destruction far greater than our conscious minds are aware of. Positioning ourselves or her...	Quetzal	1	302	Nov 18, 2006 by Wren
	Be Open to Change (Preview) “Balance is a dynamic process; it changes with the days, the seasons, the years.” -- Sherrill Sellman How rigid are your routines? Do you exercise for 30 minutes, three times each week no matter how you feel? Routines and structure can provide a valuable framework to bring disciplin...	Wren	1	323	Nov 18, 2006 by ZB
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) "Not Allied With Any Sect . . ." "While A.A. has restored thousands of poor Christians to their churches, and has made believers out of atheists and agnostics, it has also made good A.A.'s out of those belonging to the Buddhist, Islamic, and Jewish faiths. For example, we question very muc...	RyanS	0	320	Nov 18, 2006 by RyanS
	Making Life Yours~OM (Preview) Perception There is no secret recipe for happiness and contentment. The individuals who move through life joyously have not necessarily been blessed with lives of abundance, love, success, and prosperity. Such people have, however, been blessed with the ability to take the circumstances the...	Wren	2	314	Nov 18, 2006 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Nov 17 (Preview) OVERCOMING LONELINESS Almost without exception, alcoholics are tortured by loneliness. Even before our drinking got bad and people began to cut us off, nearly all of us suffered the feeling that we didn't quite belong. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 90 The agonies and the void that I often felt inside occur less...	Doll	1	318	Nov 17, 2006 by Wren
	communication... (Preview) Talked to my sponsor today... we agreed more or less the whole thing about the pills and how I'm doing was a communication problem... I should've asked her for clarification before asking anyone else about it. But she had flat out said I wasn't sober, how do you take that wrong? I assumed ok I need to pick...	LisaF	1	326	Nov 17, 2006 by Phil
	This'll make me laugh/hopefully you too (Preview) PEEK A BOO! OH NO ITS A BIRD!! thats better -- Edited by Robert at 14:33, 2006-11-17	Robert	2	331	Nov 17, 2006 by Phil
	Happiness (Preview) I think happiness is like the effect on an audience (when acting), if you think of it all the time you will not get it, you must get lost in the part, lost in your purposes and let the effect be the criterion of your success. -- Joanna Field Happiness is a gift that accompanies every instance of our li...	Quetzal	0	297	Nov 17, 2006 by Quetzal
	Update (Preview) Just to give a little update on where I am, for those of you who I've spoken with before... Since October 29, I have stumbled twice. A week ago today, I went out and had 3 beers at the bar. Then on Monday of this week, I had a particularly bad day, and I ended up binging that night and missing wo...	Scott	8	372	Nov 17, 2006 by Scott
	Grief And Action (Preview) *The Language of Letting Go. Trust in God and do something. --Mary Lyon* It's important to let ourselves grieve as a passage between yesterday and tomorrow. But we do not have to be controlled unduly by our grief, or our pain. There are times when we have grieved, surrendered to the h...	Phil	0	311	Nov 17, 2006 by Phil
	6 months!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Preview) I'm celebrating my 6 month sobriety anniversary today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow, 6 whole months and it's really wild, because yesterday and the day before were the first days that I actually felt like my life was really shaping up. The eating disorder has a lot to do with w...	SheIsSober	12	401	Nov 17, 2006 by Phil
	sugar/cola/cookies (Preview) I am emotional eating, and I have put on a load of weight, and cant seem to cut it.. anyone else been there?	Robert	5	339	Nov 17, 2006 by Robert
	Yahoo Amanda (Preview) Hi There Amanda, Well it has been a while, and just wanted to say, it was so good to see you again, here on MIP. I have not been very active on this Board, have been so busy with a new puppy, and my meetings and some other personal stuff, but I do read about once a week to see how everyone is doing. A...	toni baloney	0	368	Nov 17, 2006 by toni baloney
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) Foundation For Life We discover that we receive guidance for our lives to just about the extent that we stop making demands upon God to give it to us on order and on our terms. ************************************** In praying, we ask simply that throughout the day God place in u...	RyanS	0	274	Nov 17, 2006 by RyanS
	Personality Problems (Preview) The answer to personality problems is found in a quiet return to God-like thinking. -- Science of Mind magazine When we're edgy and critical or perhaps feeling inadequate or depressed, we've lost our attunement with God. And when acting the way God would have us act is no longer our priority, our...	Quetzal	0	359	Nov 17, 2006 by Quetzal
	Numb Ba Three (Preview) "Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him" Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a door which to all appearances is still closed and locked. All we need is a key, and the decision to swing the door open. There is only one key, and it is called willingnes...	Phil	0	316	Nov 16, 2006 by Phil
	Secrets (Preview) Before a secret is told, one can often feel the weight of it in the atmosphere. -- Susan Griffin Newcomer When I had a wisdom tooth pulled a few days ago, the dentist gave me a medication that contains codeine. I've heard people at meetings say they take their doctors' prescriptions, s...	Quetzal	5	457	Nov 16, 2006 by cindy
	blah. (Preview) I met a woman, and we hit it off very well. We talk for hours over the phone, say goodbye 15 times before we hang up, and have found mutual understanding on a deep level, almost scarry. To top it off, we're both single parents and share a lot of the same ideals about our futures and what we want. Uncanny. We bo...	RyanS	7	385	Nov 16, 2006 by cindy
	Growing Up (Preview) Growing Up "How many of us would presume to declare, 'Well, I'm sober and I'm happy. What more can I want, or do? I'm fine the way I am.' We know that the price of such self-satisfaction is an inevitable backslide, punctuated at some point by a very rude awakening. We have to grow or else deterior...	CAM	1	303	Nov 16, 2006 by Phil
	confused but doing what I think is right... (Preview) I talked to mine and my sponsor's friend before the meeting, because I was supposed to pick up my 3 month chip today... and my sponsor had told me I'm not sober because of the sleeping pills, so I told my friend about that and asked what she thought... she asked how I'm using the pills, and I said I take them e...	LisaF	5	383	Nov 16, 2006 by CAM
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) Moral Responsibility "Some strongly object to the A.A. position that alcoholism is an illness. This concept, they feel, removes moral responsibility from alcoholics. As any A.A. knows, this is far from true. We do not use the concept of sickness to absolve our members from responsib...	RyanS	0	312	Nov 16, 2006 by RyanS
	For a freind, that hasnt joined us yet... (Preview) "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable." Who cares to admit complete defeat? Practically no one, of course. Every natural instinct cries out against the idea of personal powerlessness. It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our m...	Phil	4	375	Nov 16, 2006 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Nov 16 (Preview) DAILY REPRIEVE What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 Maintaining my spiritual condition is like working out every day, planning for the marathon, swimming laps, jogging. It's staying in good shape spi...	Doll	0	292	Nov 16, 2006 by Doll
	Number Two (Preview) Step Two "Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity." The moment they read Step Two, most A.A. newcomers are confronted with a dilemma, sometimes a serious one. How often have we heard them cry out, "Look what you people have done to us! You have convinced us that w...	Phil	0	315	Nov 15, 2006 by Phil
	thank you, Phil (Preview) *Just a post to say that I appreciate very much the efforts that Phil has been making, and to say 'hello'.* *God bless you all,* *love in recovery,* *amanda*	amanda2u2	4	333	Nov 15, 2006 by soberdrunk
	Humility (Preview) Reflection for the Day What is the definition of humility? "Absolute humility," said AA co- founder Bill W., "would consist of a state of complete freedom from myself, freedom from all the claims that my defects of character now lay so heavily upon me. Perfect humility would be a full wil...	Quetzal	2	465	Nov 15, 2006 by cindy
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) Moral Rresponsibility "Some strongly object to the A.A. position that alcoholism is an illness. This concept, they feel, removes moral responsibility from alcoholics. As any A.A. knows, this is far from true. We do not use the concept of sickness to absolve our members of responsibility. On t...	RyanS	0	308	Nov 15, 2006 by RyanS
	Vulnerable Honesty (Preview) Vulnerable Honesty There's a fine line between being vulnerably honest and just being honest. Has a friend ever called early in the morning, right when you were waking up? Can you remember how you talked then, before your defenses were up? When we're vulnerably honest, our defenses are dow...	Quetzal	2	400	Nov 15, 2006 by CAM
	Daily Reflections Nov 15 (Preview) VITAL SUSTENANCE Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more do without it than we would refuse air, food, sunshine. And for the same reason. When we refuse air, light or food, the body suffers. And when we turn away from meditation and prayer, we likewise deprive our minds, our e...	Doll	0	294	Nov 15, 2006 by Doll
	A realization (Preview) A number of days ago..I was asked to share on the Alanon board....and try to share some positive stuff.. Im not only an alcoholic....but a member of Alanon as well.... I've come to the point where....I can't do it, anymore...I'm Powerless All I see is anger, resentment, reacting, and hurt.......	Phil	3	329	Nov 14, 2006 by CAM
	apparently I'm not sober (Preview) I opened up to my sponsor today... told her how I've been feeling... one of my alters apparently called her before I talked to her today and told her all this, what's going on with me. I also told her about being addicted to sleeping pills, and she said because of that I'm not sober... She's suggestin...	LisaF	4	429	Nov 14, 2006 by cindy
	The Silent Treatment (Preview) Withholding The most common form of withholding is what we commonly call "the silent treatment," but withholding encompasses any unwillingness to express your true feelings. It also includes an unwillingness to give support, praise, or positive attention to the people you love. We have all kn...	CAM	2	448	Nov 14, 2006 by Phil
	Another lesson with expectations! (Preview) Expectations, expectations, expectations! Followed by a long list of expletives! I just saw my doc. and he said I'll most likely be outta work for another two weeks. I've been worrying about how this will affect my job, being out of work for three weeks. I've worked so hard to se...	soberdrunk	5	402	Nov 14, 2006 by RyanS
	not doing as good as I act... (Preview) I've been putting on an act with everyone lately... I'm really not doing too great... no one knows how I'm really doing... I'm trying to open up a little online today, where I can get some kind of support... not even my sponsor knows how I'm really doing... well, Nikki, one of my alters, said she was going...	LisaF	2	321	Nov 14, 2006 by Wren
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